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Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I am truly done wuth gyan banting sessions in the show.. everyone needs to just shut up

LMAOOO seriously 🤣🤣

Just freaking chill and celebrate the birthday. Kya syappa hai

Originally posted by: tk2015

Probably because Babes-Minie convo was all on the surface. Sorry bola, wish kiya and khiska. The old playfulness was there but did Babes actually understand what NB was saying? They didn't talk. Whereas Hannie actually talked about their issues. Babes found out through NB that her daughter feels left out/pushed away. She didn't mention it or the recent fights. But maa hai na, why does she need to do all this? Hug kiya and everything's made up...

@bold: I'm crossing fingers like Minnie. Lol, look at us, hopeful again. 😆

Hum kabhi nahin sudhrenge. Itne dinon se KK ko criticize kar rahe the aur 2 episodes mein humari tain tain phish ho gaya. 🤣

Yeah, HS also pointed out that Babita forgot her birthday but her love was not tested the way his was. Her answer? Never mind. She missed the whole point.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Exactly. We let go of so many things cause we're bound by blood. Here it's so heavily scrutinized and so difficult!

I am glad he said that, and that Minnie heard this bit too.

Originally posted by: naq5

@ bold. exactly she made things only worse ek to daat lagwao and then tell why are things not smooth between you.

why hasnt she tried to talk to mini even once about hers and HS relation. i dont see her doing that. not even after the cd fiasco when she knew mini was hurt. she was fighting with HS but never tried to speak to mini

That's because she doesn't expect anything from Minnie. Woh kyun baat kare? It was HS who mistrusted Minnie and made her feel bad so it should be him who makes amends whether it was the CD, scolding her or not buying her a gift. Inn sab mein sirf HS ki hi galti hai. Minnie toh bechari hai jiske saath itne saare atyachaar hore hai.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Ironic that during the pooja day she was telling Mickey that he was her hero and she wanted him to be her mother's hero, while today she was saying that he was her mother's her (and implied that he wasn't her hero anymore).

It was painful to see HS hang on that word, and I think he knows that she doesn't see him that way anymore. I don't think it's a point of no return. I think he will be her hero again when she realizes that heroes can also make mistakes and be imperfect. She hasn't gotten to that point yet.

Same. I have hopes of them building up from here and it being a relationship rather than him just being an idol. As kids, some do ideolize their parents. When we grow up, we start noticing things and chinks in our parents' armours. It's apt that as she steps into adulthood, she is noticing HS not being perfect. But it's ok. He's her Hanuman uncle and that's good enough for her for now and they will build on it.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Okay, but that's not how I read it. When he went to talk to Minnie, we can see how badly hurt he was about not knowing that it was her birthday. He too wanted to do something extremely special for her because she is his Veer Balika. It's the most special day in the world and he couldn't do anything to show it to her.

What I found was that he even though he was hurt by not getting to do something the day of, he can make it up to her the next day. The day itself shouldn't matter as much as the intent behind the actions. But the way Babita was behaving was pissing him off again by questioning his love for Minnie. I am really not happy with the way she lashed out at him. If she as Minnie's mother for EIGHTEEN YEARS can forget, then why is he being put under the noose for something that he didn't even know about? Okay, he found out the morning of so what do you expect him to do? Leave his duties at the station once again and plan a surprise party for her? That's not how things are done.

And she keeps saying how I'm trying to create a father-daughter relationship between you two, but she hasn't. Just what exactly has she even done except question him and his love for Minnie and ask him to scold her?

I'm just really pissed at Babita today and this fcking bubble that she's going to be living in for the next few days is going to piss me off even more.

THANK YOU!

He thinks the day itself shouldn't matter but the intent, while Babita is concerned about timing? Why does she not understand the concept of timing herself? He can't figure things out or know what to do just like that or become a father overnight. If she was so concerned she could have messaged him to remind him to get Minnie something or ask him if he was thinking of getting her something.

I was really hoping she'd make fresh start today with Minnie too after what NB said but nope... I am also really pissed.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Another thing I had in mind while watching. Exactly. It's so damn professional.

But PH yeh home made cake bhi kahan se lata? Sach mein bake karna padta unhe😆

Icing and all is still possible but creamy layers inside with that texture is impossible at home.

arre no its quite possible. ive been making cakes since years at home. they do come out like that. babita obviously has practice of 17 yrs . ghar me sab ke liye cake banati hogi

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Cake ko chhaddo. She made samosa, dahi bhalle, chutney.. itne kam time mein. Batao kese? Mein in mein se ek item manage kar lu on time bahot hai. 😆

So true- when she said to Lala I will have Kadi pakora ready in 10 minutes I was like that is how long it takes me to mix the dahi and besan forget making it. Maybe she was going Indian Standard time. 😛

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Sorry for the blurry pic but it was literally there for one second.

Oh Teri I dint notice this...thanks gur...

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I liked the episode.

Well what Micky said was partially true about Babita being scared but the suggestion he had for Mini wasn’t all that good.

Mini and Babes scene was nice. Good old touch.

Hanuman forgot to get anything. Well I don’t see big deal about it. But he should have. Babita and his argument was going fine until she asked him - Sagi beti hoti to. 🤔 WHATT? That’s low Babita. Why does she always go to extreme when trying to make her point. She seriously needs to change this pronto. I don’t like when someone makes a low blow in an argument for something that could have been discussed rationally!

Mini and Hanuman’s conversation was ❤️ I liked how she could understand the stress he has been under to prove that he is her father. I am sure Mini will be the one to take a step Forward towards calling him her father whenever they both are ready for it.

Initially I thought they should come clean to Babes about where they stand. But on a second thought, if they are clear, then they should deal between themselves coz Babita in current scenario will just make a mess of everything. She is extra jumpy so better is to calm her down and when she is assured about Mini and HS being ok with each other, they can explain it to her.

End line — I have a plan. 🥳 Like they always used to have. I see it as a good start!

Totally agree with everything you said. Minnie and HS both need a break from labels and expectations and to have their own equation independent of Babita. She is not going to get it or be able to help either of them. Also, has Babita ever asked Minnie to live up to the expectations of being a 'daughter' or how she feels about this father-daughter relationship?

Sagi beti hoti to? OMG, after everything she has seen about HS, she hasn't learnt a thing. She didn't just say that impulsively, it is clear this thought has been embedded in her mind and came to the fore during this argument. Minnie finally had to bring up DNA in her talk with HS after overhearing her mother refer to this.

It might indeed be Minnie taking a step towards him to show him that she does indeed want him as a father.

I don't expect so much from the CVs anymore. They might just remain friends.