Originally posted by: gaurimisha
u know tanya...am proud of her too....for never once thinking what will happen to her but its all about manav.
my disappointment is abt how she treats her family...for her pavitra rishta....not exactly necessary...but pyaar mein diwani archu ko aur kuch nahi dikh raha....I hope she stays single and comes out as a stronger person,after this struggle.Want to see her developing into a stronger individual,taking lessons from this struggle.😊
It's Ok GM.
I completely undersatnd your stand and also Kool's stand. You both are very sensible girls and your stand here has to be respected ...
As for me , right from the begining I had said ( at the day of the maha episode ) , One has to do the right thing ...Period .I am standing by that even now .
And like Archana , even I am getting ready to face heavy duty critisizing for this ...and that is perfectly Ok .
As I said before , both yo uand Kool are absolutey justified in your stand as well.
Of course I feel sorry for her family specially Vaishali and her parents ..But a crime has been committed and like the families of any criminal , this family too will have to face problems . But it has to be the family of the criminal that should face problem because their person ( Dhamresh in this case ) did not think about them before committing the crime .
The family of the innocent victim should not suffer at all..In fact Manav should be compensated by the comapny .
And let me make one thing very very clear here now . I do not , repeat ....do not expect now that Manav will come back and say ' I will marry her now ".
If Archu is doing what she believs in then he should also do what he believes in . If his promise , his family is what is more important to him then he should go and honor his promise . I will not dislike him for that and as Archana fan will explain to any other fan if they are angry ...
It does not make him a bad person at all..
The only reason I would ever want Manav to want her back is if he is so much in love with her that he cannot imagine living without her ....other than that , I do not want him to feel obliged in taking her responsibility .
She is a very strong girl and does not need anyone , including him to take her zimmedari .
As far as I am concerned , he has done what he could do for Archana the other day ....
Archu should do this for him ...get him out of that pathetic place . He does not belong there . If her family , very undersatndibly , throws her out then accept it in a dignified manner and start life fresh . But if they take her back then do whatever she can do to keep them happy for the rest of her life ...
Preferably break relations with Jaywant rane .That is a doomed relationship ..If there is no love , no trust ....only hatred then how can a relationship be good ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago