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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#101

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Archu knows that her sister and Manav are all strong people and they are safe in their homes ...right now her priority is that she will ensure that her mother stays here only .

Wow what a priority .😆 Her priority my dear should be her CHILDREN . She dumps them on various people and roams like a ghost wrecked with guilt on the roads ...living in her sansar she is NOT in her sansar . Manav is STRONG and Safe , r her children strong and SAFE ? Varsha is still wanting Soham and Sundari ? The one who is the type to give kutta's medicenes to a human being ...with HER she leaves Soham ...

Sorry , I disagree .😊 Between Sulo and her Children , Children shud be top priority . And as far as Manav goes , its grossly unfair to USE him to track her mom by disrupting his work , using his resources , money , etc and then keeping him out of the main fact for which his help was evoked and used ...By turning around and telling his flabbergasted face that Yes Dear , I KNOW u helped , BUT Ur STRONG and SAFE , I gotta see that SHE is Strong and SAFE now .

I wud have slapped her if I was her husband and told her Oh yeah , I wash my hands off Ur maika forever . U handle on ur OWN from today .And FIRST look after ur children or Iwill speak STRONGLY to ur SAFE and SOUND MOM about this .

Yes , we differ so much na .😆 Chalta hai .😊

Yes Kool, It's Ok to differ .

Bu tfor me Archu has to make sure that her mother is safe and she does not leave the Ashram ...

I think her children are very safe at home ..And even Manav once was lying about Vaishali's marital problems because of Sulochna's health issues ...

I am not saying that she is not wrong in not telling Mnav, she is and will be punished ..what I am saying is that I feel bad that she is in this tight spot and hope that her mother stops being selfish and thinks about her as well...

I do feel bad for Archana on this one ...

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Shikha

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Posted: 14 years ago

#102

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

She is wrong in lying and feeling guilty about it ..He was wrong in lying and should feel guilty about it ...

That is how I saw the situation today ...😊

di , he didnt lie .. he gave the hanky to riya in the office .. and forgot to take it back .. so he did leave it in the office , like he said ... 😆 ...

As far as he is concerned , it is a non-issue ...

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#103

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Didn't manav hide vaishali's marital problems because he was worried about Sulochna's health ...So that is why I can sympathise with Archu for what she is going through .

BIG difference . Manav hid Vaishali's problem but Archana , his spouse knew . The spouses knew about it . And if Manav hides for long such things I have blasted him too . When ur married u tell ur spouse about serious issues . This Hiding business ain't good and its hi time Archana understands this . She can't go on like this . She gets no sympathy from me .

It'sd OK if she is not getting any sympathy from you ...I am sure you have your reasons ...

Hiding things from spouse is very bad ...

Both manav and Archana are doing it ...

Archu knows it is bad and she feels guilty ...very very guilty ..Three times she has gone to her mother to stop this but her mother is not listening ...If she goes against her mother there is a chance that her mother will run away from here as well and it will be impossible to find her ...

Archana just does not wish to take that chance and I understand this ...

I think if Manav was in her place , he would have done the same as well...

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#104

Originally posted by: lunza
It is a non issue but manav knew he was not telling Archana the actual truth ...That is what came in his mind ' I gave the hanky to Riya ...but I better not tell Archana or else she will ask me too many questions ' ...that is what he said to himself ...

I hope soon this non issue starts pinching him a bit ...iti s not as much of a non issue as he thinks it is ...

Archana is feelign very guilty about lying to him ...at this moment manav does not think that he is doign anything wrong and that Riya is a good girl ...I hope he soon starts feeling uncomfortable about this situation because I don't think Riya will stop ...

She will keep playing mind games with Archana and keep getting manav more and more involved ...
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Shikha

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Posted: 14 years ago

#105

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

but manav doesnt know that .. He thinks she is a damsel in distress and he is just lending a patient ear to her problems ...

lol .. the way I saw it .. he didnt want to lie to archana about why he gave her the hanky , why she was crying etc etc ... thats why he just told her the "truth" .. that he left it in the office ...

See , he actually avoiding telling any lie 😆
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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#106

Three times she has gone to her mother to stop this but her mother is not listening ...If she goes against her mother there is a chance that her mother will run away from here as well and it will be impossible to find her

So ? So Let her run away na . Let her . What Archana shud do is Phone her siblings ...call them there and tell Sulo ...U tell them what u told me ...That u will RUN AWAY Again if ur forced to come back . Guys she is threatening to run if COERCED . Lets not COERCE her . is my suggestion , Im tired of running after her ! Manav u have MY kasam if u FORCE her .

Manav wud NEVER force Sulo if Sulo threatens to run away . He loves Sulo . Sure he wud plead with her u come back , but if Sulo tells him SAME thing , he wud retreat . Sulo is after all , an ADULT .

If Archana's parents have this stupid habit of RUNNING AWAY , it needs to be handled strongly , not pampered .

The world does not revolve around Sulo and its HIGH TIME Archana understands it . The world shud revolve around Sachu Soham now .

If Manav is kept in tension and he goofs up , full Deshmukh family will come on the roads . Maybe it won't affect Archana as she thinks Poverty is a state of bliss , but Those poor people for ONCE were having some good days in their life . Archu's Mom will earn money but her sasural will become poor .

Manav has shown TOUGH LOVE to Savita . Its Archus turn now . Just like he cut apron strings , she shud too . APNA BACHA , APNE PATI ko prioritise karo . Everyone loves mother but Mother is telling happily , WE HAVE A FAMILY HERE , I WANNA EARN MONEY , DON"T WANNA COME . Understand the significance of those words . She has moved on , she doesn't need u or want u . So U come to ur senses and move on too .

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#107

I am very surprised that he still does not see what she is up to ...She has been so loud in her actions ...

But he choses not to see it ...

Both manav and Archana have weaknesses ..

Archna's weakness is her maika ...it is so clear that her maika only hurts her and thinks nothign of her but she refuses to see it ...

same way manav has a weakness and that is girls who are damsels in distress...he just cannot see beyond that ...

Right now , despite of her loud actions of flirtign , manav sees Riya as damsel in distress...so he is going to help her as much as he can till he finds himself in a totally helpless situation ...😆..

he helps these damsels so much that they get him in distress...

what to do ...

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Shikha

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Posted: 14 years ago

#108

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
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he helps these damsels so much that they get him in distress...

what to do ...

well , ya thats true ..😆

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#109

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

So ? So Let her run away na . Let her . What Archana shud do is Phone her siblings ...call them there and tell Sulo ...U tell them what u told me ...That u will RUN AWAY Again if ur forced to come back . Guys she is threatening to rub if COERCED . Lets not COERCE her . is my suggestion , Im tired of running after her ! Manav u have MY kasam if u FORCE her .

Sulochna needs a daughter like you Kool, not a daughter like me ...

I would have done the same what Archana is doing ...

I would have been very scared of her running away and would have ensured to win her trust enough that she promises that she will not run away ...

Sulochna , as always , is using her control over Archana because Archana loves her and cares for her..😡

tha tis what I was saying ...We all are people of different personalities and see things differently ...

It is not that what you are saying is wrong..It is just that if I was in Archu's place , I may have done the same so that is why I sympathise with her more ...

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#110

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Sulochna needs a daughter like you Kool, not a daughter like me ...
I would have done the same what Archana is doing ...

I would have been very scared of her running away and would have ensured to win her trust enough that she promises that she will not run away ...

Sulochna , as always , is using her control over Archana because Archana loves her and cares for her..😡

tha tis what I was saying ...We all are people of different personalities and see things differently ...

It is not that what you are saying is wrong..It is just that if I was in Archu's place , I may have done the same so that is why I sympathise with her more ...

My dear there is no question of u and me or different personalities . Some situations in life have NO ALTERNATIVE .

I am sure , both of us would NEVER deprioritise our children . SHE HAS .

I am also sure we wud cling to our children as Varsha eyes them . SHE HAS NOT .

One should NEVER MARRY if one wants to pamper the incessant rubbish of maika all the time ...why ? Coz another family does not NEED IT . It really does NOT .

Her family has been cause of Deshmukh destruction once . To her good fortune she has REGAINED a place there , and happiness has come in her life . Destroying them once more due to her Mother and her Lies is simply not done .

Cannot she see that Ashna hired extra help coz Manav lost focus ?

Cannot she see how his family depend on him for survival ?

and Sachu Soham ? His hard earned money is going in paying for peoples operations whom he does not even know , how about learning finances like Manav requested her to and investing that money in childrens name for childrens future ?

Getting married does NOT mean cutting off with maika

But being a daughter to maika does NOT mean neglecting ur sansar either

She HAS been doing that , we all saw it . At a certain point boundary has to be set . Someone has to teach Archana this . She cannot drag her sasural in the mud with her maika ALL THE TIME .

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