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unknown18

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Posted: 15 years ago

#161

U forgot trust:p well i m not experienced😆 i wud marry someone if i trust them,respect them nd fare for them nd i wud expect the same.love keeps developing with time.there r still a lot of arranged marriages happening (nd i wud b opting for arranged marriage) nd sometimes love nd comfort miguht take longer to develop so in that case what shud u do. Throw the hubby on the sofa! U trusted this person with ur life nd u cant let him sleep on the bed!what nonsense!

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Tulsey

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Posted: 15 years ago

#162

Originally posted by: unknown18
U forgot trust:p well i m not experienced😆 i wud marry someone if i trust them,respect them nd fare for them nd i wud expect the same.love keeps developing with time.there r still a lot of arranged marriages happening (nd i wud b opting for arranged marriage) nd sometimes love nd comfort miguht take longer to develop so in that case what shud u do. Throw the hubby on the sofa! U trusted this person with ur life nd u cant let him sleep on the bed!what nonsense!

and what happens if things get worse between them....or even worse the marriage does not work out.....is the person going to file for an annulment? what a mess.... A smart person will not take such a chance

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unknown18

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Posted: 15 years ago

#163

Love b4 marriage doesnt guarantee a successful marriage. A lot of things can go wrong. I saw this happening to my sister. Same way, u can hav a successful marriage even if u r not in love b4. It depends on understanding nd many other things. I saw a live marriage going horribly wrong. We both hav our opinions due to the experiences in our lives.

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SweetFifi

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Posted: 15 years ago

#164

sid i hope your husband put a twin bed in your room 🤣

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Tulsey

@Tulsey

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Posted: 15 years ago

#165

Fifi, I am trying to convince Sid that one should know the other person well enough to get into a marriage business. Don't scare her with a twin bed.....

Sid do a survey on this PR with voting buttons, and see for yourself how many marriages are successful. You can have combinations like:

falling in love and marriage and success

falling in love and marriage gone bad

arranged marriage gone bad

arranged marriage successful

don't marry

marry when you are 40

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unknown18

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Posted: 15 years ago

#166

Twin bed 🤣 Well them I hope there will b a doghouse in the backyard 😆

tulsey obviously I wud get to know a guy b4 I get married but that doesn't mean I wud b in love b4 marriage. I might fall in love later. Who knows what might happen.

The poll is interesting 😆 but that wud based on personal experiences. Who knows what might happen with me...

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Arien_03

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Posted: 15 years ago

#167

Originally posted by: Arien_03

Manav had to take decision to save Shravani's child and it could not have waited till the divorce. The pregnancy would have advanced to a point when it would not be possible to terminate it. Its not a new relationship for Manav, it's a compromise he made to repent for his brothers mistake. He took a moral responsibility by agreeing to marry Shravani. And wouldn't it be an unfair thing to say 'I'll marry you if I get divorced" and what if he doesn't get divorced then Shravani would be left in doldrums? Where I find Manav wrong was with his decision to let engagement happen and his constant denial of having feeling for Archu in front of Shravani.

Besides we are forgetting one important thing, after Deshmukhs were beaten up at Police lock-up, Manav went to Archana's house and broke his relation with her (Tilaanjali- whatever that means). Thats equivalent to divorcing her. He had lost all respect for Archana and Karanjkar family. He literally hated Archana even more after Sachin died, there was so much hatred in him when he asked them to leave from Sachin's memorial service( can anyone say that Manav still loved Archana even during that period?).

It was under those circumstances that Shravani's pregnancy and question of child's legitimacy arose. At that point Manav didn't even want to get back with Archana so naturally he didn't think about consulting her, Archana was not in picture. He knew she gave consent to divorce and he thought she wanted to get married to Satish. Divorce was inevitable and so when Shravani's fathers asked him if he would marry her, he gave some thought that his married life is over anyways then why not make himself useful for Shravani and her child.