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coolpratz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#151

oh, Tanya di, mannu dear bcame winner n i was so busy that i opened IF after 2 days... i missed d happiness... well,,, now i knw n i'm very happy...

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coolpratz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#152

ok then my vote 2 manav again n i won't miss chance 2 vote him... 😍 4 scolding choo... which i always wish to see....
he finally fulfilled my wish... i luved whn he said... aagli baar aur bura marunga....😆...

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Posted: 15 years ago

#153

dont think whatever Manav said ws wrong .... he's behaving in a pragmatic manner , he knows that if they keep staring at one another or share lunch the workers r going to gossip nd he said before that Archi's 'izzat' is more precious then his izzat .....Dharmu has already warned him nd he doesnt want to lose his job nor does he want Archana to lose hers.... one year back they both decided to part ways ..... but after the leap Archu is acting weird by constantly following him giving him those looks as if they r still a couple ...... why this hypocrisy I think Manav is more sensible .... of course he's human nd loves Archu so at times diff for him to keep his emotions in check .... both needs to decide what they want esp Archana ...this one day milna nd the next day bicharna is getting boring.

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#154

Originally posted by: piya_10
dont think whatever Manav said ws wrong .... he's behaving in a pragmatic manner , he knows that if they keep staring at one another or share lunch the workers r going to gossip nd he said before that Archi's 'izzat' is more precious then his izzat .....Dharmu has already warned him nd he doesnt want to lose his job nor does he want Archana to lose hers.... one year back they both decided to part ways ..... but after the leap Archu is acting weird by constantly following him giving him those looks as if they r still a couple ...... why this hypocrisy I think Manav is more sensible .... of course he's human nd loves Archu so at times diff for him to keep his emotions in check .... both needs to decide what they want esp Archana ...this one day milna nd the next day bicharna is getting boring.

He is Not wrong AT ALL . He said the RIGHT thing . This Dost cum BOSS thing and constantly slipping in two different modes will look very FISHY to the workers . He was protecting HER reputation more than his when he said that ...........a woman's reputation is very fragile and workers talk dirtily of such a woman ............Prakash already has started , MANY MORE will join him . And this is what I was saying all along , that no one blames the man , its always the woman . Always .

Archu fans r hurt that he said Ajnabee and earlier day it slipped from his mouth Meri Archana. That slip was not premeditated at all . He had defended HER and beaten up a worker at the cost of losing hIS bread and butter ...............does this mean something or no ? A family of 4 is dependent on him for food and this man risked that to defend Archu . He also saw to it that other men wudnt dare talk like this about her by copying Prakash .

Then he thought about it ...............this wud continue if they continued to be friendly in front of the workers , he had silenced them temporarily but they wudnt keep quiet for long . So he told her , better not to talk at all in front of them and behave like strangers .U see this DOR VOR business will NOT be understood by them . And he is damn right . He thought of HER and did it more for hER than himself ...........people were not taunting hIM , they were taunting HER . Its always that way .

U guys look at it in emotional way and get huffy ..........once more he turned his back on our Archu .What shud he have done ............continued this way till mud was flung on her face and Dharmu wud call HER to his cabin and sack her saying Her badnaam reputation is causing distraction among workers ? Do u guys see what a terrible INSULT it wud be to ur Archu ?

Jaywant was heavily gambling with his money recklessly that day on phone .it means something .The way he reacted AFTER the peon told him , also means something . He is not an emotional man . He will calculate after he goes in loss , so what if she is divorcee , her salary will supplement my losses , my income . She is boss here but Ill be her boss at home and keep her in control , she has influence on Satish and Dharmu , she is valuable asset .

Manav wud never use her money even if he went hungry .He gave her Dad 3 lacs by taking loan when his own garage was in trouble and Shravni had pointed it out . Nor will he take advantage of her sexually and sleep with her and discard her . He is a man who is NOT a USER and this speaks volumes for him and his love . She is not a fool to worship him this way , he has some very fine qualities ad she has seen them .

Bitchy men not only use their wifes money but dominate them sexually and emotionally at home to clip their wings and keep them in control . See what Manav is and see what Jaywant will be [ on what basis saffy feels this confident about him I dunno] and then talk guys.

U guys want flowery words for her , prioritization for her . Well in a way by risking his job by fighting with Praksh , he did prioritize her over the basic need of his life ....feeding his family .

This jaywant thing will bombard on HER not on manav .She will be maximum sufferer .Once she gets married , Jaywant will start DOMINATING her .He is No manav , remember that .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 15 years ago

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#155

I think this is a very complictaed situation and that is why we all have such different point of views . I don't think anyone iswrong or anyone is right here ..

I feel very bad for Archana .

She has always been shown to be much more in love with Manav then he is with her . He even told Tarun that the problem is that she loevs me way more than I love her .

Plus the guilt of what happened to his family because her family ..

These were the main two reasons why she complied by Manav's wishes and gave him the divorce . She was not being mahaan , not in my eyes ...she was just a girl foolishly and hopelessly in love ...not willing to see the person whome she loved move away from her , the way he did before .

So she gave up her marriage ...

But she could not stop loving him ....

In her heart and her mind , he is still her husband ...

She will never stop loving him ...

What happened to her two days ago was a killer yet again ...

This man who is her life was looking not just in love with her but someone who is obsessively in love with her ...He grabbed her hand and told her ...almost like some insane lover , that he will kill for her and die for her ...all because of his own happiness , because she means so much to him. He also said that his dimaagh goes kharaab when it comes to her ...and not just that , so much more.

If a guy says all this to a girl , who is so madly in love with him already ....what is to be expected ..She is goign to fall even more for him....even more deeply in love . And that is what is happening .

Manav is the one who is in a committment . he should have reported Prakash to the administration and complained instead of acting the way he did and specially telling Archana all that he told her ..

It brings her back to Square one ...

Then he quickly gains composure the next day and now he wants to be ajnabee.......I guess that is the right sensible thing to do ..

But hey Manav, have a heart yaar ....

You know she is crazy about you .Your confession of love for her will make her even more crazy ..

Anyway ...

Now I just want Archana to get married again . I want her to totally break up with Manav .

Manav is a good man but he is not right for her ..

He may love her but it's not enough for him to want her to be his wife. In fact his love is only going to give her pain , so she is best as away from him as possible ....

But this guy Jaywant is not right ..Not him . Kool also feels that he is no good . Someone else should come . Someone who is a good person and have good values as a human being ...Not necessarily rich or all that good looking ...just a very nice person would do ..

Slowly slowly , maybe she will start getting involved in her own life then ...

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coolpratz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#156

not JAywant 4 archu.... some practical person... jay is overambitious.....

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#157

I also don't want Jaywat ..

Kool is right , he seems dodgy . He could make life hell for Archana . A nice man should come in her life now .

Doesn't have to eb rich or all very good looking ...Just a decent human being will do .

What she needs most in life is to have a baby of her own . If she gets a baby , she will totally focuss on him/ her ..Her past will not mean that much to her then ...

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#158

Jaywant will USE Archu . At home , at work both .Once he marries her he will not agree to a demarcation of BOSS at office and wife at home at all .He will expect her to favour him even at office , he is NO MANAV . . Manav cud use Archu in many ways , he knows she has full sympathy for him .He cud tell sob stories of his family and use her monetary help , he cud use the Rishta card and use her body with crazy emotional tallk , he cud control her like a puppet , that way she is crazy about him . . As a matter of fact he doesnt do this . He expects nothing from her . .
On one hand u guys say he doesnt show adequate emotion for Archu .When he beat up worker ur saying he shud have kept level head and complained to management . I understand what ur saying , ur saying this makes her eagerly emotional , these kind of slipped signals .

Perhaps . But he is human , right ? A Human with excellent control but NOT GOD . His fight with Prakash was precisely that . He didnt do it to give her mixed signals , to lead her on , nothing . He told her bluntly , I did it for MYSELF .

Look at how she behaved when she fired him in front of all .She was crying and yelling . As TB pointed out she looked almost hysterical . Cud she control her emotions and leave decision making to management ? For all her BS of Im a supervisor speaking , clearly it was no supervisor speaking but it was ARchana who was scared HE wud lose his job if he wnt down in Dharmus eyes . And hence the hysteria , and asking repeatedly TUMHE HO KYA GAYA HAI MANAV . It was not a supervisors question it was a wifes question who was protecting her husband .

And his hitting the worker was the same ...........a husband protecting her repuation not his own , he cared a damn for his own reputation .

They r still married mentally and have not moved on , BOTH . Clearly they shud not marry other spouses and do more SAtyanaash . The divorce on paper can be rectified , its a MAAMULI mistake compared to the bigger one they will do by marrying other individuals .That Mistake will be IIRECTIFIABLE , the Paper Mistake can be RECTIFIED EVEN NOW

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#159

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
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U guys want flowery words for her , prioritization for her . Well in a way by risking his job by fighting with Praksh , he did prioritize her over the basic need of his life ....feeding his family .

No , I don't want anything of that sort now . Manav is a sweet man and yes that was very nice and actually very romantic the way he prtected her and risked his own life .

But our girl is foolish and I wish she was not told all that he told her ...It's gonna make her even more bonkers about him...

whatever ...I wish Manav good luck and I hope he does very well in his job and in hsi life and that his mother , Shravani and baby sachin give him lots of happiness and take good care of him..

What I really want now is a new guy for Archana ..Someone who is a good person with good values and her family should just make sure that she marries him. Then I want her to have a baby of her own and nurture that child and showers all that love that she has in her on this baby ..That's it ..

that's what I want for Archana ...a nice decent man, a happy little home and a cute little baby .

As for Manav, he is very right . They should stay ajnabee...

Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#160

It wont work for ur girl Archana . . She wont be happy . She is a one man girl .

Nothing has been lost yet .The divorce on paper has been done but it can be rectified .

Once they marry other spouses not just they but even spouses will be doomed in a satyanaashi marraige where these two will NOT be able to give them emotional fulfilment . [ Its already happening with Shravni .]

Besides I wud HATE to see Archu giving up her lovely body to a man she doesnt love . It will be EMOTIONAL TORTURE for her . She is the kind who will BURN away emotionally while doing it . No its just not worth it .

If u love Archu u wudnt want this for her . Better to rectify the mistake and thats what Ill demand in commentary , whether they hear or not is upto them .

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