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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz


Abou their fight..It's Ok kool, If once in a year a wife tells her husband o pick the kid from school then thereis nothing wrong with that and she did not even taunt that much .she was right , manav sould have been more careful...


I'll tell you what is wrong Tanya Di.

Manav works in an office. He does not OWN the company. He is an employee, like any other. He has office working hours like any other.

He cannot come at 3 o clock unless it is an emergency, just bcos wife wants to take a break from fetching Sachu cos she does it anyway.. He is responsible for the company. He is at a high post- he has to manage the company.

Bcos Archana fetches Sachu from school 364 out of the 365 days, as you said, Manav's office hour rules/schedule are not going to make an exception for that one day simply bcos Archana does not wish to pick Sachu up one day.

Either clear it up from the starting that I will fetch him these many days, you do it these many days or don't do it. She told him to wreck his schedule and work FOR NO NEED. She did not have an appointment, there was no emergency. She could have gone to meet Soham after fetching Sachin, what's wrong with that? She has no binding authority in this matter, but Manav has! He has office working hours, he has a boss on his head, he has workers who will follow his example.

By saying- you fetch him today- for NOTHING, she upset the schedule for no reason. Is it any surprise Manav forgot? Arey duties decide ki hain, distribute ki hain to usko follow karo na! Why unnecessarily change the duties when there is no emergency or strong reason? It always throws things in a mess.

All the same, I am not absolving Manav. Uski bhi galti thi. He should have told- I can't come, or I might forget, or tell Baba to fetch him. And if he said he would come, he should have kept it in mind and not been careless.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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You are right .Archna cannot just call him and ask him ..And he too is wrong because he should tell her ..Anyway ..they made it up na, with that nice tight hug , in no time ..so no worries ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

You are right .Archna cannot just call him and ask him ..And he too is wrong because he should tell her ..Anyway ..they made it up na, with that nice tight hug , in no time ..so no worries ...


I didn't mean it that way... Archana should call of course, but only if there is an emergency or if she has an important appointment or commitment elsewhere (like if she has to visit doctor) and cannot go. (If Manav does not come even then and forgets then he is at fault) Otherwise stick to the distribution of duties.😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Abou their fight..It's Ok kool, If once in a year a wife tells her husband o pick the kid from school then thereis nothing wrong with that and she did not even taunt that much .she was right , manav sould have been more careful...And they immediately hugged and made up and they said their I love yous to each other ...so all 's well now ...
They were both at fault but they both loved making up so that was sweet ...
My only problem today is Dharmesh working i nthe same comapny as Manav ...and Savita getting into the habit of gambling ...

True, she can expect things from her hubby, but since the leap I haven't seen her once appreciating Manav once, most men I know could just get mega -mad with all the nagging...I am sure all wives in this forum show appreciation of their hubby's hard work sometime...I am still waiting to hear that from Archu...:(
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Posted: 14 years ago
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No Nicki , I meant it .I was not been sarcastic at all...
Really Archu should not call him and disturb him in the middle of his work ..I have neevr ever done that ...
She should learn to drive and do all the running around herself ...Your views are 100 % correct ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

No Nicki , I meant it .I was not been sarcastic at all...

Really Archu should not call him and disturb him in the middle of his work ..I have neevr ever done that ...
She should learn to drive and do all the running around herself ...Your views are 100 % correct ...


Relax Di, I know you were not being sarcastic. I was just clarifying that yes, she can expect certain things, but not in every situation.😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Tanya its oh so not OK . Not with me at least .

Whatever niki says is 100 % correct .


When a man does a job he is under tremendous pressure . The higher the position , the higher the pressure . My husband cannot make it so many times to Open houses , ParentsTEachers meetings , various matches etc . What to do ...his job is only such .

Studying the pressures of a husband's job is a wife's PRIMARY DUTY and Someone should tell it to filmy Archana who thinks she is a PATIVRATA by tying threads around the VAT Tree .

Why did not she tell Damodar ? Why the hell shud Manav come rushing at 4 in afternoon while she roamed ainlessly around to Varsha or whatever ? What was so IMPORTANT that SHE was doing that he was expected to leave his bread and butter job and come home to do this ? Its WRONG he did not phone but honestly THAT HAPPENS .

its not a question of a mans job or Womans work ...I am not being sexist here . I wud say the same thing if SHE had to rush from HER job .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi mods . Point noted . Henceforth what I want to stress will be done in italics as some members use this technical point to close down threads . Thanks for the warning .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: piya_10

Kool, did u watch the Manav-Dharmesh convo, it ws the highlight of the epi, worth watching.


piya Manav shud squash Dharmesh . Honestly . He shud THROW him out of the company . Nothing less , nothing more .

What i am worried about is what Dharmesh will do to HIM .

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