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I really dont see how Manav will support Purvi and not his own daughter Ovi- he must be there for her (Ovi) I also feel really sorry for Ovi, she and Arjun were expected to get engaged, so she will feel betrayed and rightly so

Celina, I feel sorry for Ovi too but not sorry enough to say that Arjun should give up Purvi for her. We are giving the boy a break, he needs to feel bad. If he was serious about marrying Ovi, he should never have given Purvi a second glance. If he couldn't help himself and fell in love despite his best intentions, he should have told Ovi and DK and Purvi about the mess he was in. Just because he had the intention to tell them doesn't get him off the hook - after all, the way to hell is paved with good intentions and poor Arjun is soon going to discover his own personal hell. We all agree he loves Purvi, just saying he didn't have the guts not to be blindsided and so proved himself a hero with an Achilles heel.

I have been away for the weekend, and this happens. Tsk tsk. WTH. was not expecting this. But yes, Arjun actions were not acceptable for someone who was ready to fight for his love, who was willing to leave India and not return should his Purvi not reciprocate his love. That obviously has gone down the drain. To be honest, I have yet to see the SBS segment, but by everyone comments, I don't think that anything can be said or done to justify Arjun's actions of going ahead with the engagement.
But yes, What has to be seen, is how Purvi reacts to this. It won't go down well with her, but what has to be seen is who supports Purvi and I for one hope it's Archana and ultimately Tej. Tej did have some doubts regarding Arjun's feelings for Ovi. But yes, untill, Arjun decides to declare his love for Purvi, to the whole world, irrepsective of how Purvi reacts to this, I am going to be Team Purvi for now. Who says being in love and fighting for your love is going to be easy, but unless you have the courage to stand up for your love infront of the world, then sweetheart it is not love..

Mohabbat mein mehnat bhi karni padegi,
Dilwale mehnat se darte nahi hai,
Darte hai jo pyaar karte nahi hai.

Therefore the excuse that he did what he did for the sake of his father, is not acceptable.
Just putting it out there. I hope you guys got what I was trying to say.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Celina, I feel sorry for Ovi too but not sorry enough to say that Arjun should give up Purvi for her. We are giving the boy a break, he needs to feel bad. If he was serious about marrying Ovi, he should never have given Purvi a second glance. If he couldn't help himself and fell in love despite his best intentions, he should have told Ovi and DK and Purvi about the mess he was in. Just because he had the intention to tell them doesn't get him off the hook - after all, the way to hell is paved with good intentions and poor Arjun is soon going to discover his own personal hell. We all agree he loves Purvi, just saying he didn't have the guts not to be blindsided and so proved himself a hero with an Achilles heel.

Originally posted by: fijiana

I have been away for the weekend, and this happens. Tsk tsk. WTH. was not expecting this. But yes, Arjun actions were not acceptable for someone who was ready to fight for his love, who was willing to leave India and not return should his Purvi not reciprocate his love. That obviously has gone down the drain. To be honest, I have yet to see the SBS segment, but by everyone comments, I don't think that anything can be said or done to justify Arjun's actions of going ahead with the engagement.
But yes, What has to be seen, is how Purvi reacts to this. It won't go down well with her, but what has to be seen is who supports Purvi and I for one hope it's Archana and ultimately Tej. Tej did have some doubts regarding Arjun's feelings for Ovi. But yes, untill, Arjun decides to declare his love for Purvi, to the whole world, irrepsective of how Purvi reacts to this, I am going to be Team Purvi for now. Who says being in love and fighting for your love is going to be easy, but unless you have the courage to stand up for your love infront of the world, then sweetheart it is not love..

Mohabbat mein mehnat bhi karni padegi,
Dilwale mehnat se darte nahi hai,
Darte hai jo pyaar karte nahi hai.

Therefore the excuse that he did what he did for the sake of his father, is not acceptable.
Just putting it out there. I hope you guys got what I was trying to say.

Originally posted by: fijiana

I have been away for the weekend, and this happens. Tsk tsk. WTH. was not expecting this. But yes, Arjun actions were not acceptable for someone who was ready to fight for his love, who was willing to leave India and not return should his Purvi not reciprocate his love. That obviously has gone down the drain. To be honest, I have yet to see the SBS segment, but by everyone comments, I don't think that anything can be said or done to justify Arjun's actions of going ahead with the engagement.
But yes, What has to be seen, is how Purvi reacts to this. It won't go down well with her, but what has to be seen is who supports Purvi and I for one hope it's Archana and ultimately Tej. Tej did have some doubts regarding Arjun's feelings for Ovi. But yes, untill, Arjun decides to declare his love for Purvi, to the whole world, irrepsective of how Purvi reacts to this, I am going to be Team Purvi for now. Who says being in love and fighting for your love is going to be easy, but unless you have the courage to stand up for your love infront of the world, then sweetheart it is not love..

Mohabbat mein mehnat bhi karni padegi,
Dilwale mehnat se darte nahi hai,
Darte hai jo pyaar karte nahi hai.

Therefore the excuse that he did what he did for the sake of his father, is not acceptable.
Just putting it out there. I hope you guys got what I was trying to say.

How apt is that.👏

Very good analysis & keep it up..👏

I wud also love to be fallen under group one..die hard romantic...

But..at the Air port scene while Purvi was crying I may hold a differ opinion from you.. of course the expression of love does not fall under any numeric counting still when anyone starts realising about her feelings for the first time it seems to be very different color of emotions .. thus Purvi may have said this and Arjun is the person who taught her to be in love ( indirectly may be).. thus he is the first man in her life who helped her a lot to understand that middle class girls also have the right to be in love..before that she was a rigid and stubborn person for love..i must say..

I think DK and Manav has totally successfully done their job by keeping their surprise party..the party was indeed very surprising and shocking ...i must say. Arjun was seemed to be surprised by the influence of this sudden announcement..Purvi's expression was not clear..but I feel very empathetic for her...she will be negatively famous if Arjun really breaks his engagement with Ovi. Because in India the girl is blamed for the entire situation...and may be treated as " PANUTI" ( treated as bad symbol of incidence) ...it happens with the girl very often..😭😭😭😭😭

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Just a gut feeling - Sulo didn't support Purvi but was ready to think the worst of her with the MMS situation. Again, when Purvi refused to go back to the office, Sulo was suspicious. Also, she is so taken in with Archana's daughters that I think she will take Ovi's side against Purvi.

ty
hope sulo doesnt do that or she will actually prove her credibility with people who dont agree with her like me. plus thats extremely selfish with someone u claim as their own.

Sulo told Sachin that Archana manav did eevrything to keep u - a sautela person happy and u r diong something like this and what abt purvi

that wud be heartbreaking for the girl. if sulo does the same

Originally posted by: crazy2012

Very good analysis & keep it up..👏

I wud also love to be fallen under group one..die hard romantic...

But..at the Air port scene while Purvi was crying I may hold a differ opinion from you.. of course the expression of love does not fall under any numeric counting still when anyone starts realising about her feelings for the first time it seems to be very different color of emotions .. thus Purvi may have said this and Arjun is the person who taught her to be in love ( indirectly may be).. thus he is the first man in her life who helped her a lot to understand that middle class girls also have the right to be in love..before that she was a rigid and stubborn person for love..i must say..

I think DK and Manav has totally successfully done their job by keeping their surprise party..the party was indeed very surprising and shocking ...i must say. Arjun was seemed to be surprised by the influence of this sudden announcement..Purvi's expression was not clear..but I feel very empathetic for her...she will be negatively famous if Arjun really breaks his engagement with Ovi. Because in India the girl is blamed for the entire situation...and may be treated as " PANUTI" ( treated as bad symbol of incidence) ...it happens with the girl very often..😭😭😭😭😭

Originally posted by: nirvanlove

ty
hope sulo doesnt do that or she will actually prove her credibility with people who dont agree with her like me. plus thats extremely selfish with someone u claim as their own.

Sulo told Sachin that Archana manav did eevrything to keep u - a sautela person happy and u r diong something like this and what abt purvi

that wud be heartbreaking for the girl. if sulo does the same