“Minnie First “ultimatum from babes - Page 2

Originally posted by: inlieu

Uff! I can't do a re-run of the first 100 episodes of this show again please.

LOL as HS said before the shaadi....Babita was about to go through a rebirth. Ab rebirth mein some things toh you have to live through again 🤷‍♀️😂

A second chance doesn’t necessarily mean everything will be new and different. Some parallels and similarities are very much possible.

It might be a chance for Babita to reconcile to all the “what ifs” inside her head. What if I’d done things differently? Would my life be different? For most people, it would be about moving forward without trying to dwell on the regrets of the past. But Babita ke mann ki gaanthein are so deep and twisted, I guess she can’t move forward without making peace with all her past “what ifs”. She will have to learn that it wasn’t meant to be. There is no point in looking back and constantly stewing in regrets for past failures. Learn from them and move on.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

He could be. His suggestion has her in mind too.

Regardless of his intentions, he is equally the part of the decision for Khuranas being in there.

To be fair, I think he's looking at it from everyone's perspective and can't think of a better temporary solution. I don't think he necessarily wants this long-term but just while Irfan is visiting so that the senior Khuranas and NB don't get harassed. What he doesn't know is that Irfan is wanting to sell the house and I hope he finds out ASAP.

As for Babita, not sure if she wants this temporarily or long-term. We'll find out today.

Originally posted by: inlieu

To be fair, I think he's looking at it from everyone's perspective and can't think of a better temporary solution. I don't think he necessarily wants this long-term but just while Irfan is visiting so that the senior Khuranas and NB don't get harassed. What he doesn't know is that Irfan is wanting to sell the house and I hope he finds out ASAP.

As for Babita, not sure if she wants this temporarily or long-term. We'll find out today.

I get where he is coming from. I don’t blame him for that. I understand his solution too.

I am just saying whatever be the reasoning, if tomorrow there are repercussions, things go haywire then he is part of the blame. It shouldn’t solely fall on Babita coz HS was involved in decision making.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I am one of the “everyone”. Coz I am the most vocal about it.

So what he got ultimatum? He did tell her that no matter her insecurities, you tell me things honestly. That was his base for this marriage.

He should’ve told her that Mini overheard his and Irfan’s conversation. If he is insecure about what will be Babita’s reaction then he isn’t much different to Babita.

If you talk about Imandari, show it first. Walk the talk.

And he says it’s your decision.

Babes - Hotel?

HS - no. Not that decision.

Babes - Rented house?

HS - nope not that either.

Babes - ?

HS - but it’s your decision. Take the correct one.

You hide things from her. Doesn’t give her the truth and then tell her your decision, is funny actually. Kinda manipulation. How would she come to “correct” decision when she doesn’t have facts.

Anywho, for Khuranas being in Haveli, I blame both Babes and HS. He shares the blame and I am not gonna exempt him from it.

He knew option 1 and 2 won’t fly with Minnie though he used NB’s name. He kind of knows that once Minnie heard what Irfan said she would not want them staying with NB forever- currently he is surrounded by too much Estrogen under one roof. Whatever he says one of the duo takes it wrongly that is why he suggested the safest solution- he might think he will have more control of the situation but he is in for major surprise

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL as HS said before the shaadi....Babita was about to go through a rebirth. Ab rebirth mein some things toh you have to live through again 🤷‍♀️😂

A second chance doesn’t necessarily mean everything will be new and different. Some parallels and similarities are very much possible.

It might be a chance for Babita to reconcile to all the “what ifs” inside her head. What if I’d done things differently? Would my life be different? For most people, it would be about moving forward without trying to dwell on the regrets of the past. But Babita ke mann ki gaanthein are so deep and twisted, I guess she can’t move forward without making peace with all her past “what ifs”. She will have to learn that it wasn’t meant to be. There is no point in looking back and constantly stewing in regrets for past failures. Learn from them and move on.

I know what you mean, par Babita ke saath baki logon ka pisna bhi zaroor hai kya?

HS is going to cry more tears and will want to pull all his hair out at some point, and I will probably join him in this.

I can't stand Beeji, and for her to share the same space as HS, after all the stuff she said about him...

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I get where he is coming from. I don’t blame him for that. I understand his solution too.

I am just saying whatever be the reasoning, if tomorrow there are repercussions, things go haywire then he is part of the blame. It shouldn’t solely fall on Babita coz HS was involved in decision making.

That's what I was saying, everyone should be accountable for their own actions and decisions.

One more thing to consider here is that now that they are husband-wife, they must share both their successes and failures, good and bad decisions, ALL of it, not mera - aapka but humaara.

Originally posted by: shazam1

He knew option 1 and 2 won’t fly with Minnie though he used NB’s name. He kind of knows that once Minnie heard what Irfan said she would not want them staying with NB forever- currently he is surrounded by too much Estrogen under one roof. Whatever he says one of the duo takes it wrongly that is why he suggested the safest solution- he might think he will have more control of the situation but he is in for major surprise

He thought it’s safest. But what if it doesn’t turn out to be safe?

Blame goes on? babita right? Coz she took the decision. HS toh hath dhoke nikal lega. Ji mene to decision aap pe chhoda tha.

He is right. I am not blaming him for coming up with it. Just that since he came up with it, that makes it a joint decision and responsibilities solely doesn’t lie on Babita. At least for me. That’s how I see it.

Whatever happens my line for both- ab bhugto.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I know what you mean, par Babita ke saath baki logon ka pisna bhi zaroor hai kya?

HS is going to cry more tears and will want to pull all his hair out at some point, and I will probably join him in this.

I can't stand Beeji, and for her to share the same space as HS, after all the stuff she said about him...

HS also has some lessons to learn about the marriage he chose to rush into without really knowing what he’s getting into with Babita 😆

When you don’t really know the basis of why you got married, toh all kinds of surprises await you. Lol

They are living a facade right now. I guess rude awakenings are needed.

Originally posted by: inlieu

That's what I was saying, everyone shown be accountable for their own actions and decisions.

One more thing to consider here is that now that they are husband-wife, they must share both their successes and failures, good and bad decisions, ALL of it, not mera - aapka but humaara.

Got it. We are basically saying the same thing.

But you are better with words than me.

@bold - completely agree.

Originally posted by: shazam1

He knew option 1 and 2 won’t fly with Minnie though he used NB’s name. He kind of knows that once Minnie heard what Irfan said she would not want them staying with NB forever- currently he is surrounded by too much Estrogen under one roof. Whatever he says one of the duo takes it wrongly that is why he suggested the safest solution- he might think he will have more control of the situation but he is in for major surprise

@bold

LOL! This is exactly what I was thinking, and that's exactly what he's struggling with. He made a promise that no women would cry and in a bid to prevent this, he's trying to please them both. Not going to work for very long.