Manav vs Archana- 3rd world war in IF - Page 5

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Piya Arre at the rate the parot is going on and on about responsibility , kal woh bhi karega . I have to keep her happy on all levels , mera pati Dharm hai , so he will sleep with her and next morning say to Tarun

But in heart na I love Archu . Lekin kya karu yaar .

Akash ur not understanding me . Im not putting Manav in Ashwin's category . Im putting him in MCP category ..........male chauvinist pig category . Good , bad is not question here . If a man is a mcp , he actually believes he can be fair to more than two women . One he 'loves' , one he is only being responsible . Most of the affairs in this world are conducted under this convenient misunderstanding .

Surprising thing is , such large hearted , pure men dont take it very kindly when wife of just 15 days feels shocked after seeing photos of them with prostitutes and go to maayka . Their internal , pure core shakes with shock ...........she dared doubt me ?This trust she showed on me inspite of me putting the certificate of my fidelity in her neck........the mangalsutra? How dare she ? How dare ????

Btw : Even after 10 years if photos r shown , Archana shud question Manav . Who told u 'TRUST " comes after 10 years ? If photos of Archna with men are shown , even Manav shud ask her to clarify . There is no question of distrust , this is simple common sense . Far too much is being made of the trust factor , it is being over hyped .

@Akash:After Manav's hand burning scene,Arcu did say something in support of Manav...just bcoz they were together only for a very short period of time,she didnt hav the kind of trust which would have made her stand up for Manav against her own family...It was a matter of time of her.

Archana is Manav's no1 responsibility , much much more than this Shravani or the unborn child .

Originally posted by: piya007

@ Kool <br>just a naughty thought ..... how abt the CVs show Manav having Suhaag Raat wid Shravni nd our hero thinking abt Archu.....Shravni's face changing into Archu's...kinda face off....wld be fun 🤣<br>Well at the rate the twist r happng this might be real poosibility u know......keeping the audience hooked .....ek teer se do shikaar 🤣<br>

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piya u have given me idea . im gonna make a seperate post on this and dedicate it to u .

okay, now I enter the battleground.

What you call as trust Akash ........can also be called stupidity .

See Ashwin's marraige . His wife does have that kind of faith in hhim that ur talking of . She is not dreaming that he is two timing her . Why his wife , even Varsha had that faith in hhim and had told Manav to get lost in the beginning .

Was that blind faith good ? What ur saying that shaque shaque shaque will be rampant in marraige and each marraige will break up ................I am not saying everyday u question ur husbands whereabouts , ask him thousaand questions and hire private detectives . But hey , if someone comes up to u and publicly distributes photos of ur husband with prostitutes , like Ajit did , and police testify against ur husband , isnt it a serious matter ? Shudnt questions be asked ? And if satisfactory answers r not got , shudnt wife pack and leave till husband procures those answers and convinces her ?

Same goes for wife . If photos of her with men r circulated publicly , like dumb why shud her hubby not ask questions ? Of course he shud and she better have some answers ready . If not he can go or ask her to leave till she gives him a satisfactory explanation , coz the marraige cannot proceed by PRETENDING TO TRUST each other .

What is so wrong in this ?

The trust factor harped on in PR is fundamentally very stupid . Trust does NOT mean blind faith or leaving ur common sense aside . Expecting a 15 day married gal to fall on knees and worship hubby like God and publicly defend him passionately is ridiculous . If Manav cudnt produce satisfactory proofs of his innocence in time , it was his mistake , not hers . She was good enough not to ask for a divorce ........it was from his side that the divorce papers went , still she had not signed them . That meant something........that she still had hopes and was waiting and waiting for this fool to turn up with proofs of his innocence so that she cud show them to her family and return ASAP to him . But he sat there fretting doing nothing till his drunkard father did it for him . By then it was too late .

I agree with you koolsadhu, TV serials are preachy and often ignore the practical and rational side of life. They keep highlighting the trust factor to such an extent that it becomes blind trust. Now Archu is shown to be suffering punishment for doubts that would have entered into any girl's head, and that too in a very self-righteous sort of way. Not one person, not even the practical Varsha is shown to be coming forward and saying that Tai, unknowingly you made a mistake of doubting your husband, but you are not completely at fault, since situations were bad.

nikita agreed with u .

Although I wud definetely always blame Manav far more . His mistake criteria is far far greater than Archu's . Right from signing the divorce papers without talking to Archu , to the sindoor filling . The expectation from Savita that Archu shud like a pativrata believe implicitly in Manav and defend him passionately was unrealistic and when she held Archu responsible for the break up Manav remained silent , didnt correct her that it wasnt Archus fault that any girl wud have done same thing .

HEll , if someone had turned up with Damodar's photos with another woman , even in THIS AGE Savita wud have beaten Damodar black and blue . So why blame Archu was the question Manav shud have asked his sainted mom instead of keeping quiet . His mistakes start there itself .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

nikita agreed with u .

Although I wud definetely always blame Manav far more . His mistake criteria is far far greater than Archu's . Right from signing the divorce papers without talking to Archu , to the sindoor filling . The expectation from Savita that Archu shud like a pativrata believe implicitly in Manav and defend him passionately was unrealistic and when she held Archu responsible for the break up Manav remained silent , didnt correct her that it wasnt Archus fault that any girl wud have done same thing .

HEll , if someone had turned up with Damodar's photos with another woman , even in THIS AGE Savita wud have beaten Damodar black and blue . So why blame Archu was the question Manav shud have asked his sainted mom instead of keeping quiet . His mistakes start there itself .

Ok , i will cut that part out of him not telling his mom.........coz I have missed that scene.