As i was reflecting on Bhavana tai's decision on staying separate and wanting to stay separate, I don't think she is wrong. She has her strong opinions about life and priorities and so does varsha. We do not want Varsha in her mid twenties to give up her independent thinking then why are we asking a lady in her fifties or sixties to do that.
It is more difficult to be flexible and open ( I am not saying it is impossible) as you become older because you reach there with your experiences and whatever samajh you got out of it. I see many families adopting this let's live separately and be peaceful and maintain the thread of relationship instead of staying under one roof and getting in each other's way.
When they can afford to live separately and it seems that they meet each other every week, why this insistence of let's be together. The Zid will not achieve much but strain the relations more. Each person needs their space and for all her other immaturity, Bhavana Tai and Mohanrao's decision to stay in their worli flat is much wiser.
Compare this separation with Manju Vinod and Sulochana /Manohar separation. It also came about because manju and her saas did not see eye to eye, and sulochana took the stand to support the separation. If that is wisdom then why is Bhavana tai's character just ZIddi.
the important thing is no matter where you stay, do you still love and care for your family. Satish Varsha, Bhavana tai, MOhanrao seem to do that.
I know this is not on people's mind, if serials need to speak for what is happening in the society, I think this is a more accurate and more reflective approach than forced staying for the sake of society.
what do you think?