Ok, I will tell you my views in points
* I have been saying for a long time that Manav is the person who messed up his family .He created the mess, he is now trying to clean it ..He always spoiled his mother ....gave in to every demand , he is now realizing how wrong he was and is trying to correct this ..No I don't agree with this statement .U say this only coz he gave into SAvita during 3 month stay . That was the BUTCHERING CVS did of his character to make Archu MAHAAN . I always judge Manav from the time BEFORE he met Archu .That was the REAL Manav .Responsible , hard working and LOVING .The 3 month BUTCHERING is exactly the way the BUTCHERINg is done nOW . Both times with one purpose ........GLORIFYING ARCHANA . If u say Manav messed ALL UP , this is SAME of Archana too , coz JUST the way Manav let Savita grow [ acc to u] Archna let Manju grow stronger . She has SAVED Manjus butt ALL the time . Yet u still love Archana right ? She has SAME tendencies as Manav ..........at least in Manavs case it was HIS MOM and Savita DID LOVE HIM .
* If he was that much into romance and good times with his wife then the last place he would even think about going is his mother's house ..His mother is the biggest dushman of his pyaar ( we all know that she would just love manav and Archana to split up again ) still he dreams about living there ....all the time and is desperate to go back to the house ....
What romance Kool.....romance ki to waat lagne waali hai , once they go to live with savita ....but he doesn't care .He wants to be with his mommy at any cost ....Again , disagree . Romance KI WAAT LAG CHUKI HAI ALREADY coz Archana and Manav have LOW LIBIDOS , PERIOD . Savita ka kuch SAWAL nahi . Uptill now Archu had kept VAISHU with them , kal koi aUR Hoga . They r UNINTERESTED in ROMANCE .
We Arman fans know that soon all this romance and all is going to stop once when savita comes in the picture but what to do ...her son Manav so desperately wants to go back to his mother .....and as long as he doesn't leave Archana again ...I guess we will just have to put up with whatever they show in the name of romance ..🤔What desperation r u talking about ?I dont see ANY . He wasnt even keen to stay the night she was SICK .....what desperation ? Genuinely puzzled . And Do u guys see ROMANCE when he is AWAY from Savita ? I don't ! I don't see it ANYWHERE !
* What yo uare saying about Shravani taking savita to Us ...Come on Kool ....yo ureally think savita can live with Sharavni and Sachu in US...😆
I don't think so Kool ...forget manav , she will die without Damodar , her bevda 😳 ....and leave Vandu in the hands of Rasika 😲 ....Kool, she won't survive there for 2 weeks ....Darling I didn't say it coz i BELIEVED it will happen . I said it to be EXTREMELY SARCASTIC . but yes , one DOESN"T know with buddu CVS . They MIGHT JUST LATCH ON .😉
* Kool , I thought the CVs are going to show Manav and savita making a mess of their relationship and Archana fixing things right ..I think I was wrong ..It is going to be Manav only who will master mind the whole thing ..He wants his mother to live with dignity and live a good comfortable life with her son ....and that is the only reason why he is doing this ....Archana , Damodar , vandita ...they will all be following his orders ..It is going to be manav who will sort out his mother ....he is her weakness, he is the only one who can do it ...No one knows savita better than manav .He has STRIPPED her off ALL DIGNITY and lOST HIS OWN at the KARANJKARS . He doesn't know the FIRST thing about DIGNITY .
today savita got a pretty hard jolt .That jail cell was dirty and it was filled with aweful characters ...she reralized that she had goofed up , she is also realizing that maybe manav is not that interested in her any more ( she doesn't know that he is the one who got her out ) so maybe I hope we see some softening on her part .....
I also want to see Deshmukh family happy again , not the way it is right now .I want to see ONLY Karanjkar family now .😈
* However what I would agree with you is that Manav is wrong in cutting off communications with his mother ... that is the worst thing in any relationship ...breakdown of the communication lines ..never let this happen to close relationships and manav first let that happen with Archana , he still has not learned his lesson and he is doing this again with his mother ....tha tis where he is wrong ...I accept that totally ..He has to keep talking to her ....Sole living earning members in India do MUCH MORE than TALKING . He has failed MISERABLY .
* madhuri is wrong in thinking about the divorce and I hope she doesn't go through with it ..Whoever tries to influence her to do it will be wrong .....even if it is Archana ..period ...I sensed Archana doesnt want DIVORCE long back . She was giving shocked expressions aLL the time DIVORCE was mentioned . All her support is a big FRONT . Reality will sOON come out .
* I know it is a risk he is taking and he is scared but trying to be brave as he man of the house , I think his mother will get sick and he will be shown guilty but he will stay firm on his decison of bringing Archana to the house with him ....He CANNOT risk Peoples LIVES for WHATEVER messages Tanya.
Or maybe savita herself wil lask damdar to act as peacemaker between her and manav . Tha tis when manav will come i nthe house on savita's asking , but on his terms ..
manav really is doing all this for his mother only .. he does listen to his wife but he mostly makes his own decisison ..In recent tiems , he has been totall yoverruling what Archana is telling him to do ....Rememeber that scene when they were having lemonade near a stall , how he told Archana ' I am not going and yo udo not even try to influence me ' tha t was such a harsh and strict tone ......He does listen to Archana but she can never make him do something he doesn't believes in ....That was the tone of a pakka joru ka gulam husband gone OVERBOARD . Who tries to show wife that I care MORE about u than u do for URSELF .Thats not HARSH STRICT tone , its the OVERBOARD TONE . I have seen it a LOT with many guys . OMG the way they ACT . It DISGUSTS me .
* I think Archana wil lbe highlighted i nthe nice way she will keep the house ( obviously to keep the wajority of the women audience happy ) and also when vandu's life will be in trouble , she will help majorly , just like before ....
* I don't know why Kool , but I have this strange feeling that Shibu is working for jaywan t...I thin kit is a stupid thought but this is in my mind ...Really ? I nteresting .
bahrain is a lot better now ...
I am still taking the antibiotic course ..I have been told to have lots of blue berries as they are very good for me ..that's what I am having right now ...Why blueberries , what special thing they have ?Wanna know . I do know they make a person look YOUTHFUL .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 14 years ago
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