I feel really bad for Archu....

I feel really bad for Archu....................what is happening to Archu and Manav today is absolutely disgusting in my opinion. As someone said......You can do a hundred positive things but if you make one mistake or do one negative thing, people don't remember those positive things you have done anymore. Archu and Manav both have bend their backs for their family, especially Archu's family. What have they both not done for them.........and to misunderstand them like this??? Lets put Manav aside, Darmesh and Jay both also betrayed Archu. They took her sign with out her knowledge. Yes, she should have been smarter, but she also trusted them. So, they have also broke her trust. She as every right to be mad at them. As for the slap.........👏👏👏........He insulted their love. She had every right to slap him. Darmesh went as far as calling their rishta "badnam".......that is also a direct insult to Archu, almost calling her a tramph.........how disgusting!!😡........so its not ok to slap your BIL but its ok to call your SIL a tramph........very fair. I hope Archu leaves...........and fights the case with Rasika Aai's help and connection. I would also love to see Archu take the avtar of Manav's lawyer......and have a good dramatic court track..............

Agreed

Nice post Taral,have enjoyed most of ur posts and u have been missing for a while now.

Agreed; all the brothers-in-law and their families are reprehensible...but Archu's family is making me sick, even more than Ashwin...

Originally posted by: ..Sonii..

Agreed

her all support systems are pulling her down,

Everyone knew the result of forced marriages but still they took it forward.....

Exactttlllyy.....they are all acting as if Archu had agreed to marry Jay out of her own will. And that now she loves him..........how hard headed are they all? A person, that put her own life on the line, so that her love can fulfill his promise to someone else. Do they really think that person would take the side of her to be hubby who is absolutely wrong vs her true love???? Why is it that everyone says life must go on...that you must settle down and marry..........For many people it is one love one life..................they were soul mates...............what Darmesh called ArMan's relationship is actually a slap in the face to Radha Krishna's relationship also. Both Radhaji and Krishna bhagwan both loved each other dearly but married others. Yet today we pray to them together, we bow our head to them in respect, we only know them as a couple and not their real spouse. So is that a "badnam rishta"..................in the name of society, Archu's family has completely forgotten her love and her feelings.................shame on all of them............

Originally posted by: SaffyFlower

Nice post Taral,have enjoyed most of ur posts and u have been missing for a while now.

Welcome back

I had stopped watching for a little while...just kept up with the fabulous updates..........all the characters were making me sick......especially Archu.......her confused state was killing me....😆.. and I just couldn't digest Archu and Jay....ew.....🤢.......well I think she is back on track now.......so you might see me more often........😃

Originally posted by: taral83

I feel really bad for Archu....................what is happening to Archu and Manav today is absolutely disgusting in my opinion. As someone said......You can do a hundred positive things but if you make one mistake or do one negative thing, people don't remember those positive things you have done anymore. Archu and Manav both have bend their backs for their family, especially Archu's family. What have they both not done for them.........and to misunderstand them like this??? Lets put Manav aside, Darmesh and Jay both also betrayed Archu. They took her sign with out her knowledge. Yes, she should have been smarter, but she also trusted them. So, they have also broke her trust. She as every right to be mad at them. As for the slap.........👏👏👏........He insulted their love. She had every right to slap him. Darmesh went as far as calling their rishta "badnam".......that is also a direct insult to Archu, almost calling her a tramph.........how disgusting!!😡........so its not ok to slap your BIL but its ok to call your SIL a tramph........very fair. I hope Archu leaves...........and fights the case with Rasika Aai's help and connection. I would also love to see Archu take the avtar of Manav's lawyer......and have a good dramatic court track..............

Edit........thought I should add this into the many topic.......😊

they are all acting as if Archu had agreed to marry Jay out of her own will. And that now, she loves him..........how hard headed are they all? A person, that put her own life on the line, so that her love can fulfill his promise to someone else. Do they really think that person would take the side of her to be hubby who is absolutely wrong vs her true love???? Why is it that everyone says life must go on...that you must settle down and marry..........For many people it is one love one life..................they were soul mates...............what Darmesh called ArMan's relationship is actually a slap in the face to Radha Krishna's relationship also. Both Radhaji and Krishna bhagwan loved each other dearly but married others. Yet today we pray to them together, we bow our head to them in respect, we only know them as a couple and not their real spouse. So is that a "badnam rishta".????.................in the name of society, Archu's family has completely forgotten her love and her feelings.................shame on all of them............

well said

Archana's "loved" ones have repeatedly shown they don't care one bit about how she feels, I've seen Satish, Ajit and Vandu show more concern for her than her family. It is all about what they want and what they think is best for her, they treat her like a child who can't speak for herself and when she does, she is being called selfish. There is nothing selfish about her, from day one I've seen Archana do whatever she had to to make those she loves happy. It is a shame that those Archana sacrificed so much in life for are the same ones who are turning their back on her today, she did everything for her parents and sisters but they have become so selfish and so disrespectful towards her.