Is Manav Really a JERK????

Before i start something, i want to clarify that I am not DEFENDING Manav and what he is doing ta moment. I agree he is WRONG and doing INJUSTICE with Archana.

MANAV IS A JERK:
I feel it is little too harsh on him. We can say he is unsuccessfull husband, but he is definitely a nice Human and he is not a Jerk. I am also angry on him, but more than that i feel PITY on him. Yes, PITY on him.
He never asked for anything for himself all his life. he wud have stayed happily with archana but his mother took that away from him. he gave up his education, his childhood, his teen years, his life, to support his family. Is any JERK can do all this??
I know Archu is at his doorsteps, but he has gone too far from her unfortunately. Circumstances, Manju, Ajit and his mom Savita took Archu away from her. Yes, his Mom whom he respects so much. Just imagine how will he feel when he come to know that his mother was responsible for his divorce with his beloved wife. He never asked anything from any one, then why did his mom did it to him??

Now, he has decided to marry shravani. But, he wil never happy with her. He will kill himself each and every day in GUILT that he did wrong with Archu... At most, he can have bond with baby, but not with Shravani. He has never looked at her in that way ever.

When Archu left MAnavs house, we called her DUMB, not Jerk. And she was definitely not jerk. Her situation was understandable too.
But then Manav wud have easily thought that his wife trusted Ajit more than his husband, then why should he fight for such a who does not trust her hubby?? Why shud he try to prove his innocence?? But, he didnt. He understood Archus situation. Is this quality of a JERK??

Similarly, many of us are saying why shud Archu fight for such a man?? Why not ??
Archu shud try to make him realise he is wrong. She should make him realise that hello, i am your wife and i am innocent too, then i am more of your responsibility than Shravani!!!
Whats wrong with it??

Regarding why cant he say NO to Shravani, BAS?? Yes DEar, NO.. 2 letters. Easy to say. But difference is huge in magnitude.

When Manav said YES to shravani, his family was in trouble, had lost SAchin and baby was his last nishaani. His relation with Archu was over. Nothing was left in it. He never knew Archu was and would come back in his life!! He never thought that Archu wouldsuddenly realize that she loves Manav especially when she said that she hates him and will never look back at him..

Now, today if he says no to Shravani, what wil happen to her?? No one would like to marry a pregnant . People will curse her for doing all this before mariage. Then she can go with abortion. But, Shravani is 4 month pregnant and then there is RISK of her LIFE and also her Babys life. Then, who will be responsible if sumthing happens with her?? SACHIN.. NO.. Manav wil be responsible for it.. Becoz he had commited earlier to mary her becoz he did not knew that Archu will come back in his life..

Yes manav signed divorce papers but only when manju said that archu is marrying satish and only manav is between them. Agree that manav shud hve talked to archu, but when savita said that manav has sent divorce papers, Archu also believed savita and didnt ask manav.
Plus earlier manav had tried talking to archu , but everytime he tried, something wrong happened and he signed divrce papers only for ARCHUS HAPPINESS as he thought she wants to marry satish and will be happy with him..
This is same as Archu is doing at moment, but YES MAGNITUDE is difference. Archu is doing and paying more than him. But Manav is not a JERk..

Manav is getting filled up with all emotions inside and he will soon break up. But sumthing is required like Truth of his mother coming out or something similar....

I know that many of you will not agree with me. But, i feel MORE OF PITY on him.. I wish that no one should have a life like Manav has in real life... He has always been escapegoat... He is an emotional fool who live for others.. If he wud have lived for himself, today ARCHANA wud have been with him...


I am expecting Dozens of Eggs and Lots of Tomatoes to be thrown at me. 😆 😆 BUt, i feel he is not a JERk and i feel PITY on him and ARCHANA too...

I hope that any of you are not hurt with this. Its just my opinion.I never felt like saying all this anymore, but i think there has been too many HARSH words used for him at moment. I rather feel for him at moment and feel Angry, BAd, Sad and above all PITY for him..

May be he is wrong at the moment......... but cant hate him and call him a jerk....

@hari:
Not may be, he is definitely WRONg.. But , he is in very bad situation at moment. He cant say no to shravani NOW as it has been too late.. Still he is filled up with all emotions and some reality of his mother coming out will burst out all his emotions..
Something will surely happen on Vershas marriage day..

When i put myself in his situation, i feel PITY for him.. Its easiest to talk great things that he shud have done this and Archu shud have done that.. BUt, those who are in such situations, ask them how difficult it is?? not only MAnav, but also Archana too..

There is high understandability between them....... They are suffering for a good cause...... God tests those who are good.......

If Manav would have chosen for Archana now, same people would have called him SELFISH that he betrayed shravani at last moment and now she cant do anything....
Its tricky situation and i still believe that he will chose Archu or atleast DECLARE his love in front of everyone when he finds out all truth...

Originally posted by: -ALI-

If Manav would have chosen for Archana now, same people would have called him SELFISH that he betrayed shravani at last moment and now she cant do anything....
Its tricky situation and i still believe that he will chose Archu or atleast DECLARE his love in front of everyone when he finds out all truth...

for me ..he is not at all a jerk ...I m luving current storyline..it is very interesting !!!

Agree to you Ali. can't call him with a word like Jerk.

Hmmm...at times,I do pity him and feel sad for him...but I feel more sad for Archu😭

Jerk is too a high word to call him,