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Posted: 14 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: archanamanav


yea..even i don't like any of those vridha ashram people's face..they can't act at all..it makes sulo's excellent speeches look unimpressive..🤣



I think ekta got them free of charge yaar. May b they wanted to get a break in films n proposed their free acting talents!!🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: omshreejaanu



I think ekta got them free of charge yaar. May b they wanted to get a break in films n proposed their free acting talents!!🤣


i think these budde's are future parent candidates for her upcoming serial🤣..giving free auditions..🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: umayal

Jaanu Di, the Picture was 100% perfect for Sulo.
This is what Picture perfect is. Sulo and her trumpet...😆 😆 😆



Hey Umi😊
Sulo is really making angry these days. Have always loved her for loving her kids unconditionally n supporting them but i'm angry with the way she is imposing her ideals n ideas on Archana. This is not fair esp when she knows perfectly well thar Archana takes her like a role model n Sulo is using the influence she has on her n creating havoc in her life. I disapprove!😔
Pr is maha boring yaar! Archana is in big trouble. She is nothing without her mom, Sulo didn't cut the umbilical thread i guess! How sad!😭
Manav needs to shake n wake her up , she is like in trance instead he is encouraging her by being a yes man.




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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

Hi Bhalla😃
U r too sweet. Friendly is too weak an adjective, I'll say Nalini kaki's face sucks!!🤣
Sulo brags a lot, she likes to blow her own trumpet

My Varsha is one stubborn brat. I'm so proud of her. She throws her inlaws out of the house, gets them back, aborts her child, snatches her sister's son, ...n nobody can do anything in front of her zidd wah wah wah!!
My Vaishu is so sensible, she abuses a poor child day in n day out!!
My Archu is the ideal one. She is my carbon copy
My Vinod is the only kata in my phool garden


i am going to sing..teacher ji tujhe salaam..🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Cud not Sulo see that Archanas nature was simple , buddu , sheep like . And her sisters were aggressive , dominating tigresses . What will this simpleton protect THEM ? It is actually THIS simpleton that needs protection ...did not Sulo as mother see this ? What angers me is Sulo was there when Manav left.She saw with her own eyes,Archu turning into a zombie after reading his letter.She knows that writing a letter to Archu telling her everything is fine and don't look for me will not give Archu any peace of mind,it will only hurt her more and make her more determined to find the person who left her. After witnessing the heartbreak her daughter went through, she is still making Archu relive those days all over again. What kind of mother does this?

If I have 3 kids , as a mother I see to it that my most bholu one is NOT CONNED by the other two . My efforts go to smartening up my most vulnerable , simple child so she is not taken advantage of when I die . Or my efforts go in teaching the other two siblings that love ur innocent sibling a trifle more and always be there for her and protect HER . Its never vice versa. She has never told any of her other children not to trample all over Archana.It was Bhavna who pointed out what Varsha was doing is wrong to her face,not Sulo. Sulo seemed perfectly content with arrangement.Its what she expects her robot to do,give up everything.You don't deserve to be happy if your siblings are not happy.She is perfectly fine with everyone expect Savita treating Archana like a doormat.She only huffs and puffs when Savita mistreats Archana which bugs me because what she and her laadli children have done over the years is million times more damaging to Archana than what Savita has done.

Sulo did not read Archanas heart and destroyed her marraige with Manav . It had long lasting vitriolic effects .Fyi Archana somehow got everything back ...her husband , her kids , now the money , the love of saas that she had craved for . But now she cannot enjoy it . As she is still monitored by Mom from afar . Sulochana has no right to ask Archu to choose between her and her husband,she didn't have the right to ask everyone else in the family to cut ties with Archu just because Archu choose her husband.She was pissed Archana went against her, pissed because she is no longer the puppet master.What bothered her is she lost control, never once did she look at how happy her daughter was, how alive she looked when she came with Manav to take their ashirwad after walking around like zombie for months.

It is like this ...She is sitting in front of a plateful of delicacies but cannot enjoy a single morsel as there r no taste buds functioning . That is Archanas life , thanks to her mother .Archana has been raised by Sulo to live for others, to put their needs and happiness before her own, she is not allowed to be happy if her siblings are miserable.She has everything a girl could dream of but a lifetime mahaan conditioning and guilt trips will make her throw it all away.Archana is an dult now but she is still craving for her mother's approval and sad for her mother's is a selfish woman who will destroy her life completely.


Loved your post.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: omshreejaanu


Pr is maha boring yaar! Archana is in big trouble. She is nothing without her mom, Sulo didn't cut the umbilical thread i guess! How sad!😭
Manav needs to shake n wake her up , she is like in trance instead he is encouraging her by being a yes man.



I want our hero and Savita to save our girl.Mannu darling, stop sulking cuz Sulo is gone and make Archu realise her mother is using her. Listen to your mother, she is a good judge of character.Fight for your son, don't let anyone take him away for whatever reason, if Archu disagrees then scold her and or ask her to choose between her husband and siblings. Threaten to throw her out of the house if need be, just don't let her lose her son because she will give him up but will spend her life crying and yearning for him.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shootingstar27

He will never do that .He himself is Sulochna's biggest fan ..He has said many many times that he respects Sulochna because Sulochna has taught Archana how to do Tyaag ...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz


He will never do that .He himself is Sulochna's biggest fan ..He has said many many times that he respects Sulochna because Sulochna has taught Archana how to do Tyaag ...


He is the only person Archu loves more than her mother. I miss the Archu who went against everybody to get Manav out of jail and the Archu who agreed to run away from her mandap because she realised there is no point in ruining her life to make others happy.I want that Archu back, I'm so sick and tired of this spineless Archu.

I really want to see Archu playing with Soham the way Ankita is playing with Ahaan in my avi.
Edited by shootingstar27 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Archana is an dult now but she is still craving for her mother's approval and sad for her mother's is a selfish woman who will destroy her life completely.

There is a solution to this but CVS won't show it . They had ALMOST shown it when Manav had rebelled after baby's miscarraige and had walked off , shrugging Sulo's naseehat , first time showing his own mind .

When the mother takes undue advantage , the husband can be the counter influence . Manav can say to Archana things like ...

But what about YOUR protection , Archana ? Who will protect YOU ?

Look at your sisters . From WHAT ANGLE do u think they need ANY protection whatsoever ?

Are they the TYPE to need any protection ? Frankly I see them VICTIMIZING people .

What about our children ? Don't THEY need protection ?

Whose Duty is it to protect them ? OURS .

But I have to be away to earn Dal Roti . So the onus falls on YOU .

If all the time you are going to PROTECT your overgrown sisters , how will you do justice to our kids ? They are not getting ANY time or attention from you .

Why did you give birth to Soham then ? What is HIS fault in this ?

You are over doing the daughter bit and neglecting the mother bit . Its LOP SIDED , your development , its not UNIFORM .

I want you to tell your mother and sisters to manage for a while . You please remember the promises you gave me in marraige and do good by them .

I can adjust but My Kids won't Adjust . I am sorry Archana but Thats it .

Manav can say these things and halt Archana's crazy run . He really can ...he is the only one who has that kind of power on Archana besides Sulo . But he is only shown sitting at Sulo's feet .

The problem is , Ekta's CVS have extremely juvenile ideas of spousal love . They feel , agreeing to EVERYTHING that a spouse does is LOVE , even if spouse is WRONG .

They have completely forgotten that CORRECTING your spouse also falls within the sphere of Marital duties and commitment .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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But Kool, Mamnav does not agree to everything that Archana says ...When he gets angry with her then no matter what she says ...he does it his way ...
We have seen it in the recent past ...
He loves Sulochna because he is really in love with Sulochna's sanskaars and he loves it that Sulochna has taught Archan how to give Tyaag ...
He even told Shravani once that I can hear you talk against Archana but you better never talk agaianst Sulochna because today Archana is giving me divorce to give my tyaag and that tyaag has been taught to her by Sulochna ...
Also on another occasion he told Archana that to bear pain is our biggest strength ...
I loved it when he told Archu that she has to get out of the hosue and learn about outside world for the sake of their children and to her credit , Archana did do so by taking interest in the bank deposits etc ...but now it seems that Manav is Sulochna's biggest fan ...He is so disturbed that she has gone missing ...
Unfortunately , I don't trust Manav in this case anymore because he himself believes that whatever Sulochna says is good sanskaars and Tyaag is a good thing that Archana does .
Plus I have seen very little interest of Manav in Soham as a father , at least as of now ...
...The only way for Archana to learn to take care of herself is if she learns it herself ...and stop following whatever mummy says ...but I think it is too late for that now ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago

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