Just read first and last post....so sry if i am repeating anything.
Living separately does not mean shirking away from responsibility. Even when Manav and Archana were thrown out of the house.....manav still came running back to his mother in spite of being insulted for marrying archana, to fulfill his responsibility towards sachu and his mother. It was Manav only who got Damodar released from jail. On his honeymoon too, even after savita's attempt of burning archana, manav got concerned when savita was lying to him that sachin's admission needs to looked into. When it comes to responsibility towards his parents and sachin....manav has never stepped back no matter what the situation is.
Manav and Archana need to live separately from Savita for a while and win her heart from distance....Savita is no sulochana. She is evil in her actions to show hatred. And we all know how archana wins hearts of savita like people when being in close quarters. (i can't go through that torture again) I want archana to win over Savita the way varsha won back bhavna and satish's dad (i always forget his name).
I will agree that Manav should not have compared.....he should have addressed his grievances by singularly addressing her and not by bringing archana in the picture. But I also understand his state of mind then.
Savita, on her part in past few episodes has proven herself to be a liability as a mother to manav from trying to burn down archana or by name calling manav in front of all or by lying about sachin to distance manav from archana. And if you have noticed, yesterday Manav for the first time took out his frustrations. He may not have been aggressive like savita.....but he did show silent strength in making K's realize that all his efforts for the family were unappreciated...never has he made anyone feel before that he did something for them. In case of Savita too, he was voicing his frustration over the simple fact that his mother was not understanding that he doesn't want to choose between his mother and wife which archana understood not savita. He expects his mother to understand the simple fact that he wants archana more than anything.
Going into the house with archana would be disrespect to his mother's wishes and disrespect to archana's honour as his wife and as share bearer of his home.
Manav may have many minuses but when it has come to fulfilling a responsibility given to him he has always shined no matter how the person he's is doing it for has treated him. I at least have that much trust on his character that he will not let his parents starve while he's enjoying romantic blissful life in the open.....Manav may be anything but not that.
Regarding Sachin, I want sachin delivered to shravani.....i do not like the idea of a child separated from his mother. God knows where Girish goes and dies when it comes to such
crucial moments.
Manav and Archana will not live in footpath, Yasir Khan is their saviour and it will be Sachin who will bring ArMan closer to Savita. Sachin will be their fevicol.
Edited by bonnefille - 14 years ago