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Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

HS was shown to not concentrate on his work couple weeks ago.

What if HS looses his job, and at the same time PB closes down or KK take it? What the hell are they gonna do? With financial problems, HS and Babita are bound to fight more and blame each other... I wonder if this is where its heading towards. 🤔

I know!!! If this story was about emancipation then why not keep it optimistic? How exactly a story of 2nd marriage being a mess and ruined business going to inspire anyone?

Episode proved that “Empowerment is not for everyone” esp for Babita. 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I'm already getting annoyed by it. I mean, there has to be a limit to it at some point. When it comes to inflicting harm onto others or oneself, then where will his "your life, your wish" go?

Yes, there should be freedom to do what one wants, but absolute freedom isn't good either. There's a reason why we have laws and regulations put in place.

Exactly we keep talking about how it's babitas decicion to work or not but for a person with responsibilities he/she has to think of everyone. She is not thinking of mini her career, the loan, if hs will be able to bear minis expenses. Or she expects mini to sacrifice her dreams because she wants to concentrate on being a grihastan. When you have a child dependant on you financially it cannot be I will give up working one day. Does she expect mini to work for herself. Does she feel mini will be comfortable asking hs money for her expenses given they are not exactly father daughter yet. Mini still dosent address him as dad and babita knows hs is father figure and they three are family, but hs is not father yet. How is it all about herself only now.

PB was not started only by her. Mini was an equal partner. NB has put in so much of hard work. If PB is suffering losses due to her non involvement then she cannot hide under i will do what I wish to.

People have an option of taking a break after marriage but that is for first marriages. With a child involved in a second marriage the situation is different. Specially if the business is suffering losses due to ur break

Originally posted by: Swetha-Sai

Episode proved that “Empowerment is not for everyone” esp for Babita. 🤷‍♀️

And that nullified entire point of first 200 episode saga they showed in the first place.

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

I know!!! If this story was about emancipation then why not keep it optimistic? How exactly a story of 2nd marriage being a mess and ruined business going to inspire anyone?

Kaisa emancipation?? Ghanta.

I think their purpose is shaadi is barbaadi. You should never get married even if you have a loving and supporting partner. 2nd marriage toh bilkul mat karna unless you wanna loose you identity.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, this is actually an interesting point.

I don't know why they don't talk about finances for the household. I hope it comes up.

So PB has always belonged to Minnie and Babita, but HS has never interfered or gotten involved. Now that he's married Babita, is he also responsible for PB's future?

I don't think he should be 'responsible'.

Specially when Babita, the founder, is so irresponsible about it.

Helping out Babita for PB related issues and being supportive about PB is one thing but I don't see why he should be the one looking into ki PB kaise chal raha hai aur kya future hai etc. Its totally Maa beti ka business and he's nowhere in the core of it.

Originally posted by: naq5

Exactly we keep talking about how it's babitas decicion to work or not but for a person with responsibilities he/she has to think of everyone. She is not thinking of mini her career, the loan, if hs will be able to bear minis expenses. Or she expects mini to sacrifice her dreams because she wants to concentrate on being a grihastan. When you have a child dependant on you financially it cannot be I will give up working one day. Does she expect mini to work for herself. Does she feel mini will be comfortable asking hs money for her expenses given they are not exactly father daughter yet. Mini still dosent address him as dad and babita knows hs is father figure and they three are family, but hs is not father yet. How is it all about herself only now.

PB was not started only by her. Mini was an equal partner. NB has put in so much of hard work. If PB is suffering losses due to her non involvement then she cannot hide under i will do what I wish to.

People have an option of taking a break after marriage but that is for first marriages. With a child involved in a second marriage the situation is different. Specially if the business is suffering losses due to ur break

Episode 124:

Babita doesn't let Mini help her with cooking for PB. She says "cooking is not your passion you don't need to do this, you passion is photography. Mini, I will not let you compromise on your passion and dreams". When Mini insists her passion has changed, Babita encourages Mini to click her pictures and posts on SM for PB publicity, but she's indirectly telling her to chase her dreams. She also talks about expanding PB.

This is not the Babita that we saw pre episode 200. Yeh toh koi aur hi Babita hain. Writers have amnesia or they have forgotten the character they have written themselves.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I don't think he should be 'responsible'.

Specially when Babita, the founder, is so irresponsible about it.

Helping out Babita for PB related issues and being supportive about PB is one thing but I don't see why he should be the one looking into ki PB kaise chal raha hai aur kya future hai etc. Its totally Maa beti ka business and he's nowhere in the core of it.

Also will Babitha take the responsibility of running police station now because she is married to him?

I am sorry but I cannot imagine a scenario where two middle-aged people are getting married, there is absolutely no involvement of families or parents from either side and the woman is shouldering the entire cost of the function. That too not a simple, muted ceremony but a full band baaja baraat, no bells and whistles spared, grandiose affair. If this happened in real life, people would have some choice words for the man.

Did he at least pay for the post -wedding reception for his colleagues or did both the food and cost of food come from PB's account? No wonder poor Minnie couldn't even have a small birthday get together with her only two friends for her 18th birthday. Parties ke liye funds khatam ho gaya tha.

Just saw SBAS segment ..Saroj giving ulti seedhi advice to Babita . She is saying what is need to do catering service now as HS has government job & you have no scarcity of anything ..She even said Minnie might feel odd in your new family so keep her away to which Babite replied her that she will always live with her & she is not third person