Ashamed of Archu's family - Page 7

very interesting discussion going . .This is fictional story , so everything is so melodramatic and out of touch with reality.

At the starting of the serial Archu was shown as the girl who had to stop her education due to her mother's illness. sulochana was shown as the active lady , so she why wasn't sent back to school after she recovered.

Why was Manju entrusted with going to Manav's house before finalizing the alliance .All these twists and turns ensures the longevity of the show.

sulochana was never my favorite character . now coming back to the point she was shown very progressive , when she slapped Manav and got her daughter back home.so why is she insisting on getting Archu married to Jaywant . Maybe Archu's actions are forcing her to think that way. she has become self destructive , sulochana is hoping that martial bliss may cure her.

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Hey I wanna slap him too---- slap! slap! slap!

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

All I know samarth is u want to clobber Dharmu . Pummel him and ground ur heel as he is buried under the ground .😆 So i wonder HOW ur slap fiesta will start .😆

no kool, all i want is not being put in a position where i'd be trading my original estimate of a friend's worth or her respect in lieu of a piece of writing.

Not seen much recently but anyway, i did bash Archana in my post a few minutes ago. But you are right, the family deserves to be bashed too, especially Sulochana, her mother. She is the biggest culprit when it comes to Archana - from day 1. Even now, she just tells Archana forget about Manav - what I would like to ask Sulochana is whether she can forget her husband? All sulochana wants is to have a picture perfect family - all daughers married off well so that she can face society that she has done her duty and done it well. Does she really care what her daughters feel - yes i know she sympathises with them and holds them, hugs them and empathise with them but it appears so superficial . after empathsing, she isback to saying, you should consider the right thing to do - and as far as she is concerned, the right thing to dois what society expects you to do - get married and have a family sigh

Originally posted by: vidyasu1

sereaishitedare (don't know how to pronounce this name!!), I AGREE, AGREE with all your points. The only reason Archana's family is pushing her into this marriage is because jaywant is willing to accept her with her ateet. It is so disgusting; it is as if a great favour is being done to her. Even Manav said this crap, and her dad's bedside lecture was all about J may be bad, but not so bad because he is willing to accept you. YOU with YOUR PAST. Is she some soiled goods? How can CVs plug this line in the 21st century?. I live on my own and believe me I am having a whale of a time. I'm not against marriage but it must happen because you have found someone you want to marry not because you have to marry, so find someone, anyone. Right now archu looks like a lamb being led to the slaughter house and her mother is tittering on about how good her fiance is and what a wonderful life she will have etc. etc.. In the same breath she will say that no one knows her daughter as well as her. I bet she will want a full tamasha wedding with all the rituals and the works, not even allowing her grieving daughter the courtesy of opting for a simple court marriage. And yeah, you can also bet that the sisters will come dressed like christmas trees, giggling and going on about the honewale jeeju ( I feel like puking when they say this), completely oblivous to archu's pain and suffering. Can't bear to watch all this. Nor can I understand the drooling sympathy for the family on the forum.

Don't mean to annoy anyone.

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

@Kools: No one praised the leads. I myself said they are foolish. I didn't even call her family 'villains'.

I agree with many points in your post. But my grouse against sulo is this- when Archu was herself ready to break off with Jay, she literally went physical trying to stop her. She sang praises of Jay to Archu saying he is good, he accepted you with your ateet. (You had even made a poem of it- I loved it.😆). Sulo clearly sees Archu is not happy with the marriage. She feels trapped. And with Manohar's recent heart attack, she feels guilty and is marrying Jaywant to keep her parents happy bas.

Sulo knows her daughter has suicidal tendencies. In that post where you were debating with Saffy, you yourself wrote all these lines. And I loved it. Sulo is being careless with her daughter.

If she really loves her daughter, she should break the engagement and get her daughter to a therapist instead of trapping her in this loveless marriage. She had pulled her daughter out of Manav's home when he was found to be characterless, caring two hoots about tradition and stuff. Why can't she do the same now, sayng that beta if you are feeling strangulated in this marriage, break it, I will support you????

I'm really not happy with what Sulo is doing. She knows Archu doesn't want to be in this marriage and is only degrading the family and causing them embarassment by being in it- for her family as well as for Jays.

Wow sereaishitedare !!! You are a psychology student???!!???? How totally cool!!!

@kools: I most certainly didn't do that Kools. I don't think its wrong of her to think about getting her daughter married. But its wrong of her to force. Totally wrong.

In fact, I think, right now everything is talking about what is happening NOW. Hai na guys???