I give up on serials esp this one

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am done watching this show. I actually had hope that ekta would go a different route with this show because her previous shows ,well they were bogus 😡😡and this show I really sensed something different would come about. Her shows make such a joke of marriages. Marriages are meant to be all about trust and understanding of one another. Even if your marriage is arranged it is the duty of both spouses to have a bond of trust and nothing or no one should come in between to ruin them. I live in America and a lot of the times I tell some of my american friends that I am really proud that in india marriages are so strong and divorce rates are so slow, but then these serials promote such things and it just goes against what im saying. The meaning of marraige is having faith and trust in your partner and if Indians also start losing that faith as they show in serials, I dont know what our world is coming to. Maybe its time to create a serial that shows marriage is not a game and just getting married again and divorce again and so on is really wrong. I mean, yes divorce/separations I understand is necessary under extreme circumstances, but sometimes in these shows it is just a joke and shows absolutely no reality. Archanas thinking is to weak and its better off if she never got married. She is gonna believe a liar like ajit who she knows was the reason behind the prostituion thing and not believe her husband who saved her from a really bad reputation. I am sorry if this offends anyone. I am just saying what I think.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: fabulous05

... Archanas thinking is to weak and its better off if she never got married. She is gonna believe a liar like ajit who she knows was the reason behind the prostituion thing and not believe her husband who saved her from a really bad reputation. I am sorry if this offends anyone. I am just saying what I think.



You are absolutely right. Archana not even once thought what would have happened to her if Manav had not come there and saved her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't blame you for being frustrated, I am too but it's early to give up. I am going to see how long this misunderstanding lasts, if it drags on then I'll give up with this serial but for now I'll continue to read updates.

Archana frustrates me too for her lack of trust in Manav both as a friend and as a husband. Just the other day she was telling Manav how highly she thinks of him yet so easily she believed he could do her wrong, what in the world happened within those few days? Another thing I've noticed is that Archana has no voice, she would rather listen to whatever Sulochana tells her to do rather than taking a stand. I feel so bad for Manav, Archana really does not deserve him and I hope someone tells her that.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am going to see how Ekta's creatives handles the track, then decide whether to give up or not. I never thought the foundation of Manav & Archana's marriage was so weak, that in the face of fake evidences, Archana's trust would easily break. Majorly disappointed. But I loved Sushant's acting so I think I will continue watching for now. He is superb in emotional scenes.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: GujuGrl

i second that........



Me too😡

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Me Three!!!

Since we are way behind in the US - I have decided to watch the serial upto this point and then plan on stopping to watch this unless the separation is just temporary.
What I don't understand in how can they portray any girl's mom saying all these things to the son-in-law and then even trying to go back to mend broken fences? Also after Archu having said all these things to Manav - how is she going to go back and live with him??
However, I would have rather this not have happened, bust now that it has - I still hope that they get back together!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: lastmin

Me Three!!!

Since we are way behind in the US - I have decided to watch the serial upto this point and then plan on stopping to watch this unless the separation is just temporary.
What I don't understand in how can they portray any girl's mom saying all these things to the son-in-law and then even trying to go back to mend broken fences? Also after Archu having said all these things to Manav - how is she going to go back and live with him??
However, I would have rather this not have happened, bust now that it has - I still hope that they get back together!!

Me four !!
Totally agree.. how does one go back and mend relationships after this !!
As much as I want all this mess cleared up...purely for Manav's sake and his well being.... as I love him too much and he is great..
But Archana sure does not deserve him.......how in the world can she even think of going back to him after what she has done [I want them to get together for Manav's sake, but she should pay her dues before that]
And Sulochana !! 😡 😈 Don't even get me started....I am really for Savita creating a rucus in her house and giving her a tight slap back 😡
Come to think about it, Savita may be a greedy person, but she has never disrespected Archana's family in anyway. On the contrary Sulochana has faulted Savita's family , when truly the blame is really on her side:
First: Sulochana created this scene in the wedding and all that tamasha about the lies etc... When in reality, the fault was her husband's. He was the one who kept the secret. Why blame and punish someone else when the fault is your own husband's. She did not punish him.
Second: Sulochana felt so bad about the whole fake necklace thing, but what did she do to punish Manjusha when she found out the truth. Ulta, usko manane chale when Manajusha started crying. Double Standards galore !!!
Third: Knowing Ajit's past and what that family is capable of , she rather believe them and a PIMP, whose job is to be paid for doing the worst job on earth, than her own SIL.
Savita is truly a saint when compared to Sulochana.......For Sulochana there is one set of rules for her family and another for Manav's...😡😡 She deserves the worst treatment for her behaviour and for ruling Archana's life...
A part of me really wants Archana to be forced to be away from her evil mom..then only will there be some peace in their life and maybe Archana can then use her own brains...rather than her mom's
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ssarada

Me four !!
Totally agree.. how does one go back and mend relationships after this !!
As much as I want all this mess cleared up...purely for Manav's sake and his well being.... as I love him too much and he is great..
But Archana sure does not deserve him.......how in the world can she even think of going back to him after what she has done [I want them to get together for Manav's sake, but she should pay her dues before that]
And Sulochana !! 😡 😈 Don't even get me started....I am really for Savita creating a rucus in her house and giving her a tight slap back 😡
Come to think about it, Savita may be a greedy person, but she has never disrespected Archana's family in anyway. On the contrary Sulochana has faulted Savita's family , when truly the blame is really on her side:
First: Sulochana created this scene in the wedding and all that tamasha about the lies etc... When in reality, the fault was her husband's. He was the one who kept the secret. Why blame and punish someone else when the fault is your own husband's. She did not punish him.
Second: Sulochana felt so bad about the whole fake necklace thing, but what did she do to punish Manjusha when she found out the truth. Ulta, usko manane chale when Manajusha started crying. Double Standards galore !!!
Third: Knowing Ajit's past and what that family is capable of , she rather believe them and a PIMP, whose job is to be paid for doing the worst job on earth, than her own SIL.
Savita is truly a saint when compared to Sulochana.......For Sulochana there is one set of rules for her family and another for Manav's...😡😡 She deserves the worst treatment for her behaviour and for ruling Archana's life...
A part of me really wants Archana to be forced to be away from her evil mom..then only will there be some peace in their life and maybe Archana can then use her own brains...rather than her mom's



you are totally right! ahhh if only we could be the creatives..lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I watched today's episode and am glad I did, while it was sad seeing the recap of Manav's tears the episode paid off after seeing Savita give Sulochana a taste of her own medicine! Sulochana deserved it after the way she's treated Manav and his family, she thinks so low of them even though they accepted Archana and treated her well (I know Savita has had her ways but overall Archana was happy). Manav loved Archana with all his heart and went out of his way to make her happy and this is the thanks they get, I'm glad someone spoke out and put Sulochana to shame like she did to Manav and his family.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with all the original post and the other posts also .
We are living in times when most things around are fake/decorative and for show. Relations are the only things that really make sense. In that husband and wife is a relation which is the most delicate and needs to be worked on to build it up.
Arranged marriages in India has always been a fascination for Westerners. I have been many times questioned over how does this kind of marriage work. My answer has been adjustment , compromise and tolerance. I talk to my children about this too.
When I then see an arraned marriage portrayed like this I am dismayed!!!!
Please creatives, for once , show how does a relation become strong in an arranged marriage. It is not overnight! But when both parties work towards it! Otherwise a show which started beautifully would be ruined!!!!!!!!!!!

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