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Posted: 15 years ago
Its Archu's problem how she manages to move ahead after getting involved with Manav n his family....She's sure she'll handle it...thats what she picked up for her willingly,in right state of mind.
If in the process,shravani is getting insecurities,its her problem as well.
Manav picked up a lane n its good he's sticking to it...but in the process he's only suffering
Edited by gaurimisha - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

@kool:On the day of his engagement,he said archana to forget him and move ahead.Now,he's giving her the mangalsutra and saying he doesnt agree that shravani is his wife but she is,and she will be till the divorce.He repeats this thrice infront of shravani.Isnt it some sort of encouragement for archana to behave all wifey ...

Gauri, I agree that he is reacting with his emotions but she should know better right, he and his family repeatedly bring up the divorce deadline and timeperiod. Gauri put yourself in such a situation would you not want a firm answer before you yourself make a decision about your future. I ask you Gauri WHY OH WHY IS ARCHU NOT ASKING THIS QUESTION. Who should have Archu's interests most at heart but Archu herself, eh?

And Gauri as an ArMan lover I too love the innuendo filled dialogues the CV's make Manav say but let's assume that you were one of unbiased members of the audience, Gauri you would not search for the double meaning. you would hear the convo like this. archu - this mangalsutra belongs to your future wife and Choo will eb your future wife. Manav - I don' think so and I don't feel that way. I have always considered this mangalsutra yours and it will be yours until divorce. And please remember that I am also a hopelessly romantic ArMan Lover but where or where my dear does he indicate that he is not going to marry choo. if you read the transcript really all he is talking about was the mangalsutra. it was hers he came to return it to her. i know what I would like to belive he said but end of day I have to blame him for what he actually said not what i would have liked to hear him say or what I thought he meant. hai, na gauri? 😃😃

@hope:Archana is very selfish when it comes to this one person in her life...initially,she was unfair to Manav bcoz this person used to be her mother and now she tolerated all crap bcoz this person is Manav.
All her actions are dictated by love for this man...she's being selfish but at the same time,she has been honest with her feelings to both Manav and shravani.It is very difficult to pick a lane when someone has this kind of unconditional love.
If Manav made some mistakes under emotional pressure,dont u think Archana,as a human is entitled to some weakness as well,however broad minded ,sensitive or good she may be.
Her only weakness is her love for Manav...how I wish I could change that ..

Gauri, bhot mushkil hai I TOTALLY Agree. Totally. BUT UNAVOIDABLE. ITS NOW OR LATER. EITHER WAY WILL ALWAY SBE PAINFUL FOR ARCHU. Why is her family not helping her to pcik this lane? Where are Archu supporters. Can we blame Girishji for taking an active role now when he has realized hte problem while Archu's parents who have always knwon the problem are acting like the three monkeys - HERE NO EVUL< SEE NO EVIL _ DO NO EVIL

Gauri, if Choo is delusional because of her selfish love for Manav, Archu is equally delusional because of her unconditional selfless love for Manav. both are mental. they are driving this man mental. 😆😆😆. they are driving me EXTREMELY MENTAL. 😆😆 and forcing me to have this nasty debate with somebody who I really like, you dear gauri. 😃😃

I want to open a ARCHU_MANV_CHOO HATECLUB. But I won't becasue these are fictional characters and I going to keep loading myself up with caffeine until I realize this. 😆😆

Edited by stillhopeful - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
gauri to me him wanting to stay with his wife is the most sanest and the most logical and frankly the most acceptable decision in the world.

The charachters idiots though they both are are idiots made for each other. God surely regrets giving them the dimwit gene😆😆😆

But are if this is decision then make it, na? Answer the question. No matter who asks it.

Arre baba at least be bold enought ot answer the question in your own heart. Put those feelings into words. react emotionally but intentionally not instinctively
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Posted: 15 years ago
GM, come to think of it ,you are right . Once Archu will see manav in trouble and that drama queen giving all sorts of looks to everyone ,she herslef will accept that she will leave ...
Though I really wish she wouldn't ....
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Posted: 15 years ago
Loved the scene between Archana and Savita . I hope they always stay on good terms this way ...😊
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

GM, come to think of it ,you are right . Once Archu will see manav in trouble and that drama queen giving all sorts of looks to everyone ,she herslef will accept that she will leave ...
Though I really wish she wouldn't ....



It's somewhat comforting that IF this happens, she will leave on her own. Not Manav or Girishji or Shravani telling her to leave. If it's her decision to leave, then it's not as annoying. But I don't want her slinking off in the night, or even day for that matter, everyone should be present to witness. I hope the entire chawl is invited! Okay... maybe not the entire chawl, that's just my anger talking. 😕
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Posted: 15 years ago

t's Ok Mansi , my anger has now subsided ...😆

If she doesn't want to see Manav getting in trouble from that Girish Ji then if she wants she should leave ...
We have to accept that she loves that guy and he comes before anyone else....that is what Archu is all about . She'd rather die than trouble Manav...
I am just very happy that she is on such good terms with Savita and Damodar ....
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Posted: 15 years ago
Tanya,

Her relationship w/ her in-laws is a positive that came from this entire mess, which I'm thankful for as well. It wasn't easy, but Archana finally managed to make Savita love and appreciate her. 👍🏼 I think she may actually miss her more than even Manav, lol.
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Posted: 15 years ago
haha , true . I am just glad for all the positives now . Do not want to think about the negatives .
She has Savita and damodar for life and I know that Manav too thinks higly of her . She is young , beautiful , efficient ...has a nice family behind her....she will do just fine once she leaves this house . I am very confident about my girl .....
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

gauri to me him wanting to stay with his wife is the most sanest and the most logical and frankly the most acceptable decision in the world.


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