Show Chat : 12th July 2011 - Page 12

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Bhalla I am only defending Archana as far as her loving both kids today since she got Soham back for good. I see much bigger picture than the leads or their romance. Must give credit where it is due 😃

In today's episode although Archana was right to some extent her comments abt Manav and Soham not knowing each other was totally uncalled for and below the belt comment.

I feel for Manav as he had no one supporting him. He needed a friend who could understand him. Archu could have supported him in his dealing with Sachu. She left Mannu hanging dealing with Sachu.

Tmrw he will apologize to Archu again while she should be the one doing so for not being there for her husband.

@blue, Agreed 1000% 👏 Just like how when Manav had to say sorry to Archana for not knowing English, it is time for Archana to ask for forgiveness from Manav.

When manav and Archana will care for Soham , love him and fight to keep him with them thn of course we would appreciate them ...but as of now , they have failed to do so ...till they keep treating that poor little boy this way ...I will be angry with them on this front ...

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

And that is the very reason why we are angry at Archana for discrinating against her own child ...

No one is tellign her off for not opening her heart ...As I said ...no one is that evil here ...

But at the same time ...only opening your heart and yoru home to someoen else's child and not your own is downright horrible and that is what Archaan is doign ...

She has a long long way to go before she proves herself to be a good mother to Soham ...

She has to fight for Soham , the way she fought for Sachu ...

She shoudl want Soham , which she doesn't appears to as of now ...when she will be a good mother to Soham , I will appreciate ehr ...till then I will blast her for being a bad mother to the little one ...

And Manav too is no less..He too is not a good father ...He has neevr fought to keep Soham ..He did so much for Sachu ...so why can't he do even 10 % of that for Soham ...It is very unafir to treat the two boys so different ..I feel so bad for Soham ...He is unlucky to have parenst who don't really want him that much ...

the way manav and Archan treat Soham , it would have been better , had he not been born ...They should have just stayed with Sachu as their son ...

Tanya I have Blasted Archana for the same reasons you are and have. So there is no disagreement there.

varsha di , i agree .. archu is the last person to intentionally discriminate ..
but i can also understand why tanya di feels that way ...

With TV being a visual medium ..i guess sometimes .. we really need to see the scenes to convince us ...

I mean , remember during archu's pregnancy .. we felt archu was detached about her kid .. bcuz we never got scenes where she is lovingly "talking" to her baby or thinking abt her baby .. ( added to that , the story line abt her being careless with her meds and offering her baby to varsha during first trimester got us more irritated with her..)
Manav got all those scenes ..
So it seemed like manav was more attached than archu ...

dont know whether i explained my point well ... 🤔

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

. If she loved Soham more than people blame her for being Stepmom to Sachu. She is not doing anything that mean Stepmoms do at times..

no one is asking for Archana to be a mean step mother ..how can anyone ask anything like this ...But at least be fair and equal to both the boys ...which she is not at this moment ...

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

When manav and Archana will care for Soham , love him and fight to keep him with them thn of course we would appreciate them ...but as of now , they have failed to do so ...till they keep treating that poor little boy this way ...I will be angry with them on this front ...

I don'tr care if I am their fan or whatever ...wrong is wrong ...

Let's hope that when Varsha comes and wants to take Soham away again, Archana and Manav will be there to protect Soham😊

Bhalla ,I still don't trust manav and Archana that if they will try and stop Varsha ...they just have not shown any loyalty what so ever towards Soham ...

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Bhalla I am only defending Archana as far as her loving both kids today since she got Soham back for good. I see much bigger picture than the leads or their romance. Must give credit where it is due 😃

Tmrw he will apologize to Archu again while she should be the one doing so for not being there for her husband.

archu is completely capable of picking a "dirty" kid beggar from the street and loving him as her own child .. she is that kind of person ...
she makes a great adoptive mother ...

and lol .. i agree about the last sentence .. abt manav being apologetic as usual..

Originally posted by: lunza

varsha di , i agree .. archu is the last person to intentionally discriminate ..
but i can also understand why tanya di feels that way ...

With TV being a visual medium ..i guess sometimes .. we really need to see the scenes to convince us ...

I mean , remember during archu's pregnancy .. we felt archu was detached about her kid .. bcuz we never got scenes where she is lovingly "talking" to her baby or thinking abt her baby .. ( added to that , the story line abt her being careless with her meds and offering her baby to varsha during first trimester got us more irritated with her..)
Manav got all those scenes ..
So it seemed like manav was more attached than archu ...

dont know whether i explained my point well ... 🤔

Yes we do need to see the scenes, lunza, you explained your point great, I think Manav was more attached to the baby (preleap baby) because Archana never lovingly talked to her baby, it was more Manav. Manav really cared about the baby that would have been born before. I still have not forgiven those four yet😡

Originally posted by: lunza

varsha di , i agree .. archu is the last person to intentionally discriminate ..
but i can also understand why tanya di feels that way ...

With TV being a visual medium ..i guess sometimes .. we really need to see the scenes to convince us ...

I mean , remember during archu's pregnancy .. we felt archu was detached about her kid .. bcuz we never got scenes where she is lovingly "talking" to her baby or thinking abt her baby .. ( added to that , the story line abt her being careless with her meds and offering her baby to varsha during first trimester got us more irritated with her..)
Manav got all those scenes ..
So it seemed like manav was more attached than archu ...

dont know whether i explained my point well ... 🤔

Lunzy I understand Tanya's points and agree and so understand your post too. As I wrote in my previous post I have blasted ArMan especially archana for the same reason "Giving away her own son Soham" to her psycho sister Varsha. for last one wk Archu has had Soham to Deshmukhs and she has loved both kids equally. There has not been an incident where she had to protect Soham and she did not. She did call Satish when Varsha came to her house. She did what she was asked to do. I am not letting ArMan off easy here..Just being Devil advocate.