Originally posted by: guptill
@koolsadhoo:
Manav had also seen Archana 3-4 times before marriage like helping a poor boy or beggar.... How come he judge Archana only on those incidents then.... Plus, Manavs behaviour and love seemed quite genuine.... He never ever tried to touch her physically or he never forcefully tried to do anything with her... You said that it was enough for a normal girl to doubt her husband, but archu was different... She trusted everyone except manav... Manav also said that he loves her and can do anything for her, but she didnt.... Plus, when savita aai asked for mangalsutra from archu when archu had left manavs house, inspite of knowing savita, she trusted her easily....
Now, agree satish is an engineer, but archana was never comfotable with him, i know by time, she wud have become comfortable, but there was lot of difference in their thinking.. But, Manav was exactly like her....
Yes, savita called archu badchalan, but then damodar slapped her, then what manav cud hve done... And there was a point that archana is manavs wife, she had spent time with him, then she should trust his husband or a man like Ajit whom she knows is a bad guy...
guptill ...........how much reality of Ashwin did Varsha know inspite of knowing him for much much longer than the time Archu had with Manav ? She didnt even know that he was married . Ashwin did NOT rush her for sex but played his cards really well . Why ? Coz he wanted sex with the girl's consent as it is much more enjoyable then compared to rape which gives one sided , forced sex . This is the typical quality of a predatory stalker male ................he pretends to be real good , helps the female in distress situations and totally disguises his real motives till he achieves what he wants.........sex with the girl with her consent . For that consent from the girl it becomes imperative to him to appear real good in the girl's eyes as a stategy .
Ajit was very clever ..........he painted MAnav as a predatory stalker . Manav saving Manohar tyipcally falls in a stalker's modus operandi plan . They hang around , and grab ever opprtunity to become ' good ' in the girl's eyes .
As far as Manav trusting Archu by observing her three four times goes ............remember , it is Dombivli where info regarding a girl is got in a jiffy in a guy;s circuit . However it is not so easy for a girl to get that info..........see how Manju and Savita blatantly tricked Sulochna regarding Manavs education and status . That is middle class marathi life for u ..............I have actually lived it ! my cousin sister was having a love affair with a guy in the teething stage ..........one month had passed and a girl.........the guy;s muhboli sister told her I am warning u , he flirted with many girls in school , this that and later made them badnaam . So u back off now while u have the chance . Naturally my cousin was terribly scared . She stopped talking to him and going out of the house etc . Their house didnt have a phone even then . The poor guy .........like love struck Manav wud stand around the corner of her house waiting for her to step out , wondering what the hell happened ! The amount of cigarettes he smoked in those days told of his distress . Finally I had pity on him and arranged for a meeting between the two . He was shocked to hear this..........and it came out the muhboli sister had actually revealed that she had a crush on him all along and to be near him she had gone to he level of tying a Rakhi on his wrist as he had only eyes for my cousin sister . When the guy understood about her crush as she herself told him one day , he broke relations with her and out of sheer spite and jealousy she then came to my cousin and tried to break the love affair this way ! Needless to say , misunderstandings were rapidly cleared and today they r happily married with three children .
Point is ........in middle class mrathi circles , info regarding boy sometimes becomes a tricky process and Manav's dysfunctional family didnt help .
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