Originally posted by: shootingstar27
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Disagree with you on this matter..I have a soft spot for Satish too but not in matter...what makes it acceptable for Satish to withold the truth from Varsha because he knows she will throw tantrums?No matter when she finds out she is going to make a big tamasha, it would have been much better if she found out from her husband in private rather than finding out while eavsdropping her sister's conversation.
If Satish withholding truth in fear of temper throwing is okay than Vaishu hiding the truth from her parents cuz she is afraid it will affect her mom's health is okay too.I feel both the reasons are completely wrong.
Sulochana and Varsha r two totally different women , u cannot compare them . Sulochana is pretty calm and understanding and mature . Varsha is hot tempered , extremely volatile and immature . Telling sachaais to Sulo by preparing her to brace herself is a much easier task compared to telling Varsha ANYTHING .
While I admit Satish shud have told her , I can fully understand HIS dilly dallying coz Varsha is a woman who does CRAZY things .One of the things was so crazy , so crazy that she snuffed out a LIFE .........Satish's baby . Then she suddenly crazily wanted a baby with same fervour and obstinacy . How to break it to her was a BIG question mark before poor Satish ........coz crazy Varsha who snuffed out a life in a fit of rage is perfectly capable of slitting her wrists and lying in a bath tub in a fit of shock . Can u imagine the pressure on that poor , decent man ? He has a crazy shrew for a wife and i PITY such men whenever i bump into them in real life too .Its all very well for others to moralize and pass judgements on such men but only they know how they deal with such pagal wives .
Satish FRANKLY told Manav I DONT HAVE HIMMAT . Its very true . He was not a hypocrite like Manav who was giving him advice that he never practised coz he had kept Varshas sachai and Dharmesh's sachaai .BOTH hidden from Sulo .
Just like the two women cannot be compared , the two PROBLEMS cannot be compared too . Vaishu's problem is far far more serious compared to Varshas problem and needs immediate adult attention and intervention . But Manav and Archana have decided nOT to tell it to any adult .......be it Dharmus parents or Vaishus parents . They have been sitting on the truth for days now and now r acting as if the ball is in Vaishus court but r secretly relieved that she isnt telling the Sachaai either . I honestly dont know WHAT they exactly feel is the solution to this mess ............staying in Manavs chawl indefinetely I suppose ? Coz The way Archu was speaking to Manav in the bedroom yesterday .........where will Vaishu stay if we live with ur mother .......seemed as if Vaishu was a PERMANENT feature of their life .
In a husband wife matter if the hubby decides to delay some news to his eccentric pagal wife it is understandable at least to a certain degree.it is after all their PERSONAL matter . ........what ARMAN r sitting on .Dharmesh's Sachaai is a SOCIAL ISSUE not a PERSONAL ISSUE .Coz BIGAMY is serious offence and here the man has a wife and CHILD and he is parading them around mumbai as if nothing has happened .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 14 years ago
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