Sept 9th: Locked Doors - Page 12

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I understand it. Yet there's something I find disconnected in all of this.

@bold -- Hopefully writers transition her into focusing on other stuff smoothly.

Thing is, I know a Mini in real life. Perhaps that’s why I find a lot of her characteristics realistic. A child who’s grown up beyond her years, can be perceptive about relationships and can handle a lot of responsibilities at 16-17 only.

Yep, let’s see how the writers tackle Mini’s evolution in the coming days :)

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Mein to yehi hoon. Weekends I don't get time. Have a young toddler at home so you can understand. Aur upar se new layout don't work in my phone. I can only login from laptop or PC. So I read posts but can't login from phone.

@bold -- Babita in a nutshell.

I love Mini and her bond with both HS and Babes but I want HS and Babes to have some conversations. Open up to each other and not to Mini. She is just 18 years old. She keeps getting lot of emotional weight from both her parents. It would be draining her after a point. I am someone who wants to have her carefree teen years.

When HS first opened up about Imarti, he did that in front of both Mini and Babes. Then all subsequent Imarti references he had was in different conversations with Babita. Hence, Babita could write that letter to Imarti from HS. Babita gets Imarti and HS's love for her.

If HS wants to open up to someone about his mother, I wish it's Babita and not Mini. Babita has emotional capabilities. She rises when her loved ones need her. I don't want him to open up to Mini first about everything. An 18 years old can't be know it all and can do it all. She is mature but I don't think so an 18 years old can handle so much emotional weight without being affected.

HS has already spoken to mini about his mom. he told her how he couldnt save his mom from his dad but mini did.

babita i think dosent know such details.

even today hanuman was almost crying when he was telling mini whose room it was. mini immediately understood & decided she will only clean the room

with babita hanuman only opens up when she probes him or asks him. with mini he himself via a conversation or something like that opens up by himself. needs to reach that stage with babita

Originally posted by: naq5

HS has already spoken to mini about his mom. he told her how he couldnt save his mom from his dad but mini did.

babita i think dosent know such details.

even today hanuman was almost crying when he was telling mini whose room it was. mini immediately understood & decided she will only clean the room

with babita hanuman only opens up when she probes him or asks him. with mini he himself via a conversation or something like that opens up by himself. needs to reach that stage with babita

Actually babita does .. one of the old episodes from early on has a conversation between him & Minnie with babes & lala listening into how his mother was beaten and how he lost her in childhood itself

I wonder how did his HS Mother die. Was she beaten to death or was She ill. I can't see any other way of death because she had a child so suicide is out.

Maybe his Father is in Jail or left home when his Wife died or kicked out by his Grandfather.

Lets see how they show it.

In a way it's sad as HS has no close relatives and Nayeem Be has Children who don't care for her.

So in a way they are now Mother and Son and she has bought him up and its true that's love of Parents is not only through Blood relationship.

Originally posted by: naq5

with babita hanuman only opens up when she probes him or asks him. with mini he himself via a conversation or something like that opens up by himself. needs to reach that stage with babita

Exactly. She has no clue about this part of his life story regarding his mother, except what he said in episode 28, which wasn't much.

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

Actually babita does .. one of the old episodes from early on has a conversation between him & Minnie with babes & lala listening into how his mother was beaten and how he lost her in childhood itself

Yes, Babita knows the basic facts of his Mom’s situation. She overheard him telling Mini during that scene when he first told Mini about his Mom and Imarti. And that was the conversation that changed her mind about staying in the haveli.

In other scenes also, without Babita’s prompting, HS has mentioned his mom and how Babita crying reminds him of his mother’s pain, so he requests her not to cry.

She knows the basic facts but he still needs to let her in some more emotionally.

Originally posted by: AaishaM

Hey. Can I join in the discussion?

I am from Haryana and I can say for sure that HS mother couldn't have worn a Lehnga like that. That's too modern for a Haryanvi bride to wear something like that back in the 80s. 🙈

Thanks for clarifying. I'm relieved to read this because I really don't like the idea of Babita wearing his mother's wedding lehenga.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Thanks for clarifying. I'm relieved to read this because I really don't like the idea of Babita wearing his mother's wedding lehenga.

Actually its not all that strange as some will wear there Parents wedding Dress etc.

Originally posted by: naq5

with babita hanuman only opens up when she probes him or asks him. with mini he himself via a conversation or something like that opens up by himself. needs to reach that stage with babita

But about Imarti, he himself opened up to Babita. He would mention Imarti and bring her up in their conversation just like that.

He would if he is in that head space.