Archana is an dult now but she is still craving for her mother's approval and sad for her mother's is a selfish woman who will destroy her life completely.
There is a solution to this but CVS won't show it . They had ALMOST shown it when Manav had rebelled after baby's miscarraige and had walked off , shrugging Sulo's naseehat , first time showing his own mind .
When the mother takes undue advantage , the husband can be the counter influence . Manav can say to Archana things like ...
But what about YOUR protection , Archana ? Who will protect YOU ?
Look at your sisters . From WHAT ANGLE do u think they need ANY protection whatsoever ?
Are they the TYPE to need any protection ? Frankly I see them VICTIMIZING people .
What about our children ? Don't THEY need protection ?
Whose Duty is it to protect them ? OURS .
But I have to be away to earn Dal Roti . So the onus falls on YOU .
If all the time you are going to PROTECT your overgrown sisters , how will you do justice to our kids ? They are not getting ANY time or attention from you .
Why did you give birth to Soham then ? What is HIS fault in this ?
You are over doing the daughter bit and neglecting the mother bit . Its LOP SIDED , your development , its not UNIFORM .
I want you to tell your mother and sisters to manage for a while . You please remember the promises you gave me in marraige and do good by them .
I can adjust but My Kids won't Adjust . I am sorry Archana but Thats it .
Manav can say these things and halt Archana's crazy run . He really can ...he is the only one who has that kind of power on Archana besides Sulo . But he is only shown sitting at Sulo's feet .
The problem is , Ekta's CVS have extremely juvenile ideas of spousal love . They feel , agreeing to EVERYTHING that a spouse does is LOVE , even if spouse is WRONG .
They have completely forgotten that CORRECTING your spouse also falls within the sphere of Marital duties and commitment .