Is Manav Really a JERK???? - Page 7

Kool, i agree with some of ur points. i never pointed a finger at archana or sulochana when archana left manav or when sulochana insulted manav. it was all very real.

niki, i think the greatest victory for any wife is to gain respect and support from her husband and also from her in-laws. dont forget a woman is not only a wife, she is also a beti, a bahu, a sister, a mother. if u want the guy to respect ur parents then u have to respect his parents too.u wudnt want him to go against his blood relations just like u wudnt want to leave ur parents.

@kool: i joined this forum in november and was active member after start of december. I also did not like when everybody was behind archu. She was wrong but her situation was understandable too. I have always said that sulo is selfish mother but she is far far far far far far better than savita. There is even on comparison. And i an not saying that manav is doing right to his wife. But i think we are bit too harsh with him like calling him jerk beating him with acts and chappals. Give him just a bit of time. He he does not declare his love for his wife and does not stand against his mother after knowing her truth, i would be most disappointed. The problem is that i find his character little similar to myself. I an not saying that i can show such sacrifices or he someone says somethini to of i will be quiet. But like him i keep my emotions inside and thats why i corelate myself to his character and situation he is in to. I hope he does not disappoint me. He has disappointed of so far but i an very hopeful. I have seen some glimpse of emotions building up inside him and i an sure he will break up soon. And please on need to say sorry. Its perfectly find dear.

i think every mother is selfish for her child and also possessive.

@sid: I'm not saying that the guy should leave his family for his wife... not at all. I'm just trying to say that there is a truth which goes for all of us... men and women.. if you have to choose btw family and spouse.. the first spontaneous decision is always to stand by family... even if you later think that the spouse is right and you should stand by her, then the person will come back for sure.

i get ur point nikita!! i hate this battle between family and spouse. i see it happening with my sister too.

i dont know anything about Mahabharat.

After watching today's episode all I can say .

Its really difficult job to love your husband unconditionally when he brings in Savita as a package with him.

Originally posted by: -ALI-

@kool:i joined this forum in november and was active member after start of december. I also did not like when everybody was behind archu. She was wrong but her situation was understandable too. I have always said that sulo is selfish mother but she is far far far far far far better than savita. There is even on comparison. And i an not saying that manav is doing right to his wife. But i think we are bit too harsh with him like calling him jerk beating him with acts and chappals. Give him just a bit of time. He he does not declare his love for his wife and does not stand against his mother after knowing her truth, i would be most disappointed. The problem is that i find his character little similar to myself. I an not saying that i can show such sacrifices or he someone says somethini to of i will be quiet. But like him i keep my emotions inside and thats why i corelate myself to his character and situation he is in to. I hope he does not disappoint me. He has disappointed of so far but i an very hopeful. I have seen some glimpse of emotions building up inside him and i an sure he will break up soon. And please on need to say sorry. Its perfectly find dear.

Actually Ali , I have read ur thoughts in SDs swayamwar , where u joined coz guys were less in number and I was very impressed that inspite of being so young , you had such sober , mature thoughts dear . Even Tanya commented on that . Your thoughts are very nice and even today , what ur saying is right .

Our anger is at creatives dear for butchering Manavs character . All these posts r somewhere to catch their attention , i feel . Also ali , maybe we r all angry coz we really like Manav and so we expect more from him . They say that you get very angry with only that person who you like the most . We loved that Manav in the title song who looked only at Archna . By introducing twists these creatives totally erased him .

Today many arguments are given saying spouse stands first by family etc . But this was a love story and in love stories , whether it is real life or films , one goes against family for the loved one . Let us never forget this fundamental fact . Archana was not in love with Manav but Manav was in love with archna much before she even knew him . Yet later when she grew to love him and understood the meaning of love she went against her mother , spoke publicly about her love , even stood up in court and declined divorce. So now expectations from Manav , who loved her even earlier than she loved him , are far , far greater .

In short dear we r expecting him to go against Savita and blast her . And we want it to be worth the wait .

@kool: my parents always complaint that you are much matured than your age. You should be bit childish. Regarding manav, i an sure that creatives has planned vershas marriage the day for him to declare his love. If not vershas marriage he will surely do it. This is last thing i am expecting from this show. But as i said something big has to happen like you said some one trying to rape archu or his mothers bad deed coming out. @gauri: savita is his step mother i think. Any real mother can not destroy his sons life just for her bloody ego.

i think savita is his real mom. we know that she loves sachin so much but after sseeing gold, she even forgot sachin. so if she is not manav's mother then she is not sachin's mother either.

well if not varsha's wedding then maybe at her children's wedding the truth will come out and they will reunite 😆