Is it RIGHT decision for Puni to get married? - Page 2

punni isnt a young tenage girl,she is totally awre what is she doing,no1 can stop her,unless she decides its enough.these days evn small kids want to do what they feel is right.i just feel purvi should have been her friend and tell her that she is wrong rather then being jassos,she should have help her as a friend,and marriagr of puni not happening willdestroy another family and ttheir lives

Originally posted by: sherma

punni isnt a young tenage girl,she is totally awre what is she doing,no1 can stop her,unless she decides its enough.these days evn small kids want to do what they feel is right.i just feel purvi should have been her friend and tell her that she is wrong rather then being jassos,she should have help her as a friend,and marriagr of puni not happening willdestroy another family and ttheir lives

It think Purvi did the right thing by exposing her true colours to the family because Punni was trying to blame her and point fingers at her morals. I think she did the right thing because Punni clearly didn't want to talk to anyone she called "tai". Forget a sister or friend she needs a serious reality check to understand what she is doing to herself. Only her own conscience can initiate change in her.
Long term Purvi did the right thing to help Punni IMO. But marriage is definitely not going to change her. I pity that poor boy and his family.

Definitely marriage is not a solution in fact they r making her life more complicated. Its clear she is not regretting for her past and still she wants to continue same thing so why to make life of a guy like hell? Better first they control her first and if they want her to get married than first they must reveal her past. Hiding might create more complications..
Infact no solution for punni.

Originally posted by: Shas3

It think Purvi did the right thing by exposing her true colours to the family because Punni was trying to blame her and point fingers at her morals. I think she did the right thing because Punni clearly didn't want to talk to anyone she called "tai". Forget a sister or friend she needs a serious reality check to understand what she is doing to herself. Only her own conscience can initiate change in her.
Long term Purvi did the right thing to help Punni IMO. But marriage is definitely not going to change her. I pity that poor boy and his family.

if purni wld have done all this for herself and her self respect it still wld be okay,but she claims she did it to save punni(god knows from what)and now after exposing her,aage kya,

I have got a very unorthodox response to this...everyone has tried their best to put some sense into this girl but it's all been futile. She is a fully grown woman now and capable of making her decisions no matter how unpleasant for normal people. If she is unable to change her mind set she should leave her family and become a model or high profile escort or marry some rich guy who can fulfil her needs. Not everyone conforms to the same mould in life. We will always have these outlier people in our society too.
I hope DK's son doesn't fall for her when he comes to India coz he is very businesslike and doesn't prefer his girlfriend to be clingy like ovi. Punni is not clingy and yet good looking too. Also I noticed that DK's son doesn't have a very good mindset...he wanted to fire people unnecessarily. His core values in life are kind of similar to punni's...