Maha Episode - Page 6

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Hi Jai..awww .i was in such a hurry this morning that i didn't even see your sweet note to me at the bottom of the page...thanks dear 🤗
Naava no one defended Savita saying she is right..All people are saying here is that Savita thinking n behavior is due to Dr Archu approach of bringing hatred..With this approach she has worsened the situation where Savita cant think of anything other than to hate Archu to the core which has blinded the fact about Manav and in the heat of moment has come to total wrong conclusion..The reason being ARchu harsh approach in trying to bring hatred back in Savita which now they have got.. I agree that the approach was wrong and said several times that this idea of Archana's was nuts...but it did do one thing...Nikita is right that Savita seems to exhibit manic depressive or bi-polar...and archu's goofy plan did in fact bring her out of the depressive cycle...but didn't cure her and probably made her worse... savita is not cured...(but remember i think the cause is a combo of spiritual and emotional 😃) In fact, bi-polar illness is almost never cured by traditional medicine either, and why i don't think going to a doctor is the necessarily going to cure her either...meds and counseling can flatten a patient so their ups and downs are less, but i - like you - want to see a healed and happy Savita. There has been better success w/ bi-polar in holistic ways...and i'd like to see that happen with SAvita...of course the CV's may not want to go that route 😆😆...but they could do a spiritual encounter with Bappa. !! Savita's anger and flareups didn't just begin with the last few weeks or this current track...they have always been there in one form or another. She's hated Archana forever - except for one small period when she didn't want them to divorce. So to say it was caused by ArMan's misguided plan isn't correct either.

Now no one is blaming Manav here...(i think some were, maybe not yourself) Folks are saying here that Manav just saw the one side of the coin..They know that they are bringing the hatred back in Savita it was their decision..When has Manav tried to explain this approach to Savita was to cure her...no that's not what i meant...i meant manav has patiently tried to deal with Savita in a calm manner many times...I dont think so Naava...

And all this dailogue about my child will never see his grandmother she is just after money n stuff was it needed here...People say Savita is not understanding Arman,Manav has also not understood Savita's real pain...He just saw the one side of coin but never dug to find out why Savita was feeling the way she was and why she shouted at Archu...

All the previous scenes and instances created by ARman made Savita come to this conclusion..People come to conclusion on what we see and perceive...Savita perceived what Arman gave her and came to this conclusion...IF manav is human so is Savita here...If circumstances make Manav take these decisions so does Savita is made to come to such conclusions coz of the foolish approach done by Arman..

So just blindly blaming Savita is totally unfair..That what we are trying to say here...

And besides it was ARchu once again who thought about Savita it was not Manav here once again..So I am sorry I cannot support Manav in Savita's case..I support Manav for standing up to Savita but degrading his mom and comparing his mom n wife is the right way to talk which is what we did not like here...

Had Arman followed doc advise and followed different approach on trying to treat in a normal way and not this brilliant way of trying to bring Savita hatred out which even she did not want ,Savita wont be behaving what she did today...

If Arman can be a target circumstances so is Savita here...ITs unfair to blindly point finger at Savita to prove that Archu is always right..Here Arman were wrong in deciding to cure Savita this way and its effect was on Savita on how she behaved today which is also wrong..Both are wrong..Blaming Savita alone for the situation is unfair!!!

My whole point Jai dear is that Savita's illness is caused by her own self centeredness, anger and hatred...i fault manav in many situations on PR, but not in this one. I truly think he has done everything he knew how to do. I know you are a good son thinking of sons to mothers and that's very commendable and also very sweet. And while i didn't like Archana's approach (where did the CV's get that one??) she also is not the cause of Savita's state. But yes if they aren't going to go directly to the spiritual she will need help to do it...wasn't Satish going to find a doctor...hopefully a holistic one 😆 )

And besides Dear Naava ,we all desire that Savita is shown a sweet n loving mother/grandma like u dear..A sweetheat like u 😉 awww ☺️

Originally posted by: lunza

oh yeah😆 .. k functions and drama go hand in hand .. just like manav on guilt trips and manav self-destructing

looks like dharmu's big plan is leaving ArMan without any friends , family support or well wishers ...
one good thing that might come out of this is archu would be preoccupied only with herself and her baby to pamper and worry about (high hopes?)...

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

I won't be surprised if CV's twist this whole thing to show that yes, Savita really had become normal and she was only greedy and then maybe all will laugh at my posts. 😆

😆 that goes for all of us Nikita...the funny thing is the CV's can and will write it however they want, whether true to life or not. !! Which makes us all look silly - not for our ideas, but because we think the PR characters are real people. 🤪 😆

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

That's it from my side. I have nothing more to say. Beyond this, I can only say "Lets agree to disagree." :-) I don't know if I could explain you my views properly or not, but I tried my best. I have been Manav's big fan and defended him on the forum everytime, but this time I could not do that. :-(

And yes, it was very nice to discuss with you. I had quit debating on this forum since a few days, did it today after a long time.