yes i felt for her when she said Mini never got ashoks love so she wants HS to fill that place. As a mother she wants even mini to get over her past get what she has not got in life.
But somewhere she has pushed HS to the extent things have got bad between them. After the GP things had got better between HS mini but by pushing HS to fight against mini things got again worse
Things hardly got better post GP.. they never talked.. yes.. Babita pushed him to scold Mini.. but then not talking to Mini, Not letting her meet Babita, not trying to find out why Mini was so insistent on meeting Babita, lying to Babita and not getting anything for Mini or even wishing her on his own are Hanumans doing.. Babita cannot be blamed for any of this