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You know Kool I wan t to say two things for Archana ...
About the scene where she is buttering up Vaishali ...Personally speaking , I approve of her act there .I am sure some won't .My own younger sister said , she should have ignored that rude girl ...but that is not what I would have done ..And I say this only because only Archana knows what a deep deep trouble Vaishali is in .Vaishali is in a mess.The fact that she got pregnant has just made things worse .That girl is totally sc**** ...You know what I mean .Even her future is bleak as there is a very high chance that her marriage is goign to break .She is madly in love with her husband and her heart is going to break .All her life she was the youngest and most well shielded little girl of her family and she is about to be hit by a tornedo .....Because Archana is her big sister , she has to be there for her .She has to be there for Vaishali ...Period .That's my thinking ..Little brothers and sisters are no less than your own children .And the way Archu is , I would have hated it that she is running after Savita ( who is trying to burn her and scheming against her all the time, just because she is Manav 's mother ) but she is not getting ready to be her sister's support , even after knowing what is in store for her ...And even in her state she did softly told her that ' I know who a good person is " and ' Manav did nothing wrong ' .I think at that moment , this was good enough for me ..What vaishali did to Manav , she is going to get it back 100 times worse from the force up there ..Even Manav ( being a good person ) would never wish that on his worst enemy what Vaishali is about to face ....There is a saying ' Khuda ki laathi beawaaz hoti hai ' . That is what is happening to Vaishai for what she did to Manav...However where I strongly critisize Archana and am not liking her at all.....is the fact that she is not even thinking about working ..She was making more money than Manav and even Jaywant .Whatever happened to all that .The least she can do is give tutions ....Very bad , very very very bad .Which world are these guys ( CVs ) living in ? I always loved Archana because she was a muti tasker , shown in the begining of the show .Whatever happened to that .Now how much time does it take to shop for groceries , cook for two people and clean one room ..Husband is starting from scratch , he is probably going to be taking care of two homes ( one of them has a baby in it ,whose health we understand is fragile ) so why is Archana not helping Manav out with this huge struggle .....If possible , please hammer it down in your commentries to CVs to correct this mistake .Ok , they don't have to show Archu going out of the house , if they want to show her only i nthe hosue ...but at least just say that she is giving tutions to children in the chawl and helping out in the monthly expenses ....
I agree . Very well said .
It was horrifying the way Vaiishali said it ........ur company has made u this ill mannered . It showed snobbish arrogance . She was a simple middle class gal who was more sensible than Archu once .........all the advices she had given Varshu and Archu were SANE . Vaishali was the SANITY in the K family . To talk so derogatorily of a man ..her brother in law , who had done so much for her ................it simply pricked my heart , that scene . She even disrespected Archu , her elder sister .tremendously with that statement .ITS THE COMPANY U KEEP . It was MONEY talking . All that air floating in her swollen head .
Savita , Manav , Damodar are not beggars . They eat what they earn and their lives r a mess bcoz of the Karanjkars , its not viceversa .Thats the paradox of the serial ............The Deshmukhs r dysfunctional but they haven't destroyed someone elses family .............The perfect Karanjkars however inadvertently did it to them .Vaishali shud always remember this .
But I agree totally with ur reasoning . I myself said Manav shudnt dump his old parents however wrong Savita may be . I believe in being there for the family .
Shiv Shakti
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
CID
