Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Niki , I am very happy you gave a detailed analysis , I ahve always enjoyed your thoughts and opinions even if they are contraray to mine ...
this analysis is a very good one . I agree with you on some points and would like to disagree on some ...
Agree 100 % .
Archana's timing about squabbling over Gulab Januns sucks ....big big time ..It is so bad that apparantly even Ankita Lokhande was hesitant about doing this scene ...
I think Archu was doing the same thing about getting Savita angry as she thinks that this is getting good results ,......... maybe it is but even then this was not the time ...She was foolish , no doubt about that ... Tanya Di, I was not even REFERRING to the gulab jamun fight, which in my opinion was sheer childishness and stupidity. I was referring to Archu's defence of her parents.
Where manav was very wrong in my opinion ...
1. Niki, Savita called Archana's parents Bhikaaris .....I don't blame Archu at all for speaking out for them ....Nobody said don't defend them. I don't blame her as well. But there is no use in arguing with Savita over it. Defence can be done in other ways also. It could have been done calmly without provocating. As I said, mental patients call doctors also names. One patient I know of, hit a doctor with a stool. So should the doctor also start arguing and so on? No, cos then the patient will get provocated more and not cooperate in future also. The only approach left is to scare them to cooperate- but it doesn't help in long term. Best way is to diplomatically convince them to agree to what you want, which is what Manav did.
And she always speaks out for Manav as well ........if he is ever insulted .She left her house once when Manju was calling him a thief ...And then she went back to the same house and has no problems with anyone of them. đ
Everytime Sulo has said ' Either me or Manav " and every time Archana has said ' Manav ' ....
I am very happy with Archana that she defended her parents ..Savita has a problem with forgetting , does this gives her a lisence to insult people this badly ???It doesn't. But if you have accepted to live with a mentally ill patient, then be prepared for all the unpleasant things that come with it-- sudden temper flares, sometimes getting abusive etc. As you read above, I praised Archana cos she didn't take offence at Savita's slap. If you cannot bear this 'insult' then go and leave the mental patient in an asylum or hospital. and if you note Tanya Di, even Sulo and evryone else did not take an offence at this insult, heck this is not even an insult-- this is not done in the right frame of mind, how can anyone take offence at this insult is something I absolutely fail to understand. If we go by this theory of 'insult' then I think doctors should quit practising cos mental patients get very abusive at times.đ Forget mental patients, sometimes normal patients also get abusive. Recently, one patient kicked the doctor very hard when she was trying to help her during labour pains. Now what shoudl the doctor do???--- fight and say she insulted me, now I won't help??? If a stranger can show this much understanding, why not a family member is my only point.
Archana should have defended her parents when Savita insulted them constantly EARLIER. If she had done that, I would have been proud of her. Today it wasn't done in the right manner at all.
2. Manav should have allowed Archana to talk when she was trying to tell him that she did not call her parents ..He just did not let her speak ..This is not right .If you trust yoru wife then at least let her say before yellign at her so bad ...
He knows hsi mother has a problem of forgetting and if Sulo is saying she was called by savita then manav should at least hear out Archu ...
That is why I said he was NOT completely right. He should not have spoken in front of people at all. But I am ready to forgive him for that ONLY AND ONLY BCOS Archana's behavior was highly shocking and irritating for me, so I can imagine how bad it must have been for him
3. The precap where savita is accusing Archu of burning her and Manav is asking Archana ' why did you do this ' ?/ Does he honestly thinks that Archana is capable of hurting his mother ??
How come Manav did not yell so loud at his mother when she tried to burn Archana in broad day light in front of everyone .......
I found Manav extremely unfair for the way he is yelling at Archana for trying to hurt his mother ......that too in front of her parents ...
I think about that we should discuss AFTER the episode airs tomorrow. BTW, I read in one post above that you are not angry at him for shouting at Archana tomorrow??? đ
Once again ...Archu was very wrong in trying to provoke Savita on Sachu's birthday and for that she should be told off.....She needs to be told off for a lot of things Tanya Di. She and Damo need to shut up big time. Going by today's episode, I actually felt Manav can do a better job in handling Savita. I was so sad to see him losing in SOTD and instead getting voted for FOTDđ. But I respect everyone's opinion, so its okay. đ For me the stars of the episode today were Manav and Sulo. Archu was good cos she didn't take offence at the slap. Rest of her behavior was wrong
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