Maha Episode - Page 2

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

That is exactly what I want to say...ArMan thinks they have cured Savita..I so wanted Mannu to get to bottom of this jewelry situation take Savita alone and explain the whole thing..I am just so tired of how they are ruining A mother's image showing her greedy and cruel while she is really ill..It is Archu's tough act has reinforced what Savita is thinking today...She did not come up with this misunderstanding on her own..It was fed into her brain by the act ArMan put it in front of her days back...

Niki u and I are on same page when it comes to Savita track..

Exactly Niki...If they are going to degrade Savita's motherhood so badly its better to end her character...Let Shravani come and say enough is enough ,I am taking u and my Sachu to US..come with me.. Let that Damo dumbo stay with Arman and be happy!!!!

Whole thing is Sushant has lost his mother in real life and when he talks with Savita with love, calm and patience I simply see Sushant and not Mannu...Savita-Mannu has a great relationship as mother & Son which is being ruined totally...All b/c CVs showing Dr. Archu's interfernce in this relationship to fix everything...

i just hated manav today,when he said his kid will never know about his grand mther and if he knows he will only know that she was greedy of money,i was like wt*.

😉well, i hate to throw cold water on the heated discussion going on, but i thought it was a really good show.. it's a show... i thought the whole kidnapping thing was kitsch but still funny...look if you own the show, you can do what you want... Ekta's bro was kind of cute in the scene...

The thing that is very interesting and also very perplexing is how we can have such strong divergent view on the savita/manav relationship. i am certainly not a lead follower of any kind...but as a mother and a grandmother, i think savita is totally crazy and completely selfish. Her greed isn't for money but for control of everyone around her to serve her needs, and that selfishness has made her sick. Even Hindu greats like Bhishma teach this...that greed is the basis for all emotional ills.

i think manav is a wonderful son who has done everything possible to try and please his mother and in today's epi i thought he was marvelous. And i thought the scenes were touching. He finally finally said, no more abuse !!

I am at a total loss to understand the other point of view, seriously. It has been suggested that manav quietly and calmly take his mother aside and explain... How many times does he do this..he's done it many times already. Truthfully, if you continually watched your mother try to kill your wife, verbally and physically abuse her, wouldn't any human being finally blow a cork and scream ENOUGH!!! I mean my god...manav is only human...

That's not to say i agree with the pretenses of competition that archana did to try to bring her around..it was stupid to say the least...and obviously didn't work.

and Damo...i think he is corny and silly and not very strong, but he is so full of love for his children and so tender hearted.. maybe he drinks cause his wife is crazy... ...

Really, gals and guys, I'm not trying to argue, and i don't even want you to agree with me... i like the discussion and having many viewpoints on the forum...but i just had to say what i thought about this ME show...and i am so sorry i just don't understand how one can defend savita... and be mad at manav..in this situation..

but keep talking,,, maybe i'll get it... 😃

We are always bashing the CV's but maybe they are really good to elicit such passionate and opposing responses from us... 😳

Naava no one defended Savita saying she is right..All people are saying here is that Savita thinking n behavior is due to Dr Archu approach of bringing hatred..With this approach she has worsened the situation where Savita cant think of anything other than to hate Archu to the core which has blinded the fact about Manav and in the heat of moment has come to total wrong conclusion..The reason being ARchu harsh approach in trying to bring hatred back in Savita which now they have got..

I voted good, it was worth it to watch Manav tell Savita off and leave from there. I am tired of Savita walking all over Manav and Archana, she has taken advantage of them time and time again. I feel bad for Manav, from a young age he has done everything he could to make his family happy and this is what he gets in return? Manav did the right thing, he needs to make Archana and his child his priority

I voted good .That scene between manav and savita was very good .Also loved the way madhuri was a true frind to both of them ...

Originally posted by: naava

😉well, i hate to throw cold water on the heated discussion going on, but i thought it was a really good show.. it's a show... i thought the whole kidnapping thing was kitsch but still funny...look if you own the show, you can do what you want... Ekta's bro was kind of cute in the scene...

The thing that is very interesting and also very perplexing is how we can have such strong divergent view on the savita/manav relationship. i am certainly not a lead follower of any kind...but as a mother and a grandmother, i think savita is totally crazy and completely selfish. Her greed isn't for money but for control of everyone around her to serve her needs, and that selfishness has made her sick. Even Hindu greats like Bhishma teach this...that greed is the basis for all emotional ills. Yes it does. But this time its not a matter of greed at all. Its a medical condition called DEPRESSION. Its a condition of INSECURITY bcos Manav ignored Savita like hell and kept pleasing his wife and in-laws. And then, when things had to be fixed right, then instead of showering some love on her for a change and driving her insecurity, Archana made her more insecure by constantly competing with her. Wasn't she the one who herself tried to show that she wanted Savita's necklace? So now when Savita is saying the same thing, why is she backtracking? This time, its not just really a matter of Archana wanting Savita's necklace- its a case of Archana competing with her again- which makes Savita mad. And the fact that her son Manav was involved in this, made her feel more hurt as it stirred up those feelings of insecurity once again, the ones which caused her to be sick in the first place.

She was not majorly interested in the necklace cos of her greed. She clearly told Manav that I don't want this necklace, I want my son. The obsession about the necklace is not cos of the wealth, but cos it was given to her by Manav, which she thinks Archana wanted to snatch, just like she wanted to snatch her son.

i think manav is a wonderful son who has done everything possible to try and please his mother and in today's epi i thought he was marvelous. And i thought the scenes were touching. He finally finally said, no more abuse !! Unfortunately, he choose the worst time and the worst way to do it. When Manav couldn't save Archu from Savita's abuse during the 3 month stay, I was the one who had blasted him and called him weak, but today I'm not proud of him at all, (even though I am a big fan of Manav). What he didn't understand that this time it was not abuse- it was the misdirected anger and emotions of a mental patient, who can't even figure out the things people are doing around her these days. She is using her confused mind in whatever way she can, cos she has no one to help her or guide her out.

I am at a total loss to understand the other point of view, seriously. It has been suggested that manav quietly and calmly take his mother aside and explain... How many times does he do this..he's done it many times already. Truthfully, if you continually watched your mother try to kill your wife, verbally and physically abuse her, wouldn't any human being finally blow a cork and scream ENOUGH!!! I mean my god...manav is only human...Yes he is. But today by his revolt, he has not shown that he is tired of Savita's abuse, rather he has shown that HE IS TIRED OF HANDLING A MENTAL PERSON LIKE HIS MOTHER- that he cannot tolerate her zonked up behavior any more. Tired to the extent that he cannot understand her at all.

I wil give you one very simple example Naava. I study in a medical college and I've heard a number of cases about psychiatry department. In one story, the patient who was suffering from some mental condition hit the doctor with a stool. Now what is the doctor supposed to do? Fight back and accuse the patient and march off from there saying I will not treat this patient? If that is the case, then I would ask him NOT TO TAKE UP SUCH A RESPONSIBILITY IN FIRST PLACE. The thing is simple- what the patient is doing is NOT ABUSE- he isn't even in the mind to know what abuse is. Its simple a reaction of his suffering mind which is scared and insecure of everyone- just like Savita's. Same thing happens with patients of schizophrenia- they don't trust their own family members- keep complaining that their family members want to kill them, often throw things at them, hit them. THIS IS NOT ABUSE!!!

Leave aside psychiatric patients- even in normal practice, during delivery, women sometimes get very violent. One women kicked the doctor who was trying to help her. Now what si doctor supposed to do? Slap her back and say "I wil not tolerate more abuse?" Before calling it abuse, just assess the condition of the patient once.

If Archana-Manav had such views about not able to handle Savita's erratic behavior, then they should have put Savita in a mental asylum long back with those people who could have handled her better. But then this in no way goes with their characterization of caring, understanding individuals. today, they walked off from there, leaving their sick Aai all alone, thus proving that they are just one of the those selfish and practical children who leave their parents when they become difficult to manage due to senility,

That's not to say i agree with the pretenses of competition that archana did to try to bring her around..it was stupid to say the least...and obviously didn't work.

and Damo...i think he is corny and silly and not very strong, but he is so full of love for his children and so tender hearted.. maybe he drinks cause his wife is crazy... ...

Really, gals and guys, I'm not trying to argue, and i don't even want you to agree with me... i like the discussion and having many viewpoints on the forum...but i just had to say what i thought about this ME show...and i am so sorry i just don't understand how one can defend savita... and be mad at manav..in this situation.. I think from the perspective of Savita as a MENTAL PATIENT. Currently to me, Manav is a son who has not been able to understand his Aai. I always feel tht if doctors (strangers) can tolerate the erratic, even violent behavior of patients sometimes for their ultimate good, then why can't their own family members at least try and make an attempt to understand it. If Savita was hale and hearty today, I would not have defended her abuse and would have loved Manav for what he said, but right now she is MENTALLY ILL, her abuse is not the same abuse which we had seen earlier.

I wanted Manav to control his AAi, stop her from hurting Archu, make sure Archu is safe and then talk to her, calm her down. He has done it before. Mental patient does not need these accusations and counter insults. They need soft understanding behavior and Savita especially needs love from Manav. Once she becomes normal, she will apne aap become like before and accept them both. Right now she needs to be convinced that Archana is not her dushman but a well wisher, cos Archu drilled into her head that she is her dushman. And no one other than Manav can do this, cos no one else has that sort of influence over Savita.

Unfortunately Manav spoke big big words and left this suffering patient all alone, not concerned about who would look after her now.

but keep talking,,, maybe i'll get it... 😃

We are always bashing the CV's but maybe they are really good to elicit such passionate and opposing responses from us... 😳Oh yeah! The kind of BS they are showing regarding Savita's behavior- they deserve to be thwaked by some social organisation. What they are showing in PR- that shouting and fighting means getting 'NORMAL' is BS. They perhaps don't know that many mental patients shout and fight all the time. In fact, mental patients many a time show bipolar behavior- sometimes they are tooo silent, and suddenly sometimes they become very violent. I see the same with Savita.

Nickita , I am not angry at savita for thinking that Archu was after the necklace ...she was made to believe this .But I am very angry at her for accusing Manav of swindling her property and try and cheat her of her wealth ... I don't think her depression is as bad as to think this bad of him ...