Kools Commentary : March 15 PR - Page 5

I did not like Sulochana shooting Manohar down in front of their family, though they're all adults. I believe that while spouses can have differences of opinion, they should be on the same page in front of everybody else, including children. Manohar supported Sulo always irrespective of whether he thought she was right or not, whether he cared or not. In this case, Sulo actually agreed with manohar. It should have been the other way round-she should have supported manohar in front of the family, but also added that Vaishali was also entitled to some measure of justice, so their action while hasty was not completely wrong.

All in all, seems like a good episode with story progression and some positive changes in some characters.

I absolutely didnt like Sulos dismissal . U know ......he has stood by her inspite of NOT mentally agreeing on many issues .The way she was INSISTINg on an engineer for her ninth standard educated daughter , The way She INSISTED on going to Manjus house against hubbys advise . He kept quiet and saw to it that they presented a UNITED front .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Why she did not feel for Vaishu then and yet why she slept with Dharmesh ................coz her son is sick and dying ? Coz That took precedence over EVERYTHING ? Her own dignity , self respect , sympathy for Vaishali as a woman ..........all was deprioritised due to the child's sickness ?

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She did nOT sleep with Dharmesh for fun or coz she fORGAVE him . She slept to take a chance to save her child .

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She had come to Mumbai expressly for THAT only . Neither was Vaishu important to her nor Dharmesh .Varun was MORE important than ALL 3 in Madhuris eyes ..............She , Dharmu and Vaishali all 3 took a backseat .

Tomorrow if Vaishali gets a baby I bet u she will do ANYTHING to save it .

Dharmu has left Madhuri yet Madhuri is going to use that credit card till the last penny .Why ?Coz she CANNOT AFFORD SELF RESPECT .God took away that option from her . She can probably aaford to show it when Varun DIES . Coz then nothing will have the TAAKAT to hold her back or make her bend .

Today she is the TRULY MAJBOOR ONE . Im talking strictly AFTER Varuns sickness .

The question shud not be WHY SHE SLEPT with DHARMU and DIDNT THINK OF VAISHU .The question shud be WHY VAISHU KEPT QUIET AND THOUGHT OF SULO who ALWAYS had asthma attacks . If vaishu can be MAJBOOR for her mom , Mads can do ANYTHING for sick baby .

As far As Satish goes ..........True he is Vaishus BIL .But who is he punishing ?Dharmu has absconded .A pregnant woman with sick child ? Use ur expertise to give Vaishu as much money as u can from business etc ..........but show compassion for that lady and DROP the case . Everything cannot be THIS CUT THROAT and BLACK and WHITE . Its GREY .

I agree with Kool. As far as I remember, Madz had never any intention to continue being with Dharmesh. She had given up on him, but also needed him for Varun. She was very clear that she was going away permanently as soon as Varun's condition was stabilized. So I dont think she wanted to cheat Vaishali; it was more like she was disillusioned by the institution of marriage and was no interested in being Dharmesh's wife anymore, so there was no reason to disrupt Vaishali's. And her son was the only and most important thing in her life-nothing else was her's. Any mother would do anything in her power to save her child, I think this is especially true for mothers like Vaishali who really have nothing/nobody else in their lives. Nobody's right or wrong here except Dharmesh; Madhuri is wrong if she decides to divorce Dharmesh now though. That is not needed and doesnt change anything for anybody. While legally she may be an accomplice in fraud, I think she has the best reason for being an accomplice anybody in the world could have. Like Vaishu hid the truth for so long after she knew about Dharmu's two-timing due to the silly reason of her mother's probable asthma attack, Madz hid the truth when she knew due to her son's far more serious illness. Dont think she knew about Dharmu's intentions before/when he was getting married the second time-she got to know after the second marriage. Both are stupid, both have enabled Dharmesh, but only Madz is taken in by the police coz she is the legal wife and has no one to support her.

Btw, if Madhuri divorces Dharmesh, will Vaishu-Dharmu marriage automatically become legal? Or will it remain illegal since he was already married when they were married? Is it possible that if madhuri divorces Dharmesh, then any woman he marries later will actually be the legal wife?😕

Kools Valid reasons for Madhuri to sleep with FBD due to sick son Varun..

Edited by Dabulls23 - March 15 2011 at 3:24pm

I will tell u where I wud at the most find fault with her . . Till the point Varun was Ok and yet she kept quiet that Dharmu married a second wife and that wife was unaware of the bigamy . Ideally she shud have made the fact known that he was bigamist THEN ..........and saved another woman from spoiling her life . . But again .......Thats IDEAL .Not necessarily PRACTICAL . I mean if she was ok with it personally and he was a good provider , its an unfortunate choice SHE made ....its HER life after all . Where wud she go to search for the second wife in Mumbai to inform her of the bigamy ............She thought of HER son . There r far worse jerks .......they screw and DONT PROVIDE . Maybe she thought Thank God AT LEAST HE PROVIDES for Varun . Its not RIGHT mind u ........Im saying many women DO swallow such things for childrens sake . The responsibility is ALSO Vaishalis to make more enquiries abt the guy she is marrying . She didnt .If she expects other women will hunt her down and warn her ..Sorry it doesnt happen .

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What broke her backbone was the CANCER her son got . That took away ALL her CHOICES . Now she did NOT care if he was a bigamist bedding hundreds of women so long as he PROVIDED MOney for the treatments . Coz there r JERKS who dont give a dime but instead blackmail the women they have used by videotaping them ...........The world is THAT bad .

The choices and comparisons for Madhuri became between DHARMESH and FAR WORSER MEN .........not Dharmesh and BETTER men than him .

When child is dying in front of ur eyes ...........one cannot judge at all . Arre these K sisters cannot bear their plump mom who has SEEN life taking a risk and dying and tolerated BIGAMY for it ..........Her son was BEGINNING LIFE .

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^^^ Kools and Sowmya I get all your points in support of Madhuri & decisions..Pls dont get me wrong..

Savita hatred for Manav has come over the fact coz of his ignorant behavior and foolish approach of problem solving. If he had taken the right steps Savita wont be so much pissed.And Savita is not some young lady she is getting old and people as they get old tend to become more childish and stubborn,its natural for a human being.After knowing all the hardships his mom went through and knowing that his mom was gentle before and is still very gentle inside and if one would give love she would reciprocate,Manav choose this approach. So Savita stubbornness and hatred increased due to this stupid approach which has not brought any one any solution but more misery at cost of Savita's health.If you cannot give consideration for your mom's health and give more importance to your Saali's who treat you as a use and throw policy then I am sorry Manav u really are not eligible to be Savita son.No point saying I love my mom and I want to see her happy until you take steps to make her happy...Actions speak better than words and so far Manac's actions and approach have been pathetic in problem solving

Kools please don't suggest Vaishali's child donating marrow. CVs don't take any sensible suggestions, but this one is sadistic enough for them. Poor Madhuri, I don't want her losing her child. 😭

Okay, I'm a lil confused about the timeline in the show. Archana went for her higher ed for a year during which Vaishali-Dharmesh got married. and Sachin was born. Madz got to know about Dharmu's two-timing sometime after he got remarried. I'm guessing Archu coming back and ARMAN eloping all happened in a few months time and then during their honeymoon, they met Madz and Varun who was already diagnosed sick (my guess of a few months is coz lil Sachu is still quite young-maybe 2 years old? and Shravani was heavily pregnant when Archana left, so when Archu got back, I'm guessing Sachu was already a year old). Do we know for sure if Madz knew about D's infidelity before she knew about Varun's sickness? I mean did anybody mention that specifically? Now I understand why I should probably watch the show before commenting..😆

Another person who I am extremely disappointed today is Ajit. He lied to Manav about gambling. Manav will find out one day, and Shibu was right. Manav misunderstood poor Shibu. I feel bad for Vandu. She's being kept in the dark about her husband's gambling. I'll tell you, this Rasika knows exactly how to turn Ajit evil. She bought a necklace, and now he earns it back by gambling. I hope Ajit becomes good again. The Deshmukhs have never seen happiness. Moments in jail, getting beaten up, accusations of Manav and Vandu, Damodar drinking Savita being taunted by, Kaka and Sachin's death, nothing good. Archana and Manav were highly stubborn when they did not listen to Savita. SHE was at one point, more against this divorce than Damodar was. But Shravani comes in too, she was given injustice too and I don't blame Archana for this, I blame Manav he was the one who was rude to her. Sulochana did horrible today. Praised what her husband said when he left in anger, how will he be happy when she dismissed him and then complimented him? When Manohar left was the time when Sulo should have admitted Varsha and Vaishu did the right thing. But no, she goes against her husband when he is there, and starts complimenting him when he goes in anger. His anger is justified, I don't blame Vinod though, he always does and follows whatever his wife, sisters, and mom say. He's like a robot who is programmed by the girls in the family, will do anything Sulochana, Vaishu, Varsha and Manju ask him to do without thinking twice about is this right or is this wrong.

Hi Kool.