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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: smrth

Niki,

Since you were not able to return as promised, you must have been caught up in some urgent work. Will you (or anyone else) please explain a slight bafflement?

As I get it, in this playful tradition, the newly married are teased to speak each other's name in 'Ukhane'. Now Niki, 'Ukhana' in Gujarati means riddle (isn't it same in Marathi?). And I have read some good Gujarati Falk tales, where lovers were seen cleverly passing the cryptic messages-utilizing this clever format- to each other or to his/her friend declaring their love. But in a riddle, the poser is not supposed to give out the answer literally the way it is done in this wonderfully stress busting Maharashtrian tradition. How is it so? Or Ukhane is not same as 'Ukhana' that I related?



Samarth, I have no idea of the 'gujarati ukhane'. I only know about Maharashtrian ukhana. That also, I will confess, at first I didn't know it was called ukhana, until C asked me to write one for the ArMan wedding in my FF. (I had written ukhanas in that😃) I simply knew of it as verses- cos I have not attended a Maharashtrian wedding in years now.

At that time also, you had posted something of the riddle sort, and I felt that maybe this is a type of ukhana as well- a different type- maybe it varies from region to region in Maharashtra, is what I felt.

But now that you have clarified what it is, I think this is different from the Maharashtrian ukhana. I hope C or someone else can shed more light on this.

What akhetal has written above is a proper ukhana.

All the same, whatever you have posted was lovely too, and enjoyable to read. It is nice to have a merger of customs here😃 and lots of creativity as well.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes Niki,I'd learnt that time too that in the 'ukhane' you need to embed name proper, as beautifully demonstrated by Akhetal here and by you there…But then I'd thought… this tradition must have been adopted/simplified to suit all people from the original proper riddle form, where answer is not supposed to be so self evident…though a knowledgeable person can shed better light…the tradition is exquisitely playful…it reminds me of a similarly stress busting Gujarati tradition. The newly married couple, at the return in Groom's home and after the auspicious welcome, is playing a cute game in front of Kuldevta or Ganesha. They are searching a ring or gold coins or number of cowries hidden in a silver pan filled up with sacred rose water made opaque with 'abil and gulal. There are seven/nine rounds and over all winner is deemed to be luckier and more loving. The point is…it introduces the bride to a new environment in a lighter mood, besides affording the young couple to first sensations of a physical touch...loosening the inhibitions.😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Suryaala konhi manhtaat ratnakar, kohni bhaskar,

Maanav Rao Maajhe Janmojanmiche priyakar
(People call the Sun by different names, Maanav is my Love forever)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ya Pavitra Rishtela aatha milaala dhakka.😕..
Maanav Archana cha lagna aatha zaala pakka
the pavitra rishta now got a break
manav archana's marriage now has become strong
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Heyy Nikki, such a lovely topic...... 😃😃

You are right, the newly wed couples are subjected to this ritual...
Actually we say it 'Nav Ghene' means take the name of your loved ones in your riddle in front of everyone.

It can be during marriage ceremony when Bride and groom feeds each other 😳, and of course during the Grihapravesh.😳
It is done so that The newly wed couple is made comfortable in her new home, and the harassing ppl are mostly the Groom's sis, I have done it most of the times...😆😆
Especially in our Dadi's home, we compell them to express their love and affection for each other....even if it is arranged 😉 They go sharm se pani pani.....😆
OK enough of my theory behind ukhane.
I guess we all have to learn this some or other day, or else ghar mein entry kaise milegi 😆

Nice posts by akhetal, good gal, jasmine, varsha di, mansi, carpe di, arien, samarth , tvdost 👏👏
They were soo lovely.
Edited by ..Sonii.. - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#36

OK I dont know how to make those, But I can post whichever I have heard....

All are Archana to Manav
Parasparenche zhale sobti, sukh-dukha che zhale bhagidaar,
Manav zhale majhe janmo janmi che bhagidaar

( Now that we have come together, are partners of happiness and sorrow of each other's ,
Manav have become my life partner of all the rest of lifes)

Apt for ArMan 😆
Poli bhaji nako, nako varan bhat,
Manav sobat pav bhaji khat, karuya chan baat

( I dont want roti sabzi, neither dal chawal,
I will have pavbhaji with Manav and lots of chat)

Shrikrishna chya mastakavar Saundaryacha asto sheesh,
Manav cha nav gheun, karte me grihapravesh

Shravanat hoto nisarg hirvagaar,
Manav chya navane me ghatala mangalsutracha haar

cant translate last two, very hard...
Edited by ..Sonii.. - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: ..Sonii..

OK I dont know how to make those, But I can post whichever I have heard....

All are Archana to Manav
Parasparenche zhale sobti, sukh-dukha che zhale bhagidaar,
Manav zhale majhe janmo janmi che bhagidaar

( Now that we have come together, are partners of happiness and sorrow of each other's ,
Manav have become my life partner of all the rest of lifes)

Apt for ArMan 😆
Poli bhaji nako, nako varan bhat,
Manav sobat pav bhaji khat, karuya chan baat

( I dont want roti sabzi, neither dal chawal,
I will have pavbhaji with Manav and lots of chat)

Shrikrishna chya mastakavar Saundaryacha asto sheesh,
Manav cha nav gheun, karte me grihapravesh

Shravanat hoto nisarg hirvagaar,

Manav chya navane me ghatala mangalsutracha haar




Have transalated the last two verses...

Shrikrishna chya mastakavar Saundaryacha asto sheesh,
Manav cha nav gheun, karte me grihapravesh

Lord Shree Krishan's forehead has a beautiful Shine/ Lustre.Taking Manav's name I will start my life..enter my new home... that is .grihapravesh.


Shravanat hoto nisarg hirvagaar,
Manav chya navane me ghatala mangalsutracha haar

In the month of Shravan ( Aug - monsoon), nature turns all Green.

Taking Manav's name I have worn my Mangalsutra


It doesn't rhyme in the English but sounds beautiful in marathi.


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Posted: 14 years ago
#38

Mhante archana applya laajrya manav laa

Kai na khatta raatrabhar marooya gappa
Pan sadaa bhandkhor aainchi sangat nako re bappa

(says archana to her shy Manav

Let's chat all night remaining hungry
I'd rather not be with those mothers who're always angry
)

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: KripaRajput



Have transalated the last two verses...

Shrikrishna chya mastakavar Saundaryacha asto sheesh,
Manav cha nav gheun, karte me grihapravesh

Lord Shree Krishan's forehead has a beautiful Shine/ Lustre.Taking Manav's name I will start my life..enter my new home... that is .grihapravesh.


Shravanat hoto nisarg hirvagaar,
Manav chya navane me ghatala mangalsutracha haar

In the month of Shravan ( Aug - monsoon), nature turns all Green.

Taking Manav's name I have worn my Mangalsutra


It doesn't rhyme in the English but sounds beautiful in marathi.


Thaks Kriparajput, thats so sweet of you......😊
Yes that wasnt rhyming so i gave up....😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lovely everyone!

I couldn't come online last week cs my net collapsed, but all of you have done fabulously well!!!

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