Hopedi's new ramblings thread!!!!!! - Page 98

totally agree with all points made....


could not believe archana took the kids back....surely this is the right of the father???..not the aunt to decide....what she said about manju realising her mistake??..HELLO!!!!!!!

sorry....but when has manju ever realised???????......lets face it shes a lost cause..time for vinod to move on and teach manju a lesson........I think rasika will force manju to file for divorce thinking that this will bring him back..hope they get the shock of their lives..

and why shd rasika live at the new flat if manju returns home?

Originally posted by: piya_10

agree with yr rantings Hope completely ..... esp the child custody part , Manju was not worried about her kids she was more concerned whether Vinod well file for divorce or not. It was Archana who always took care of Punni like her own child ,fed her , took her to school etc even Sulochana did her bit while Manju was busy all the time plotting with her evil Mom ..... never seen her share any emotional mother-daughter bond ever .....Vinod is a decent father and he was absolutely right in his outburst I believe Punni and the younger one will be better off living with their father then be with their scheming mom nd grandma. Not sure about the shakkar philosophy but they will get lots of love, attention nd care from Sulochana , Archana nd Manohar.

Piay

generally speakign thsi show sends all the wrong social messages but I am happy that they brought up this topic.

She had no right to take away his children AND LEAVE THEM THERE. she said visit, she never said drop off. Man Piya I was so upset with her when she did that. the problem is that when she meddles she never thinks

I ahev seen so many many men destroyed for this reason. Just because you fail as a husband does not mean that you fail as a father.

Manju wanted to party all the time at the cost of her children so he took the children so that she could do whatever she wantes. What is so wrong inthat? What he did cannot be compared to what she did. Sulo would die for her kids. Manju would see how it would affect her life before she did that. the situation is difficult to compare.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

HOPE >>>>>BEST RAMBLING CUM RANT UPTODATE . . Agree with EVERY WORD . . Mogga I LOVE U . Mogga I missed U . Have just replied to Arien in red in commentary Check it out . Archna has INCREASED THE MONSTER CALLED MANJU .............. . SHE IS AGAIN NOT LISTENING TO MANAV .By LISTENING I dont mean following him , JUST GIVING A EAR . She has a problem LISTENING .

She will be instrumental in SENDING HIMTO JAIL >>>>> and SHRAVNI WILL BE PROVEN RIGHT

He HAD TOLD HER IM GONNA DO IT AGAIN and IM NOT SIGNING

She will make mess of JAYS LIFE TOO

She is a GOOFY , SATYANASSHI WOMAN . NAMASKAR tO HER WITH JOINT HANDS .

Gosh I cud say MUCH MORE but am in Time crunch .

Kools

Mog tukka right back. Missed you all too. Come online is very difficult these days and weekends seems to be the only time.

Archu needs something - MAYBE DOLLOPS AND DOLLOPS OF SEX - I honestly cannot think of another solution for her.

manav will end up in jail. I totally agree with you. I do not like Shravani but her logic cannot be faulted

I was very upset with Dharmesh yesterday onmany fronts - first the stupid apology to Manav and the waiver of his loan??????? thent he pep talk to Jaywant. Please mister your words are empty the guy has been a good manager for a whiel now evidently or you would not have kept hima round. yet his hopes for promotion got bumped by an underqualified, in experienced in capable relative.

Please can you repeat the carrer development talk again so I can record it and play it next time you put another incompetent relative in a higher grade than me and GET ME TO DO HER WORK.

Everyone blames Manav and I blame him for convincing her to sign the divorce papers BUT SHE DID GRAHAPRAVESH OF SHRAVANI WITH AARTI, SHE REFUSED MARRIAGE AFTER DIVORCE. SHE BOUGHT SHRAVANI BACK AND SHE HAS MESSED WITH HIS HEAD WITH ALL HER EYE LOCKS, MINISTRATIONS AND CONFUSING LOVEY DOVEY GESTURES. I am not sayign he is not a willing participant but at least he do not deny it when it is staring him in the face.

I want to be your strength. Well lady you don;t know what a woman's strenght is. you have noclue. You have a PHD in Door Mat Philoshophy with a specializing in senseless relationship mismanagement

yup I believe ppl take it for granted that mothers r better at parenting then fathers ....... have seen a few cases where the father is so much better in all respects yes a child needs both but if a situation arises were the child has to choose only one I guess it's up to the child to decide but here both the kids r too young so not sure ..... reminds me of Kramer vs Kramer 😊

Originally posted by: bhavni88

totally agree with all points made....


could not believe archana took the kids back....surely this is the right of the father???..not the aunt to decide....what she said about manju realising her mistake??..HELLO!!!!!!!

sorry....but when has manju ever realised???????......lets face it shes a lost cause..time for vinod to move on and teach manju a lesson........I think rasika will force manju to file for divorce thinking that this will bring him back..hope they get the shock of their lives..

and why shd rasika live at the new flat if manju returns home?

Vindo should divorce her and tell that marriage bureau friend of his mome to find a nice girl for him. the man needs to have a happy life without having to pay for any happinness he receives ten fold. Manju needs to live like a spinster.

she did not look hot to begin with and after children though evcen that appea is lost. doubt she will be able to hook another innocent.

can i tell u something guys and don't kill e but though I LOVE SATISH. he is not the right man for Varsha. For a marriage to be fun and have fire, the partners need to be equal in strength and attitude. Satish is tooooooooooo naram.

Ashwin ans Varsha would have made a very entertaining couple

Satish Varsha

Vindo Manju

Ashwin Urni

All onesided relationships. One party is always more dominating than the other and the other party always succumbs

varsha may not realize it but She is Satish's Manju. She has also driven Satish from his mother like manju drove Vinod from his mother. We like her so we don'tnotice this. She is not as scheming as Manju but she is equally headstrong and wilful.

Originally posted by: piya_10

yup I believe ppl take it for granted that mothers r better at parenting then fathers ....... have seen a few cases where the father is so much better in all respects yes a child needs both but if a situation arises were the child has to choose only one I guess it's up to the child to decide but here both the kids r too young so not sure ..... reminds me of Kramer vs Kramer 😊

Piya that is exactly the movie I was thinking of . I hated Merly streep witha passion in that movie. But it opened my eyes and I stopped seeing men in a stereotypical role.

My husband is a 1000 times better as a parent than I am. Ask my kids they know this. he is indulgent when he needs to be and firm when he needs to be. eh talks to them like people rather thankids. he educates their minds just like he supports their hearts. I am more practical b/w the two of us and very task oriented.

I ahve already told my husband this on multiple multiple occassions, If we ever split he gets the kids no questions asked. it is not an area that I could even consider another solution.

Womens libbers want rights but they want rights at the exploitation fo men not in equality qith men. I am so against that cannot see myself as a woman's libber. though I am far from a door mat.

seriously, I fi was a lawyer I would take cases of battered husbands, grieved fathers and the sort with no qualms of loyalty to my own sex. In this day and age this draconian attitude is appalling.

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

[I want to be your strength. Well lady you don;t know what a woman's strenght is. you have noclue. You have a PHD in Door Mat Philoshophy with a specializing in senseless relationship mismanagement

Originally posted by: bhavni88

totally agree with all points made....


could not believe archana took the kids back....surely this is the right of the father???..not the aunt to decide....what she said about manju realising her mistake??..HELLO!!!!!!!

sorry....but when has manju ever realised???????......lets face it shes a lost cause..time for vinod to move on and teach manju a lesson........I think rasika will force manju to file for divorce thinking that this will bring him back..hope they get the shock of their lives..

and why shd rasika live at the new flat if manju returns home?

I hope she forces the divorce. then Archu will learn how she has destroyed Vinod;s life by GIVING AWAY his kids and though Vindo will be free as a human being I hope he learns NOT TO LET WELL MEANING PEOPLE make his decisions for him. Considerign their point of view is important bu the decision has to be based on many things bsedisethe view point like his knowdlege of manju, his past experiences, his gut feeling etc.

Both Vinod and Archu are at fault. Only kids are suffering liek footballs here. bruised while they are kicked around from one post to the other. Shame Shame Shame

Archana saying the other day she wants to be Manav's strength and not his weakness .... what a laugh seriously..... I have said this in SOTD she can only be his strength by marrying him , being his wife nd not the other woman ...... if life and circumstances have given u a 2nd chance then go for it . but naah that's too simplistic she gets a kick by being Mahaan , idolized by Vandu revered by Manav , sorting this whole mess practically is not something that interests her. Last episode gave her a gr8 chance to talk to Manav bout her feelings , Manav's feelings ,their future, the road ahead but no she just scurried off giving no chance whatsoever to her bhagwaan