Originally posted by: Tanyaz
But Kool, selfishness has to have limits . How many normal gilrs do you see ( say in India ) who would get pregnant before marriage .I am not calling them immoral but they are dfinitely more selfish than your average girl out there .
there are precautions out there . Even if you have to have a relationship with your fiance even then she should have thought of her father ..
Then she was hell bent upon having the baby .
Now she hardly ever talks of the baby . She seems to want to have manav because she wants him , that's it .
Even yesterday when vandita is all in a mess , she was angry that manav was going to go out with Archana .
I don't think a normal girl would think like like this . She should have thought of Vandita and why Vandu needed someone so late at night .
The truth is a normal human often has these mixed confused feelings that he or she cannot define or understand
In that sense Shravni is very normal .
A normal human weeps over sumones death and denies food for social propriety as that is expected of him but in reality feels terribly hungry and eats in secret
A normal human feels very sorry for Husbands loss from his side in family but after sometime secretly wants all his family to disappear and life to take its own course and wants him all to herself again
Shravni feels for Vandita .We see her teaching her studies , worried when she leaves house , holding her when she sobbed after rape attempt . But when Manav goes with Archna , jealousy stirs up all the same .A very very normal reaction .Those who dont feel this way , think only of Vandu are the black and white reactions type abnormal people ....A normal person always has grey reactions .
Why wud u say that girls who accidentally get pregnant before marraige r more selfish than the average girls out there ? Maybe the average girls r more dangerous as they know how to enjoy , have a good time , not let their parents know , and marry the sixth boy after flirting with five boys and yet manaaging not to get pregnant or badnaam . The pnes who get pregnant r actually emotional fools or plain stupid . What do we really know about the so called average gals ?I am not saying all r immoral , some r really 'good ' as defined by our social norms but not ALL .
Good feelings mixed with selfish uncontrollable emotions R normal Tanya . What Archu Manav r doing is abnormal . They r doing a big mess under name of doing good . See if their sacrifices r spreading happiness or misery and then gimme an answer .
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