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Originally posted by: bonnefille

I am one of those who feel Savita was not in an abusive relationship. She was strong enough to very well handle alcoholic Damo. She was not vulnerable to the destructive Damo instead was a survivor to sail him through the years even when she didn't need to.

Not only Savita was in verbally abusive relationship with Damo but she herself learned to fight back..She might not have been a goat like Vandu...What I meant was goat or sherni she still stayed with an alchoholic for 30+ yrs..Which she should not have.Savita still wants her daughter to be with her abusive ILs...She wants to fix it with money which ain't gonna help...Vandu is doing the same..Remaining with Ajit in a hope that he will stop drinking, gambling and become a good husband-father...Typical abusee characteristics..

I believe its not necessary that parents' behavioural characteristics are hereditary but can be influential on the character base of the child. Probably Savita came so strong for Vandita that she didn't need to have an aggressive streak to her. Even now Savita comes to fight for her children and she is immensely protective of Vandu...probably that's the reason she has nurtured behavioural traits. Also she was the youngest in the family...probably that makes her dependent on Ajit even though she has the capability of coming on her own.

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

Fail to understand why Archana has to wait for dinner time to reveal the truth to Manav. N why should she still keep mum even when Vandu was upset n Savita was telling that they would taunt n abused her daughter?Manav also thinks it is a good decision to keep quiet!!😕

Right On Jaanu...I have the same question...Why didn't Archu share this with Manav-Savita b4 in private? Again why not open her mouth in front of them all...Dudh ka dudh aur pani ka pani...If Manav, Savita or Vandu not believing her is the chance she took anyways...manav did believe her na...So he would have believed her anyways..So would Vandu but not the way in front of all but in private..

Cosequences:
- Savita would hate Archana big time coz she wont understand her divine intervention n even if she decides to spill the beans she wont believe her coz she is just too upset now.
- Manav would b called all kind of names by his mom.
So emotional atyachar full swing

Varsha di, agree to the points raised by you. It would be interesting to know Savita's perspective if she happens to counsel Vandita. Savita and Damo's early years of marriage comes through interpretations from their present status in marriage.

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Originally posted by: suan

But I am sure if Vandu was told abt what Rassi-Ajit were discussing, She would have belived Archu...She and Damo have been Archu bhakta from the get go..Atleast Archu owed her this much respect...

Varsha,

Umm I don't like the way they place romantic scenes these days.Sometimes they are totally out of the place and pointless like they just threw it in there randomly just for the sake of it and It makes Manav look some romance hungry obsessive who cares for nothing else but romancing his wife.😕 Okay don't jump on me I still find them cute 😆 but they should not feel forced right? 🤔

Finally a good episode, Archana was impressive today. I was sure that she was going to stop Manav so she could apologize to Ajit but fortunately that did not happen instead she refused to give the money, it was a bold move on her part as she had to know she would face heat for her decision but I'm happy she did it. The only thing Archana should have done differently was inform Manav ahead of time about what she heard. I am just glad that things got sorted out between Manav and Archana before another misunderstanding happened where Manav insulted her.

The first thing that came to my mind after watching the show today was BAD DIRECTION...

Savita will just put the blame on Archana, things will never change. It is Archana who will face the heat no one else. Even when Archana comes forward with the truth it will be of no use. I am just glad Manav this time around actually took the time out to listen to Archana, he needs to do this more often instead of constantly misunderstanding her.