I find Preet more at fault here.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Mini has been feeling left out of Hanita's relationship since before the wedding. Babitha is wrong to slap her daughter in front of her friends. But she is just an overprotective mother.

There is lots of bashing of Babitha in this forum. While I do agree with some points but on the other hand I do feel for Babitha because in reality you just cannot ignore when people badmouth your child.

Mickey is Preet's boyfriend but but Preet is too scared to let her parents know. It is her responsibilty to take care of Mickey. Why doesnt she go introduce Mickey as her soulmate to her parents and maybe they are more mature than Babitha and they would allow Mickey to stay there. She didnt even ask permission from Hanita for Mickey to stay at the Haveli. She just urged Mini to let Mickey stay. She could just have went home and told her mom Mickey is her friend and he is going to stay with them. Preet knew how fragile the relationship between Mini, Babitha and Hanuman is at this stage.

Besides Preet and Mickey is a couple so why is Mini always 3rd wheel. How will Mini react when she finds out that Mickey and Preet wants to spend some time together alone. Will she put on her irratating fake smile and get into her NOBODY LOVES ME SYNDROME again.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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preet should have got bobby to tell he is my friend and got mickey to her house.

Firstly to i feel she is wrong in dating a guy who was interested in her best friend before. And with mini - mickey being good friends and attached to one another she should never have acted on her attraction to mickey. Its a recipe for disaster and currently mini is paying for it, becausse she is expected to keep her distance from her friend who was in her life even before preet dated him

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Preet knew her mom will feel the same way as Babitha. She would rather cause a rift between Mini and her mom even knowing that Mini and her mom are starting a new phase in their life.

Mini is jeapodizing her relationship with her parents for this friendship.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Actually Preeti is not at fault here as Mini was not interested in Mickey and she did ask Mini before accepting Mickey friendship.

Its Mini who suddenly discovered her soulmate love when he started to go out with Preeti and is getting close to Mickey and both are lying and pulling the wool over the sheep eyes here by there lies and deceit.

Here Babita was spot on on on reading Mini as a Mita.

So if it is so pure and honest why not tell everything to Babes and pretti including midnight climbing balconies etc.

No Mini and Mickey are cheaters and liars end of.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: guddi01

Actually Preeti is not at fault here as Mini was not interested in Mickey and she did ask Mini before accepting Mickey friendship.

Its Mini who suddenly discovered her soulmate love when he started to go out with Preeti and is getting close to Mickey and both are lying and pulling the wool over the sheep eyes here by there lies and deceit.

Here Babita was spot on on on reading Mini as a Mita.

So if it is so pure and honest why not tell everything to Babes and pretti including midnight climbing balconies etc.

No Mini and Mickey are cheaters and liars end of.

wtf is your problem with Mini. Why always blame that girl. I saw you post only against her or Mickey and have no appreciation for MiMi choro any other characters bhi!!!
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cinderella100

Mini has been feeling left out of Hanita's relationship since before the wedding. Babitha is wrong to slap her daughter in front of her friends. But she is just an overprotective mother.

There is lots of bashing of Babitha in this forum. While I do agree with some points but on the other hand I do feel for Babitha because in reality you just cannot ignore when people badmouth your child.

Mickey is Preet's boyfriend but but Preet is too scared to let her parents know. It is her responsibilty to take care of Mickey. Why doesnt she go introduce Mickey as her soulmate to her parents and maybe they are more mature than Babitha and they would allow Mickey to stay there. She didnt even ask permission from Hanita for Mickey to stay at the Haveli. She just urged Mini to let Mickey stay. She could just have went home and told her mom Mickey is her friend and he is going to stay with them. Preet knew how fragile the relationship between Mini, Babitha and Hanuman is at this stage.

Besides Preet and Mickey is a couple so why is Mini always 3rd wheel. How will Mini react when she finds out that Mickey and Preet wants to spend some time together alone. Will she put on her irratating fake smile and get into her NOBODY LOVES ME SYNDROME again.

When ppl were badmouthing babita, mini vehemently stood by her. This is what you do for the ppl you love, not worry about what outsiders say, and alienate your own family members as a result. We forget too quick the taunts mini got when babita was still finding her feet, and taking jobs like the childminder job. Or when khatri questioned babitas character in public when she moved in with Hs. Mini defended her.

I agree that preet shouldn’t have forced the issue of mickey staying, however who would have thought it would become such an issue? Mickey has long since been a part of their lives and has never stepped out of line. He’s been sat alone with mini in her bedroom for God’s sake.

Ppl who were once in a group of friends don’t suddenly stop hanging out just because two of them get into a relationship. And even if she does feel lonely if preet and mickey don’t want to spend time with her, let’s remember that this is a girl who’s shown to have mental health issues. It’s not a nobody loves me syndrome, it’s depression and real feelings of loneliness.

That being said, I do think she needs time away. A new place or scholarship or new ppl in her life might show some improvement in how she feels

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Every body is right in their pov....

Minni is clear about Mickey being his friend...

Mickey is clear about Minni as friend and preet as GF...

Preet is clear about the equation with the trio share....

Babita is right that nobody should point out at Minni...

HS is right in giving deserved Independence to. Minni and trust her....

The problem here is all are independent and the are questioning each others pov... But actually the Singh family is not matured enough to put their view calmly and discuss the differences....even if Minni and He wanted to do Babita have not left and option other than yelling at each other...

Sorry I am not Babita basher but yes its true that Babita started this... If she would have asked. Minni calmly when they both are alone then itna siyappa hi nahi hota....

And in this frustration all three have said something words which should not be said....

Regarding Minni Mickey friendship I don't want comment... Bcoz as per Babita that things go change...jo aaj hai wo kal Koch aur ban sakta hai... Who. Knows.... And that's not wrong completely.... I would. Like to wait and watch about their equation....

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