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Priya Desai

@dumbo15

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Posted: 13 years ago

Is it me or does Purvi seem more concerned about her aai and aaji not telling her about Teju? I mean seriously she made wayy too big of a deal out of it. I feel as if that's all she cares about. I think even when Purvi gets married to Arjun he will always be last for her. She does not reciprocate Arjun's love that much and is not really that affectionate towards him. It really bugs me. 😒 What do u guys think?

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Posted: 13 years ago

Its only been a couple of days since she realized her love for Arjun! and Aai and Aaji she has lived for her whole life, plus her upbringing, her values, her morals and her dignity, her unselfishness...so it has hit her...but i think the heartache for Arjun is the different kind from the former- and this is all overlayed by her feelings how can she express her love for Arjun, when she knows she must sacrifice, to bring her Aai Baba together at all costs...

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purethought

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: abhimg
Its only been a couple of days since she realized her love for Arjun! and Aai and Aaji she has lived for her whole life, plus her upbringing, her values, her morals and her dignity, her unselfishness...so it has hit her...but i think the heartache for Arjun is the different kind from the former- and this is all overlayed by her feelings how can she express her love for Arjun, when she knows she must sacrifice, to bring her Aai Baba together at all costs...

Totally agree👏

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vgiri

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Posted: 13 years ago

I dont know whether she can give up Arjun so easily.Yeah it is 2 different feelings and yes She wants Aai/Manav together but Can she sacrifice Arjun just like that. Atleast if Arjun has cheated her then she can hold onto that thought and try to forget him. But she knows that he still loves her. Let's see.

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@crazy2012

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Posted: 13 years ago

Actually can't say now... after seeing Arjun in that party , same bangles in Ovi's hand, and after having conversation with Teju, one girl will naturally doubt in Arjun's affection towards Purvi. She might have a doubt that this love & affection is the temporary outcome of emotions & feelings of a rich & arrogant guy. If he really loves her, at the same time he has cheated Ovi also who is in love with Arjun when she was only 14.

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Priya Desai

@dumbo15

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Posted: 13 years ago

I mean I understand that now she's upset w/ him, which I can't blame her for, but I talking about after things are fixed. I mean when she talked on the phone w/ him about the whole power of attorney thing, I understand that it was something serious and something she was nervous about, but when he was speaking affectionately, like when he said at first, "So, finally u remember me." Which girl wouldn't smile at that? To me its a natural reaction to smile at that, but she was all serious and her expression was like, "Yea, I don't really wanna hear this right now" kinda look. I feel as if she doesn't care as much for him as he does for her and that even a jerk like Sacchu comes before him.

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sashashyam

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am afraid I do not see how he has 'cheated' Ovi .

That she has been (or has imagined herself to be) in love with Arjun (at 14, unless one is Shakespeare's Juliet, such feelings are generally an infatuation or a crush) does not mean he has to reciprocate it. If this was so, the great heart throbs would have to run for cover!

He never told Ovi that he was in love with her (it was DK's ill-conceived phone call that gave Ovi this wrong impression), and he has been trying to get out of the half-hearted commitment he made to her ever since he realised that he loved Purvi. and this irrespective of whether he was able to win over Purvi or not. These things happen in life - Arjun did not go looking for love, it just happened to him.

As for the bangles, he gave them to Purvi in an entirely different context, not as a gift of love. Ovi is a close friend, and why could he not have given her a similar gift as well ? Of course in the frame of mind she is in then, Purvi would be impervious to all these details, and one cannot blame her for that.

But the curious thing is that she never seems to think of asking Teju about what Arjun's feelings for Ovi were. Now that would have been useful for her to know, though it would not have made any difference to her decision to 'sacrifice' Arjun, she would at least have felt better about herself and Arjun.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Originally posted by: crazy2012
Actually can't say now... after seeing Arjun in that party , same bangles in Ovi's hand, and after having conversation with Teju, one girl will naturally doubt in Arjun's affection towards Purvi. She might have a doubt that this love & affection is the temporary outcome of emotions & feelings of a rich & arrogant guy. If he really loves her, at the same time he has cheated Ovi also who is in love with Arjun when she was only 14.

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sashashyam

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Posted: 13 years ago

I would tend to agree with you, more or less. As I have said earlier, in every relationship, there is one who loves and one who is loved. In this one, it is Purvi who is loved.

This said, one has also to remember that she is new to the ways of love (but then so is Arjun!), and is perhaps not a romantic at heart , like Arjun has proved to be in his new avatar. She has a mental straight jacket of family - with her aai-baba in front - work, responsibilities, etc. in which she is most comfortable. When she ran to the airport and cried bitterly, she was being dragged out of her comfort zone by a new and unsettling force. She was at her best in her confession scene and those that followed, but she is not of the melting in love kind at all. The realist in her - fears of what people would say, etc. - will always win out, whence the abrupt way in which she reacts over the phone to his teasing opening line.

One can be quite sure that if Arjun were ever to ask her to elope with him and get married in a mandir, her refusal would be instantaneous. She is no Juliet, our dear Purvi, but we love her nonetheless!

Shyamala B.Cowsik

PS: But I do NOT think that for Purvi, Sachin comes before Arjun !

Originally posted by: dumbo15
I mean I understand that now she's upset w/ him, which I can't blame her for, but I talking about after things are fixed. I mean when she talked on the phone w/ him about the whole power of attorney thing, I understand that it was something serious and something she was nervous about, but when he was speaking affectionately, like when he said at first, "So, finally u remember me." Which girl wouldn't smile at that? To me its a natural reaction to smile at that, but she was all serious and her expression was like, "Yea, I don't really wanna hear this right now" kinda look. I feel as if she doesn't care as much for him as he does for her and that even a jerk like Sacchu comes before him.

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Urben

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Posted: 13 years ago

Its not like purvi doesnt love arjun she does from the bottom of heart but if we think about it purvi have falln in love with arjun just few days ago..but she have been living with her aai and ajai for 18
Years...and yes at times it does make us viewers that she really doesnt love arjun at all cuz she never gives him chance to clear thigs out between them..the more arjun tries to talk to purvi to make things work out the more she shouts at him and i dont think any of us like about purvi 😡 ...and it does make us viewers feel sorry for our arjun 😭 ...and some of us want to tell purvi that plzzz just listin to arjun once of what he has to say from his side and both of u should stand by eachother as good moral support not brake down in to pices of glass.. 😕 ...all in all i think that its now time for purvi to fight for her love no matter what comes between her..and with arjun..just fight for eachothers LOVE... After all it is now their PAVITRA RISHTA 👏 what say ppl???? At the end all i have to say is LUV u ARVI u guys r the best couple jodi everrr on indian dramas... Muuuzzzhhh 😛

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Urben

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: sashashyam
<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">I am afraid I do not see how he has 'cheated' Ovi .

That she has been (or has imagined herself to be) in love with Arjun (at 14, unless one is Shakespeare's Juliet, such feelings are generally an infatuation or a crush) does not mean he has to reciprocate it. If this was so, the great heart throbs would have to run for cover!

He never told Ovi that he was in love with her (it was DK's ill-conceived phone call that gave Ovi this wrong impression), and he has been trying to get out of the half-hearted commitment he made to her ever since he realised that he loved Purvi. and this irrespective of whether he was able to win over Purvi or not. These things happen in life - Arjun did not go looking for love, it just happened to him.

As for the bangles, he gave them to Purvi in an entirely different context, not as a gift of love. Ovi is a close friend, and why could he not have given her a similar gift as well ? Of course in the frame of mind she is in then, Purvi would be impervious to all these details, and one cannot blame her for that.

But the curious thing is that she never seems to think of asking Teju about what Arjun's feelings for Ovi were. Now that would have been useful for her to know, though it would not have made any difference to her decision to 'sacrifice' Arjun, she would at least have felt better about herself and Arjun.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

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