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Posted: 14 years ago
#41
thanee..very nice post..sulo just started her story ..by the time she finishes they will throw stones at her..😆..
u r right she might be able to keep the audience..and u r right she is good at brainwashing..archu is perfect example of that..she is totally brainwashed by her mom..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thank u Usha for this light humor , it was much needed

Like Mandy I too am BORED of this stupid track of Suloyan

Sulo is at PEACE so is Manju at peace and who r suffering ?Manav and Archana

Archana has ZERO LIFE left thanks to Sulo

Neither can she look after her lovely kids nor can she enjoy her husbands wealth , nor can she do duties of a bahu when her sasural truly needs her ...nor can she let Manav focus on this great job that gave them some position in life

At the end of this Suloyan , Manav is losing 50000rupees for a phokat a thing such as not giving ADDRESS of her whereabouts

They r losing baby to Varsha

Perhaps job . As He cannot focus and Dharmu may take advantage .

Actually Archana , at this point has EVERYTHING . A loving husband , two lovely sons , wealth , health , love of Saas Sasur . what more can a woman want ?

but Sulo has thrown her in frenzy with her stupid missing stunt . To Top it she has advised her NOT to bring AASOO in sisters eyes ever .

First only Archana listens to Sulo like GOSPEL . Now that she is missing , Archana will take these words EVEN more to heart as if they were diamonds to be treasured .

She will give Soham to Varsha and constantly re read the Chitti of Mom as if it was the Geeta .

And after all this ...Sulo will forgive Vinod just like that lady is forgiving her useless son and will go back to Manju .

What is Manju losing ? Nothing . No money , no job , No kid , marraige intact .

Archana however loses EVERYTHING . Thats the reason I was against this from the very beginning .








Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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This is why I am against this whole thing from the get go. What is wrong is wrong and should not be allowed even if it is a mother's doing.
Archu under the control of Sulo's brainwashing and her so called bakwas sanskars has made so many wrong decisions and hurt many lives. It is about time she comes out of Sulo Spell and starts using her own delicate gorgeous brain to look after her own life, marriage & family. Or else she has everything to lose and Manju-Sulo has everything to win.
On RB let Sulo forgive Vinod-Minchoo, Let Varsha-Vaishu tie rakhi to Vinod. Archana should refuse to go and stay put that she is doing Rakhi for Manav and Vandu. Deshmukh family has their own occassion. Do not fall for Sulo's sanskar bhashans.
Hope Savita gets vocal abt this wrong doing-happening.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Archana has it all and cannot enjoy it even a bit as her forehead is always creased with the frown of WORRY . Worry put by her Mother .

If Sulo claims to love Archana so much she should see to it that Archana is HAPPY .

Today she cannot enjoy her babies , her money , she cannot even help the Deshmukhs in their rare hour of need .

Sulo constantly advises her to look after Vaishu varsha .

WHY ?

Khud Toh aram se Ashram mein enjoy kar rahi hai .

She doesn't wanna come back even .

Everytime Soham is dumped on Varsha and Archana runs like mad to follow every little clue of missing MOTHER

Manju is happy with her kids and empty house

Sulo is enjoying being Neta in ashram

Archu is WRECKING her life . AGAIN .








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Posted: 14 years ago
#45
Are bhai Archu ko kaun samjhaye? Woh apne aapki sabse badi dushman hai.
She has never let Varsha-Vaishu go cry on Sulo's shoulders. She always jumps in and takes over like a mother does when their own mother is alive, well and kicking.
And manav going along with Archana's wishes actually he is not helping. He is pacifying wrong behavior. With calling Sulo Aai meri aai hai. No she is not. She is your MIL for crying out loud. Your loving mother is Savita and she is right there in your house.
Hope CVs read us and makes these adjustments. I want ArMan both go thru their own soul searching where they have made mistakes and build their relationships all over again but this time on truth. Lovely family and wonderful kids. They have so much going for themselves but dont have value for it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Are bhai Archu ko kaun samjhaye? Woh apne aapki sabse badi dushman hai.

She has never let Varsha-Vaishu go cry on Sulo's shoulders. She always jumps in and takes over like a mother does when their own mother is alive, well and kicking.
And manav going along with Archana's wishes actually he is not helping. He is pacifying wrong behavior. With calling Sulo Aai meri aai hai. No she is not. She is your MIL for crying out loud. Your loving mother is Savita and she is right there in your house.
Hope CVs read us and makes these adjustments. I want ArMan both go thru their own soul searching where they have made mistakes and build their relationships all over again but this time on truth. They have so much going for themselves but dont have value for it.



Varsha Di, it's so irritaing when Manav refers to Sulochana as his own mother. I feel these days he cares more about Sulo than Sav😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
#47
You are welcome kool..😃..actually i am so annoyed with sulo..why she has to lie about her daughters like this..😵..she admitted her son and bahu are bad only when they cheated her and threw her out..
she has some dushmani against archu..😒..i don't know why she has been ruining her life like this..😒..i hope this archu stops worrying so much about her when she has written that she is happy and safe..dhoor rahegi toh hi acha hai..can't imagine what she will do if she comes and stays at the D's..😲
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thank you my dear Usha for happy threads like this 🤗
I feel so irritated with the current track.I want Archu to find where she lives and visit the ashram with Savita.Archu needs to see with her own eyes how mummy has moved on and is enjoying life now being the 'leader' and pushing the responsibility of being a mother to venomous V's to her.Archu needs to know mummy doesn't give two hoots about her happiness and her married life. I want Savita to give Sulochana gaalis that she will remember forever and walk away with Archu calling her my beti. Airhead Archu needs to wake up and realise Savita loves her more than Sulochana and just focus on her family.Be a mother to her own children not Sulochana's.
Edited by shootingstar27 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shootingstar27

Thank you my dear Usha for happy threads like this 🤗

I feel so irritated with the current track.I want Archu to find where she lives and visit the ashram with Savita.Archu needs to see with her own eyes how mummy has moved on and is enjoying life now being the 'leader' and pushing the responsibility of being a mother to venomous V's to her.Archu needs to know mummy doesn't give two hoots about her happiness and her married life. I want Savita to give Sulochana gaalis that she will remember forever and walk away with Archu calling her my beti. Airhead Archu needs to wake up and realise Savita loves her more than Sulochana and just focus on her family.Be a mother to her own children not Sulochana's.


you know that scene where archu comforts varshu and vaishu was awful..🤢..yeh kya doodh peete bache hai kya?..to be a mother to them..😕..and advising not to let even a single drop of tear come out of their eyes..😲..kya hai ..😲..she let them cry their eyes out na..archu was miserable most of the time..i guess varsha was crying day and night too before sulo left home..she didn't do anything then..why advise archana like this..😲
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Posted: 14 years ago
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All I always felt whenever I watched this show and saw Archana's interactions with her family was This ain't right . She is getting over involved . Always I felt that way . Maybe coz I am of the old school of thought and those thoughts r not very welcome to generation of today ...but we were brought up to believe firmly in some things ...and one among them was ...over involvement in maaika after marraige yields no good . This does not mean relationship with maika ends or that a daughter is not equal to a son of the house etc etc . Nothing so extreme . Its simply that it works BETTER this way ...these were experienced advices passed on to us by older generation .

If Archana will solve Vaishali's problems , Varshas problems , Sulos problems . where will she have time to live her own life ? She has one body and one brain after all and it can only do so much , it is evident that she will not be able to do anything for her husbands family and her own lovely children .

All in Archanas family r ADULTS who can take very good care of themselves...they don't need supervision . They treat her like trash anyways once they use her . Has not Sulo as mother seen this ? What more evidence she wants ? That she keeps giving faltoo advice to her daughter ?

A mothers advice shud always be Grow Up and live ur own life .Learn how to live it responsibly . We r fine , we will call u if needed . But u go and shine in ur sansar , do not fail me .

Sulo lied about the perfection of her daughters . Varsha 's ZID is not pamper worthy . It is DESTRUCTIVE . She has destroyed the Joshi family's happiness . And Vaishali is NOT samajhdaar ...thats a big laugh . Vaishali is extremely NA SAMAJH . See what satyanash she has done of a small boy's life .

Savita may not be perfect . But Savita has NEVER burdened Vandu with her problems , and she had many . Damodars constant alcoholism , her depression , her many phases ...she did not pull Vandu away from her life . She managed them , albeit imperfectly , on her OWN .Maybe she was not always right in whatever she did but she let her daughter be .

Sulo however always wanted to control Archana . She hated the thought that Archana will give importance to a guy who has just become her husband over HER and she always gave Archana choices and made her feel guilty . Everytime she told Archana u bee AAI to ur sisters . U be AAI .

Cud not Sulo see that Archanas nature was simple , buddu , sheep like . And her sisters were aggressive , dominating tigresses . What will this simpleton protect THEM ? It is actually THIS simpleton that needs protection ...did not Sulo as mother see this ?

If I have 3 kids , as a mother I see to it that my most bholu one is NOT CONNED by the other two . My efforts go to smartening up my most vulnerable , simple child so she is not taken advantage of when I die . Or my efforts go in teaching the other two siblings that love ur innocent sibling a trifle more and always be there for her and protect HER . Its never vice versa .

Sulo did not read Archanas heart and destroyed her marraige with Manav . It had long lasting vitriolic effects .Fyi Archana somehow got everything back ...her husband , her kids , now the money , the love of saas that she had craved for . But now she cannot enjoy it . As she is still monitored by Mom from afar .

It is like this ...She is sitting in front of a plateful of delicacies but cannot enjoy a single morsel as there r no taste buds functioning . That is Archanas life , thanks to her mother .




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