Originally posted by: Darlyne
Purvi Dear it is not completely irrational for you to get mad at Arjun for kissing your forehead, but you need some thinking. All these thinking are necessary for you if you don't have any feelings for him.
1) When you were with Arjun in the elevator, he said you were a good friend, and he like to spend time with you then wiped your tears. Why you were not alarmed and stop him then?
2) At the hospital why you had to help him by putting his arm around your shoulder, we understand that you were trying to help him but it was public place, you were from middle class then too, and also engaged. To help him you could have called an assistant from the hospital too.
3) On holi day, after having colors on both of you, Arjun wanted to cancel the meeting but you took him at your place knowing that your aaji was not home, and you were leaving in chawl.
4) What was the need to have the picture taken at Dhaba standing next to him?
5) At the temple you were in his arm for a long time after snake was gone, and you never mentioned about that shiv puja to anyone.
Think in all these situations Arjun always behaved like a gentleman, and never took any advantage. It is not uncommon that in critical situation a good friend hugs and kisses on forehead to give the comfort'
Hi Darlyne, I agree with you on most Points. However, I am on both Purvi and Arjun's side. Just feel the need to share this.
At a moment, when a woman's character has been slandered, she will behave irrationally. She will forget the moments of deep friendship she had shared with Arjun, someone she respected so much.
Purvi is right in some way. Her whole character has been maligned as a result of the video. A video which was taken because Arjun did not call one of the other employees into the room. It was a serious mistake on his part. He did not realise the repurcussions it would have.
Plus, kissing is a big thing, even on the forehead for Purvi,especially when her whole life is at stake. She was pyschologically disturbed and when Arjun kissed her, she realised that this proximity with him will lead her nowhere.
Arjun is very rich and a man, can afford to not be bothered by the video.. because his face was not that clearly visible either.. he can move on.. he is engaged to Ovi, will get married.. so, he is secure.
Purvi is neither rich nore secure .. imagine her psychology. She is an orphan, has money issues, has to see Manav and Archana, people she considers her parents divorcing, her engagment just broke, the fellow one she was engaged to, Vinay accuses her in front of everyone, they all see her video, and look down upon her, all her hard work gone down the drain.
Arjun should not have kissed her. The mms which floated was about a kiss and he did just that to her in the office room. i know he wanted to make her feel better, console her and that Arjun is a very good man, but it was not the right time to do so.
Purvi has never been kissed by anyone before, she was aghast, she doesn;t know he likes her like that. She was emotionally very very disturbed. More than Arjun.
But Arjun is right in his place too, but he chose the wrong time and place to do it.I am on Arjun's side too.
but he should have maintained professional distance with Purvi.. as he is getting engaged soon..he behaves emotionally around her rather than rationally.
Arjun is a very good man but any man who is about to get engaged.. will keep other women at an arms length.. he just wasn't doing that with Purvi.. Arjun needs to question his heart now.. high time..
I think Purvi needs to question herself too, yes, but she is no state to do it now..
Arjun is a sweetheart and I have empathy for both of them..
Edited by purethought - 13 years ago
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