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Originally posted by: Meghna_IshRa

Sorry to interfere but what short films are you both talking about? I would like to see them too 😊

Please feel free to interfere 😆

I was talking about Name Plate by Blush and Besan ke laddo.

Everyone should try these out

Can v have a karwachauth in the show as babes is too ritualistic.... As of now navratri is going on in the show....

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Tell me about it. I love that song being pictured on Hanita.

Ohhh gives me that fb cooking video flashback. One of the best Hanita scene

Writers don’t care to focus on Hanita, or their romance or their relationship growth. Shaadi hogayi toh iski ke jarurat 🤷🏻‍♀️

https://twitter.com/shashu_suvi/status/1184012146343964675?s=19

I also posted this yesterday 😒

Originally posted by: Roopb

In episode 159 Hs said to NB- kirayedarni ji naye purane rishton to tor mror ke agar mere saath Rishta jora bhi toh ke Jora... kion abhi bhi un rishton mein uska jivan basa pada hai...aur aise mein agar jo mujhe millegi to adhi adhoori millegi, puri thodi millegi... bhai main daughter ki mother ko aadhi adhori loon...muje to puri chaiye bhai sampooran ek roop mein in one piece... manne chahiye woh sabhi purane naye rishton ke saath... khatte meethe saare anubhavon ke saath... un saari kharashon ke saath..... main uske past ko wash nahi karna chahta ...jaisi hai uni purani baaton ke saath usi mann ke saath...jaisi ki vaisi aisi chahiye....manne koi usme addition - subtraction nahi karna....

Thank you. This is it.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Thats what I mean.. Usse Babita adhi nahi chahie.. lekin Babita ko Hanuman as a parcel of Imarti Mila.. Is that really fair?

For example.. in Punar Vivah, when Yash accepted Arti wholeheartedly, one of the first things he did was remove his first wife's picture from his room.. Babita however proposed Hanuman by making her place besides Imarti.. you see the point?

Past ko wash nahi karna chahta lekin past se emotional detachment he wanted.. something he himself was unable to do

My point is that Imarti should not be a no go area for both of them.. Babita would anyways never use Imarti with any malicious intent so ehy make her mention a big deal?

He doesn't want her comparing herself with Meeta, Imarti, or any other woman because she hurts herself and by extension this hurts him.

Initially she used to mention her here and there and he was fine with it, but what she did in the sharaabi scene and then during the Imarti track closed that avenue, which is what he was indicating in the pizza scene.

They never actually talked about Imarti directly, but I do think that they should do so at some point as there are some unresolved matters there. Only when Babita is ready though, because the baggage of her past weighs heavily on her, still. It's about timing.

PV was a different beast and even though a lot of the scenes were dramatic they in some ways had much more realism in the way topics were handled. I have always loved that show but after watching PB I have a renewed appreciation for what that show portrayed and achieved, especially with some of the sensitive topics. Also, I loved that the leads were flawed.

Originally posted by: Khushilvspari

I am really disappointed with the show. As a PARIAN and watching her in JA am really wondering what Pari really saw in this crap😲😲.. Was she misleded about the show.. Waise bhi show is going to complete a year it's better she won't renew her contract..

The thing is, there aren't many interesting roles on ITV, and even though we and she might be a bit frustrated it's still a lot better than saas-bahu or supernatural shows. She's already done a historical show so she probably wanted to try something different. That said, I will also add that she did not capitalize on this as I would have expected her to. You cannot blame the script or director for monotonous performances. She showed much more range in the early episodes. I'm not sure what happened to her after that.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

There's so much of depth in O Rangrez, why did they stop playing it for Hanita after marriage? Lo, ek aur ghataa shaadi ka. Infact I don't remember any song being played on them after shaadi.

I wasn't a fan of the song earlier but now its on infinite loop for me. They gave such a beautiful perspective to it. I see both HS Imarti and HS Babita in it.

Specially the opening lines :

Ek bhi saans alag nahi leni

Khech lena praann iss tann ke

Nahi rehna dooja baanke

Me too, I used to think it was an ok song but the way it was used on the show was fantastic, as have been the other songs.

I will never think of Tum Pukaar Lo the same way again.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Yupp. She did make the decision after witnessing HS-Mini bond and that scene. I still feel she made the decision to marry for herself and for love, but HS-Mini’s bonding was one of the main reason as well. Second marriage where a child is involved, this becomes a big factor in considering someone as your partner.

And that is totally understandable. People think about being parents first and then spouses, so they want to ensure their child will be happy and secure in their new lives.

Originally posted by: inlieu

It will come true. I fear she will drive both HS and Minnie away. Not nice.

I dont know but I want to see hs standing up for mini against babita also and one day ask her to stop burdening mini against log kya kahenge jaap. I thought when he comes to know of mini calling her the other woman he will support her over her but waha to mini ko hi suna diya.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

What I mean is that this whole issue that have cropped up in the trio's life was because of what Kammo said and that CD incident. Before that nobody cared to think about how the dynamics will change after Hanita's marriage. Everyone was in their own la la land.

First of all, they all need to sit down and have an honest conversation with each other, and address the issue on hand... what Mini expects from HS-Babita, what HS-Babita expect from Mini. They need to clear the air, there is so many underlying issues that was swept under the carpet. Mini needs to first apologize to Babita for calling her selfish over Khuranas issues, and for being rude to her saying she lost control over her feelings with HS, Babita needs to apologize to Mini for comparing her to Meeta and for the thapad, HS needs to apologize to Mini for saying your father kicked you out of the house, and that this is not yours, but mine and your mother's house. Mini also needs to be honest about her feelings to both HS and Babita. First deal with the issue on hand, and move on.

HS-Mini becoming father-daughter will probably happen gradually (don't know cant trust cvs anymore), but needn't be forced. However, Babita expecting this from HS is not completely wrong, yes she's too hyper about it and again her approach is wrong, but the underlying thing is she also wants HS-Mini to become father-daughter like we all do. HS-Mini both need to sit down and have a conversation with Babita about their relationship status, and stop coddling her. I don't care what people say about Babita won't understand. How about first tell her before making that judgement. Even if she didn't at least you were honest, and at least now no one has any false expectations from each other, and won't be hurt over it.

@bold this still hasn't happened inspite of hs mini candid conversation yesterday. He should have said sorry. Ek to hs says I have pressure to become minis father on the other hand its very low of him to say that ashok threw u out of house etc. How does he think mini will feel at home after that, given the confusion in relationship they are going through. If hs had said that when their relationship was going strong mini would have still taken it sportingly.