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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

yes , the scene in chawl courtyard wasnt abusive , it was just a boys mom defending herself against unfair accusations . . Archu indeed HAD come to the boys mandap .Now if Sulo isnt believing it , she is blind or in denial and such blind ego about her own sanskaars isnt good .It prevents her from seeing that her daughter is human too . . Savita told the TRUTH that your daughter did come to my mandap .that I dont know where my son went . Also the fact that she pointed out about her not so perfect daughters was TRUE . Ki TEENO KE TEENO Maaike mein padi rahti hai . Savitas own daughter has stuck it out and faced her own battles alone , never ONCE returned to maayka . What sanskaars is sulo boasting of ? The maximum tamashas in Dombivli happen at K functions and in K house .

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#22

What a disappointment Vaishu turned out to be ...I thought she was fair and sensible .She picked up Dharmesh when he was a few hours away from his wedding mandap ....and it was supposed to eb a cute love story that she was so proud of ....their love story when DHarmesh left his own mandap to follow his heart and marry the girl he loved ...

How dare she be angry with Archana now ....Even after knowing what kind of a person manav is ...

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
The biggest truth that Sulochna refuses to accept is that in th Manav and Archana relationship , it is Archana who is ten times more in love with manav than he is with her .He too loves her but he is still a normal unromantic practical man where as her own daughter has totally gone cuckooooooooooo for this man , she is a complete Prem Diwani .....
That is what even Archu was trying to tell her again today ....but will she listen , NO , of course not ...

Just like me... 😍

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
yes , the scene in chawl courtyard wasnt abusive , it was just a boys mom defending herself against unfair accusations . . Archu indeed HAD come to the boys mandap .Now if Sulo isnt believing it , she is blind or in denial and such blind ego about her own sanskaars isnt good .It prevents her from seeing that her daughter is human too . . Savita told the TRUTH that your daughter did come to my mandap .that I dont know where my son went . Also the fact that she pointed out about her not so perfect daughters was TRUE . Ki TEENO KE TEENO Maaike mein padi rahti hai . Savitas own daughter has stuck it out and faced her own battles alone , never ONCE returned to maayka . What sanskaars is sulo boasting of ? The maximum tamashas in Dombivli happen at K functions and in K house .

I agree with you Kool , everything you say here is correct .

Sulo's own daughter is mad about manav ...much much more than he is about her and she even accepts that openly .....but Sulo says ' manav is someone who does not have aukaat to even look at my girl . Excuse me ...your girl is the one who thinks that he is God ......

Sulochna was calling savita dirt and all that ...what did she expect then ...

Where savita was wrong was ..

1. Blaming Archan for taking Manav away from mandap ..The engagment had already broken and manav had already left , in fact he was going to gate crash Archana's wedding to stop it ...

Archu did not have the power to stop manav's wedding ...that was her lucky day ( as satish told her ) things turned out right for her .

savita's own son let her down ...instead of trying to persuade Shravani or tell Girish or savita about what shravani said, he ran out as if he was given one last chance to save his life, didn't even waste time to say thank you Shravani , just flew off ....why blame Archana of kidnapping manav ..it sounds so silly ...😆

2. I do believe that Savita had selfish reasons , just like Sulochna ..she knew her son was unhappy but the grand child and the money were more important ....

Right now , manav did not even once think about littlesachu ..clearly he was never the issue ..manav knows that Shravani being a good mother and wealthy will give him a great life ..

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

Tanya . Sulo fails as mom if she cannot hear Archana's heartbeat and what its saying . It is clear now .........she is more in love with her own blind ego of so called good sanskaars rather than her own daughter . Savita was right ..........apne ache sanskaaron ka jhanda gaadna chahti hai .PERFECT description of Sulo . . Whatever she is , one night she let Varsha stay under her roof , what has Sulo done for her children yaar .Except insult them all the time . Arre ur DIL did so many horrible mistakes u forgave her , what has Manav done yaar ? He constantly gave her izzat . So what if he is poor , isnt he entitled to BASIC respect ? We dont slap even servants in our home .........they too will leave job and go away and with manav by now there is a rishta of some sorts .A rocky one , but one that enables everyone to see that he is a good man , not perfect , but not at all bad .

The Pati thing i mentioned coz I want CVS to sit up and take notice coz the marraige by all standards is totally illegal .It is a standing joke in Hindi films that villains did mANDIR MEIN SHAADI in remote CAVE TEMPLES and impregnated the hero's sister and later refused to recognise the marraige as there was no proof and it was only the heroines word . I want CVS to show PROPER marraige .Thats why I said the ASHTVINYAK BAPPA temple wud have been better , that dOmbvili lake choice sucked . Hindus recognise only two marraiges ........a Vedic marraige or Court marraige . Neither of the two happened . So Archu is in reality NOT MARRIED TILL THIS POINT .

Also .......I never understood why hoo haa was made about Shravni calling Mera Pati [ I dont give credence to that kind of thing ..........for me , if its fine by the man , I shrug and leave it at that ] . Today SAME situation exists , he has put sindoor in her maang .......but then he had put sindoor on her in temple after putting sindoor in Shravnis maang earlier day ...........what importance does this have ? Shhaadi toh hui nayi AB TAK .Mangalsutra jab tak GAle mein nahi padta .........this marraige isnt done . We Marathis need Mangalsutra and marraige certificate ..........we dont recognise this sindoor ritual . Husband has to tie Mangalsutra .

Manav may not have said Meri Patni after putting sindoor in Shravnis maang but then he didnt object when she said either .........today he hasnt really married Archu , just the same old ritual he does hundred times with women and she is feeling she is his PATNI . When in reality , this marraige is null and void .........the divorce papers she signed r STILL REAL .

I vote The CVs show a proper small scale marraige with Ajit Vandu , Satish Varshu , Tarun , and if possible Damo as an elder blessing it . I want to see them signing court papers before Registrar too . Someone shud take initiative ..........I hope its Satish .

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 15 years ago

#26

A question Kools- if they marry in private by this sindoor ceremony and later they accept in front of society that yes we did it, will it not amount to wedding? Cos you said that most important thing in marriage is that there should be a witness and society should know that marriage has been done....

AM really confused....

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#27

Of course it is wrong .Marriage has to be done properly .Manav this time is eager to be called and acknowledged as a pati ...last tiem he wasn't .Every time Shravani would call him pati he would just stay quiet but this time he wants it ...archan did not ask him to fill her maang , he did it himself ..Archu is such a big prem diwani that she would never ever ask him for marriage .In her mind heis her pati , even after they divorced he was still her pati and the only difference is that he is physically with her ..

manav knows that Archu is almost menatlly unstable when it comes to him ...he should do the right thing and immediately marry her the correct way ..In this way Ajit was better ...He did thinsg the right way ..His marriage was horrible but it was a proper marriage ..Manav cares so much about archu's respect and izzat as we are told , so do the right thing ...Go do it properly .

Marriage has to be done properly ...

savita was right in so many ways , Sulo talks about respect this and sanskaar thsi and just go andlook at her family . Manav and vandita ( specially vandita ) are such good people ...

But savita better not attack archana tomorrow ( hopefully she was just saying all that about burning Archu in a fit of rage only ) ..that will put her in the same category as rasika who once was trying to burn vandu's hand ...

To me , it is more about Manav and savita ..It is time that manav explains to his mother that he ha been a good boy , has worked hard , didn't even get education ....took care of her and the sibblings ...it is time that he should make a happy life for himself and live with the woman who makes him happiest the most and that is Archana ...he deserves a happy life and Archu gives him that ...

It is tiem his mother shoudl understand this ....It is not about Archana but it si about manavs' happiness ..savita has to put her own dreams and wishes aside ....let the boy be happy with the girl he loves and not with the girl she loves .

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: nikitagmc
A question Kools- if they marry in private by this sindoor ceremony and later they accept in front of society that yes we did it, will it not amount to wedding? Cos you said that most important thing in marriage is that there should be a witness and society should know that marriage has been done....

AM really confused....

Nicki , I have a horrible feelign that this will be shown as a proper marriage .Someone told me that in another show called ' Kis desh main he mear dil ' the hero heroine got married only by filling sindoor and went on to have a daughter immediately and they were considefred husband and wife .I don't wan tthsi to happen there ...

I like things done properly , not some shoddy job ....

But I think the way Manav came forward and kept stressing on the fact 'we are married , take it or leave it ' sort of way ...I think they are being shown as properly married ..

Budget and cost cutting I think this silly Ekta is doing ..

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#29

this is very bad , they must show a proper marriage ...

Archu is a stupid crazy dillusional woman ...but what is happening to Manav ...he should know better .

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 15 years ago

#30

@Tanya Di: In that serial, sindoor filling was done in front of everybody- Kools explained to me once that most important thing in any marriage is presence of society--- witness- it may be pundit of a temple, people anyone.

So that is why I asked kools ki what if sindoor filling was not done in public but the accepting thing is done in public that yes we did it???

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