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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I just hope she doesn;t take this as signs of being aloowed to walk all over him because one day the tears that move him so much will no longer hold that power and with Babita she is forever weeping only! Sigh

Yes, the boy who cried wolf situation happening here.
Also, HS will want her to grow up one day! He can't be expected to raise Minnie and her mother. 😆

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose1000


Total agree. Today she said sorry due to all that scolding from NB. Just my thought. Plus, makers generally show some problems before marriage. Then ITV drama during marriage and then truck load of problems after marriage. Wait till the marriage is over.

Last time, she had mini by her side because Ashok too was low life. But this time, if she pulls her ego stunts, Mini has her HS. Those two will leave.

Word.

Couldn't have said it better!

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Posted: 6 years ago
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When I wrote this post.. I was probably relating with Babita's insecurities so much that I overlooked HS's immense love and walking all over part... You can say some personal stuff in my life yesterday prompted me to seek assurance that hanuman was giving to Babita and with your comments I realised that one needs to self introspect and improve as well .. not always relying on others to understand them the way they are😊

Thank you guys for comments and discussion🤗

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose1000


Total agree. Today she said sorry due to all that scolding from NB. Just my thought. Plus, makers generally show some problems before marriage. Then ITV drama during marriage and then truck load of problems after marriage. Wait till the marriage is over.

Last time, she had mini by her side because Ashok too was low life. But this time, if she pulls her ego stunts, Mini has her HS. Those two will leave.

I too felt the same. What if Minnie and Naembi were not there'? Every time Minnie won't be there to correct her. Today Minnie had to give her kasam to make HS look up. He might not agree every time. Some day he will reach a breaking point. I think today only her insecurities got addressed not her ego problem. She will have to do a lot of introspection to make this relationship work.

I don't want Minnie to lose her father again because of this stupid woman. Nowadays Minnie has started understanding that her mother can't see through her mask of happiness. I don't think she will forgive Babitha if the marriage breaks because of her ego. She won't go mothering her this time. Then Babitha will be all alone.I hope she learns her lesson soon

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: riti4u

I can see those deep fears in your eyes..

I can feel those hidden wounds inside..

Loving you wont be easy I know..

As I promise upon those vows...

To be by your side when your world falls apart...

To be by your side when we make this new start...

To be by your side in those happy times...

To be by your side in all those singing rhymes...

We will make this journey all worth the while...

As our destinies entwined as we travel this mile..

Just hold my hand and Smile !

How easily his anger just melts away seeing her tears... He understood her insecurities, he understood what she did why she did it... but he just wanted her to understand him too.. A start was made... She could see his hurt too... She could feel his pain too... And when the realization came .. he was all ready to let it go .. There would be some ups and downs.. but they will solve it together this time... they will make this one work... coz in the end it will be all worth it...!!

A small post for beautiful phone conversation...!

so nicely done.......👏

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: kriya_12

so nicely done.......👏

Thank you dear😊

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: inlieu

Very well written. I just feel he has been shortchanged, even more so after the phone conversation. Bechaara.

Thank you for liking 😊

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Posted: 6 years ago
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No Mini has already started to see her Mother in a new light lately and it will not be too long for her to see that it was not all her Father's fault for the breakdown of her Marriage and that she was equally at fault in it.

Now that she growing up and seeing and understanding life it will not be easy to pull the wool over her eyes.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: guddi01

No Mini has already started to see her Mother in a new light lately and it will not be too long for her to see that it was not all her Father's fault for the breakdown of her Marriage and that she was equally at fault in it.

Now that she growing up and seeing and understanding life it will not be easy to pull the wool over her eyes.

I completely DISAGREE. If Ashok felt lonely, he could have asked babita to move in with him. He didn't. Sorry but it's not her fault that he cheated on her. He could have divorced her before involving with other woman.

Put blame where it belongs.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I strongly disagree with you. Its takes 2 people to make a marriage. She could have insisted to go with him and even when Mini was missing her Father she did nothing.

I suspect and it might come out later that he wanted het to go with him but she choose to stay behind and look after the in laws. I flatly refuse to believe that he never asked her to do so.

Hence his lack of interest in the Wedding. So you are either naive or blinded on the context that all was rosy in there Wedding when infact there was nothing there at all.

In a Marriage its takes two people to make it work not one. There are shades of grey in this Marriage which will be coming in front of Mini soon.

Can't blame the Husband if he went looking elsewhere if its not in the marriage. Gender blame is so easy when not looking at the root cause of the problem.

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