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suan

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1071

Today's episode was great! Loved how Archana stood up for herself and for the interest of her family! She overheard Ajit and Rasika talking and knew they were taking advantage of Manav. She had no one to back up her story, yet she spoke up and acted, in that she was the one who took away the cheque. Archana stood by her decision. That was great!!!

At first I thought Manav was acting his normal self and not giving Archana a chance to explain. Thankfully, that was not the case and he eventually gave her that opportunity to explain, and he believed her!!! Great improvement Manav and I hope this is the start of a better relationship between them.

As usual, Varsha's presence in the home caused problems 😡

If she wasn't staying there, she wouldn't have to be dressing there (that too in Arman's bedroom😡). She therefore wouldn't have had to be searching for her earring under their bed, interrupting their romantic moment. The only reason I'm not very, very angry, is because Vaishali was there too and they lovingly teased Arman about being "caught".

I'm glad Savita saw Ajit abusing Vandu. Now she knows what's really happening in that home. She now knows that her great "friend" Rasika, doesn't care for her (Savita'a) daughter, and that she doesn't think of Vandu as her loving DIL.

Update isn't ready, so am not sure if at the end, Rasika was telling Savita that Vandu was no longer wanted there. If this is true, then It was good Savita experienced it. She now knows what it feels liike for your daughter to be chased from her marital home by her MIL. Hope she realises what she would be doing to Archana.

Just as Vandu is a sweet and loving person, so too is Archana. If she is hurt by her daughter being treated this way, how does she think Sulo would feel?

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1072

Archana did not handle it properly IMHO no matter how right she was ..She does her rare Jhansi ki rani act at a wrong time...She was right in what she was doing but went abt it the wrong way and timing..She should have no matter what share this bit of information with Manav and Savita Aai together b4 making this surprise in front of Vandu-Ajit-Rassi, Guests and Sulo-Varsha-Vaishali...She made a fool out of not only her own husband but MIL Savita and Vandu...Too many outsiders for refusing to give a check which was wrong..Archana's today's decision to handle it this way she has not only hurt Vandu's feelings but her respect too..She could have had a private convo with Vandu too b4 all this..As I said mishandled totally..

I know I am a odd ball here..Ajit-Rassi should nto be getting a single penny...Because of Archu's act Vandu ended up getting insulted, beaten up..It all could have been avoided..

Glad Savita saw Ajit abusing Vandu..In a way I am glad Vandu is thrown out by Ajit-Rassi so now she can go to Deshmukhs with gudiya..Make a life for herself being self-sufficient..

Archana today showed true Passive-Aggressive behavior..

Manav actually handled it better with Archana...He asked her why she would do that and listened to her and believed her...But why all this discussions in front of Sulo-Varshu-Vaishu? Have they not heard of Privacy? Don't they know they are guests there and not to be around when family discussion is going on???

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bonnefille

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1073

Archana could have confronted Manav with the truth before hand instead of the giving a shock to him at the moment. Archana was going against the family decision...it will come as a shock to anyone...it came as one to even Sulo, Varsha and Vaishali.

About proof? her alibi to manav should have been enough. The argument that manav would not believe Archana fails because he did when he was told the truth.

Anyway I am really glad that Archana used her brains over unregistered business...hope she continues on her brainwave.

Savita should take Vandita and Munni away from L house. Nothing justifies abuse. Vandu is goat but Savita the tigress should protect her.

I really feel Ds together should counsel Vandita to get out of an abusive relationship. Many women continue to live in abusive marriage because they take it as their fate...it comes through their upbringing which may have led to weak character. They need right guidance and force for them to rise...nobody chooses to stay in abusive relationships. Vandita needs help and it should come from her family...its also about time. Hope ArMan wake up.

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1074

Originally posted by: bonnefille

I really feel Ds together should counsel Vandita to get out of an abusive relationship. Many women continue to live in abusive marriage because they take it as their fate...it comes through their upbringing which may have led to weak character. They need right guidance and force for them to rise...nobody chooses to stay in abusive relationships. Vandita needs help and it should come from her family...its also about time. Hope ArMan wake up.

Right on!!

Where do u think Vandu gets this behavior? Damo the alchoholic as a father, Savita a mother suffered with his taunts but stuck around with him for over 30+ yrs...Savita's reason to be tigress over the time, a built in mechanism for surviving...Yes Vandu should get guidance to get out of this hell hole kind a marriage..

This problem should be handled by Savita & ArMan as a family to Vandu..

Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago

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omshreejaanu

@omshreejaanu

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1075

Khalnayika number one n her chela cum son were patting their own back for stooping so low, working so hard to get where they have reached. One had to hug Savita tai n the other had to say that his goat face wife looks like a million dollar buck!! 😆No mistake as from now!! Savita is the murgi with the golden eggs should not b killed n should stay in our coop at any cost , the duo decided

ArMan scene:

Cute ArMan scene as usual.❤️ The saalis caught Jeeju red handed trying to get "do pal" with elder sister coz house is too crowdy n full of supervisors n inspectors.😉😆

Vaishu – oooh, u maha lucky tai. 😃After so many years jeeju still turns on by u, mine just notices my jewelry n gets turns on every time I wear a new set. 😆

Mine is completely turned off n ran away, the crackpot. Poor numb Satish!!

Wats the raaz, they wanted to know. 😛

Tai smiled which seemed to say: Wats the big deal. Just play hard to get n hubby is wrapped around finger or keeps under pallu.😉😆

The hungama at Ds

The Ds chief guests came late coz of rain n train. Nex time a car wil b perfect as gift. Sulo n Ds daughters wished the birthday boy who nodded with disgust. The Panoti queen n her daughters here!! Hope I don't land I a soup.😆 But he discarded those bad thoughts n started rubbing hands at the sight of the check but…

Archu switched to advocate mode n started - Why give check to ajit? Prasad n shawl are appropriate as gifts.😆

Terrible Savita - Why r u insulting my damaad? It's not ur money, so u just shut up n obey. Archu kept her nose up in the air: no money, no maafi…

Meanwhile Manav was going pani pani – huh!! Wats this new drama my wife is doing now?

Rassi- U r "rachaing" saazish against us Savita Tai. Thank u for the plates of insults n humiliations. Peth bhar gaya hamara.😆

The Ls went with nose flared n Vandu closed the ceremony with:

Why Vahini? Why this natak if u didn't want to give money? U've hurt me. N dada I wont forget wat happened here.

Felt terrible for Vandu ppl!! Later we all learn the raaz. Bappa sent Archu at the Ls to discover their phol. 😛

So...Ganpati Bappa Moriya!!😃

So Archu heard mom-son conspiracy. Manav thanked her. N approved her keeping a lock on her cute mouth. Why? Cant reallu understand these duffers logic.😕

Meanwhile a maha upset Savita went after them (felt bad for her too. It's terrible to see ur daughter getting abused) n thanked God!! That guy would have killed her under his mom's nose.

Karara jawaab milega!! , furious Ajit vowed.

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bonnefille

@bonnefille

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1076

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Right on!!

Where do u think Vandu gets this behavior? Dmo the alchoholic, Savita suffered with his taunts but stuck around with him...So her reason to be tigress a over the time built mechanism in surviving...Yes Vandu should get guidance to get out of this hell hole kind a marriage..

This problem should be handled by Savita & ArMan as a family to Vandu..

I am one of those who feel Savita was not in an abusive relationship. She was strong enough to very well handle alcoholic Damo. She was not vulnerable to the destructive Damo instead was a survivor to sail him through the years even when she didn't need to.

I believe its not necessary that parents' behavioural characteristics are hereditary but can be influential on the character base of the child. Probably Savita came so strong for Vandita that she didn't need to have an aggressive streak to her. Even now Savita comes to fight for her children and she is immensely protective of Vandu...probably that's the reason she has nurtured behavioural traits. Also she was the youngest in the family...probably that makes her dependent on Ajit even though she has the capability of coming on her own.

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bonnefille

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1077

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu
So Archu heard mom-son conspiracy. Manav thanked her. N approved her keeping a lock on her cute mouth. Why? Cant reallu understand these duffers logic.😕

I know...neither did I. 😕

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suan

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1078

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Archana did not handle it properly IMHO no matter how right she was ..She does her rare Jhansi ki rani act at a wrong time...She was right in what she was doing but went abt it the wrong way and timing..She should have no matter what share this bit of information with Manav and Savita Aai together b4 making this surprise in front of Vandu-Ajit-Rassi, Guests and Sulo-Varsha-Vaishali...She made a fool out of not only her own husband but MIL Savita and Vandu... Too many outsiders for refusing to give a check which was wrong..Archana's today's decision to handle it this way she has not only hurt Vandu's feelings but her respect too..She could have had a private convo with Vandu too b4 all this..As I said mishandled totally..

I know I am a odd ball here..Ajit-Rassi should nto be getting a single penny...Because of Archu's act Vandu ended up getting insulted, beaten up..It all could have been avoided..

Glad Savita saw Ajit abusing Vandu..In a way I am glad Vandu is thrown out by Ajit-Rassi so now she can go to Deshmukhs with gudiya..Make a life for herself being self-sufficient..

Archana today showed true Passive-Aggressive behavior..

Manav actually handled it better with Archana...He asked her why she would do that and listened to her and believed her...But why all this discussions in front of Sulo-Varshu-Vaishu? Have they not heard of Privacy? Don't they know they are guests there and not to be around when family discussion is going on???

Varsha,

Probably Archana felt Manav and Vandu wouldn't believe her if she told them ahead of time. For sure she knows Savita wouldn't want to hear one word from her, and wouldn't support her in this matter!!!

Archana probably felt that she had a better chance of preventing Ajit from getting the money if others were present.

In terms of private business being discussed in front of guests and strangers, that is so common in PR (and other soaps). I always am amazed when it happens. I always think...why are these people talking about such personal and private matters in front of others!!!! This happens at weddings, poojas, dinners, birthdays, wedding receptions...all occasions!!!!!! Will never understand it!!!

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suan

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1079

Originally posted by: bonnefille
Archana could have confronted Manav with the truth before hand instead of the giving a shock to him at the moment. Archana was going against the family decision...it will come as a shock to anyone...it came as one to even Sulo, Varsha and Vaishali.

About proof? her alibi to manav should have been enough. The argument that manav would not believe Archana fails because he did when he was told the truth.

Anyway I am really glad that Archana used her brains over unregistered business...hope she continues on her brainwave.

Savita should take Vandita and Munni away from L house. Nothing justifies abuse. Vandu is goat but Savita the tigress should protect her.

I really feel Ds together should counsel Vandita to get out of an abusive relationship. Many women continue to live in abusive marriage because they take it as their fate...it comes through their upbringing which may have led to weak character. They need right guidance and force for them to rise...nobody chooses to stay in abusive relationships. Vandita needs help and it should come from her family...its also about time. Hope ArMan wake up.

Hi Bonnie,

Very good post. You raised some important points here. Hope the CV's take note!!!

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omshreejaanu

@omshreejaanu

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1080

Fail to understand why Archana has to wait for dinner time to reveal the truth to Manav. N why should she still keep mum even when Vandu was upset n Savita was telling that they would taunt n abused her daughter?Manav also thinks it is a good decision to keep quiet!!😕 Cosequences:
- Savita would hate Archana big time coz she wont understand her divine intervention n even if she decides to spill the beans she wont believe her coz she is just too upset now.
- Manav would b called all kind of names by his mom.
So emotional atyachar full swing

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