Hatho mei aagya jo aaj rumaal aapka!! - Page 7

I am not talking about the abuse now ...that is an after math of what happened ...I just wish that manav had believed Ajit instead of Shibu ..and as for blaming Manav's darling wife ...I have already done that in my earlier post ( regarding vandu ) ...When Archana is wrong , I say that she is wrong .. have always done so whenever it is needed ...

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Manav has decided that no matter what anyone says , he will overlook any fault fro m Riya ...just he did with Shibu ... that was the reason he lost a good friend like Ajit .I know Ajit's gambling played a role too but Ajit could have been saved had manav trsuted him over Shibu ...that pushed Ajit in depression and look at Ajit now ...

Who is now suffering ...Manav's sister and his niece ...

Wish Manav had listened to Ajit ... even though Ajit did a mistake by gambling ...

Vandu is not suffering due to Manav's mistake or nature . Ajit was no DOODH KA DHULA that he sunk into depression and became the brute that he is now . He ALWAYS had brutal tendencies in him . What happened between him and Manav was a misundertanding but Ajit was EQUALLY at fault for losing Manavs trust . He had slipped and started gambling . Had Manav made him do that too ? Manav got SORELY disappointed in him due to that . Ajit's karoots only r such . That one loses trust in him . Sure he had helped Manav but he had destroyed Manav too . When one is unsure about a person , one';s confidence shakes .

Manav's niece and sister r suffering coz Manav's darling wife has NOT relayed the truth of his sister's abuse to him inspite of knowing about it . She tells EVERYTHING of her sisters to him ...she does not care to tell him of HIS sister's state .

The sister is equally to be blamed for not talking to Manav . But she is an abused woman and showing those symptoms. .

I agree especially at what you have said in blue. Archana told Manav everything about Varsha and Vaishali's problems, and Manav had even allowed Vaishali to stay at the chawl despite all of the rumors being said against them. It was thanks to Savita that she shut all of the chawl ladies's mouth. As far as Vandita goes, I don't think anyone in the Ds is worried about her. Manav is too busy with work, (which is understnadable) Archana is too busy in talking to her mother, and Savita is too busy with Sundri and other stuff. Damodar is in rehab, and even if he wasn't he wouldn't do anything for his daughter.

Vandita is at fault for not telling this to Manav, but so is Archana. Archana was told not to tell Manav this, but this doesn't mean she has to keep her mouth shut about this. Had Vaishali and Varsha had a problem with their husbands, Archana would have definitely relayed this to Manav. I hope they show Savita coming in Ajit's house and twisting his ear very tight. And I hope she yells her loudest at Rasika.

Originally posted by: bhallarox

The time Ajit and Manav got into a rift because of Shibu was a few months ago. Of course it was Ajit's fault for gambling, but Manav had fault too by beliving Shibu but all proofs were held against Ajit, so though I can understand Manav's anger for Ajit, he should have understood him more.

The abuse Ajit is doing to Vandu now doesn't have anything to do with Manav. Ajit was totally fine after the leap the one day with his wife and daughter and that was well after the Manav Ajit fight. I think the reason Ajit became bad was because he lost his job, and he got drunk. I don't think this involves Manav in it.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I am not talking about the abuse now ...that is an after math of what happened ...I just wish that manav had believed Ajit instead of Shibu ..and as for blaming Manav's darling wife ...I have already done that in my earlier post ( regarding vandu ) ...When Archana is wrong , I say that she is wrong .. have always done so whenever it is needed ...

Oh definitely, at that time Ajit was good, and his intentions were good at that time and Manav should have believed Shibu over Ajit, and though Ajit was gambling, Manav should have tried to knwo the reason why this was happening. If only that day Manav believed Ajit and knew Shibu's tricks then I think everything would have fine then. Another reason which would make Manav hate Ajit is that time when he slapped Vandu in front of him. That was wrong of Ajit, and I could understand Manav's anger at that time

I talked about Ajit only to draw parallels between his situation and Archana's ..

Yes he does , and he will never love anyone in his life but Archana ...but he loved her before also ...still he broke his marriage wows ...The reason was not love but hate ...and that is what Dharmresh will plant in Manav's head through Riya ...

Archana felt guilty for not letting Manav know to lie abt Varsha's abortion so Varsha was not able to adopt. She kept feeling guilty and insisted Manav do something abt it.

Originally posted by: shootingstar27

I wonder when exactly Ajit turned bad, after the lunch scene, remember Manav is supposed to bring Sachu home from school and he forgot? It was Ajit who brought Sachu back according to Archana which sounded like he was in good terms with ArMan then all of a sudden we see a jobless & violent Ajit 😲 Ajit can't even stand hearing Manav's name being mentioned, if he hated Manav that much,he wouldn't have brought Sachu back na?Such shoddy script writing

Hi omana,

The day Ajit turned bad again was that day he had gone drunk and he had slapped Vandita and beat her up very badly, and Rasika was smiling at the scene. Ajit really hates it when Vandita mentions MAnav's name, (don't know why) but if Vandita praises Manav in front of Ajit then she is right. Even Dharmesh doesn't like it when Vaishali mentions Manav but at least he doesn't become physical with her. Well, Dharmesh is bad in the way that he plans a lot of traps for Manav. Yes, Ajit did bring Sachu back from school and that was not long after the time he was with his wife and daughter at the shop but the day we came to know ajit was bad was the day Rasika was sayign to her daughter that Ajit comes home every day drunk. Such terrible script writing, they change tracks too fast

Both ArMan have broken their marriage promises but I found Manav's to be more understandable as his whole family had been sent to jail for no reason. Anyway, that was the past when ArMan did not know each other as well at that time, I hope Archana does not commit the same mistake again by going to her maika again (I don't think she will) but if Archana tries to explain to Manav about how bad Riya is and still Manav refuses to listen then I can blame Manav a little bit, but if Archana does not say anything to Manav, then it could be bad for both ArMan. I don't even know if Archana knows if Riya means harm to Manav.

Bhalla I dont feel we can spare Manav just because he is very busy with his work.. We cant take that as a reason.. Common now we have seen our dad's managing so well.. I know Manav is all busy but still he can atleast call his sister to check her condition and dropping into her home once in a while is no big deal... He can easily understand loking at Vandu.. It is not necessary for Vandu to tell her condition or hide her pathetic condition.. He loved Vandu so much and I think he still does... But getting away from responsibilities is no good...