Originally posted by: asmaanixx
Mickey is essentially telling Minnie that she can't link all her happiness with Babes. She needs to find and do things that make HER happy. Basically have a life that exists outside of her mother. Babes needs to do the same as well. He's not telling her to severe ties with her or anything, but Minnie is soon to become an adult. She needs to start living for herself. She can't go around fixing all of Babes' problems nor create an absolutely perfect life for her because no one can do that. There are going to be things that will make Babes that will be out of Minnie's control. When that happens Babes needs to learn how to confront them on her own without Minnie's involvement.
And yes, this was the jaggo function.
Babes, I understood what he was telling her... I just don't understand the timings... bhai shadi h... everyone does everything possible for the bride! I was recalling my sister's wedding and I remembered I couldn't get mehndi on my hands till the last function because I had to run around making things right for my sister... from getting the sofa changed at the last minute to all other last-second changes... So how does Minnie running around getting the wedding dress fixed for Babes has to do that with any of his gayan...
I am not saying what he said is wrong! I agree he is right and Minnie does need to get a little detached and find her own space... all that is correct! But seriously, is this the time to make her think? Does she even have time to reflect on all these thoughts? If he was my best friend, I would have expected him to bring this up AFTER the wedding...
Khair I know, as always I am in the minority... so!