The phone call: ajao saray - Page 6

I did not see any warning signs in today's episode at all. Highlight pls and why are you so negative.

Nope what Nayeem Be said to Mini that all Couples fight and its how they deal with it is the question and answer. There is no such thing as a perfect Marriage but what is more important is the understanding.

I think that Mini was in happy Marriage mode but after what Nayeem be said I think thst she is going to let them sort it out.

I liked it how HS explained that to Babita that they have to work together in this Marriage.

Why you did not like Imarti there is beyond me, it was just Mini's imagination only.

What they are trying to show that at important functions we do remember our dear deceased ones. If you do not feel it than sadly there is no help there for you.

I watched it again in a better quality.

I just loved loved loved the phone conversation. There was so much depth in that one conversation. Awwww my Hanita are back . I wanna see more of these heart to heart convo between them. I am also glad HS brought up that apology scene and also let her know that he understood why she did that. She finally is able to recognize and realize that HS completely and truly understands her and can see the real her, when he said "I know that you are not simple and sidhi shadi, you are complicated". I think today Babita understood that HS realizes her insecurities and accepts her wholeheartedly with it. I think Babita is still in the initial phase but she will eventually get there.. she will also be able to understand him completely with time, and I am glad she acknowledged that she hurt him, was so nice to see that. She truly looked beyond happy after the talk with HS... matlab pura khil rahi thi hamari honewali tanedarni ji 😆

I am so glad that NB pointed out to Minni that HS and Imarti's marriage was not only happy happy, there were lots of sad moments and fights and they overcame those, and made the marriage work. Minni will learn more about this in the near future observing HS and Babita's marital life. Girl is learning all sorts of life lessons 👍🏼. Loved the Minni imagining Imarti part.

P.S. What was the symbolism between Babita holding Mini's hand when she was apologizing to HS, and leaving Mini's hand when HS says "aap aur mein milke solve karlenge, kabhi mein bhatku toh aap guide kardena". I know there was something there, but I am not able to pick it up completely. I would love to hear y'alls thoughts on this.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

P.S. What was the symbolism between Babita holding Mini's hand when she was apologizing to HS, and leaving Mini's hand when HS says "aap aur mein milke solve karlenge, kabhi mein bhatku toh aap guide kardena". I know there was something there, but I am not able to pick it up completely. I would love to hear y'alls thoughts on this.

I saw it as Babita letting go her dependence on Minnie to an extent because now she could now unabashedly count on HS being there for her through thick and thin. I guess his words restored her confidence to a great extent and she didn't feel she needed the security of clinging to her daughter. Also, that this was an aspect of her life she was willing to explore herself, without hand-holding by Minnie.

Originally posted by: guddi01

I did not see any warning signs in today's episode at all. Highlight pls and why are you so negative.

Nope what Nayeem Be said to Mini that all Couples fight and its how they deal with it is the question and answer. There is no such thing as a perfect Marriage but what is more important is the understanding.

I think that Mini was in happy Marriage mode but after what Nayeem be said I think thst she is going to let them sort it out.

I liked it how HS explained that to Babita that they have to work together in this Marriage.

Why you did not like Imarti there is beyond me, it was just Mini's imagination only.

What they are trying to show that at important functions we do remember our dear deceased ones. If you do not feel it than sadly there is no help there for you.

I am not sure why you feel warning signs need to be equated with negativity. The show is realistic and when they give us these hints it's to indicate that things will happen that don't necessarily fit the happily-ever-after frame, but that doesn't make them bad or anything. In real life, nothing is perfect, especially relationships but that's the beauty of them that our show depicts.

"Why you did not like Imarti there is beyond me, it was just Mini's imagination only." I am not sure if this is direct at me. If not, then please ignore my response, if it is, then let me clarify that I have said in another post that I was happy to see a glimpse of her but the over-simplification that Minnie initially had of assuming HS and Imarti had a "perfect" relationship bothered me. She was seeing things as black or white, until NB came and helped her see otherwise.

I felt bad that Minnie had not received such guidance or education in the past and that her experience with love/marriage so far had made her think about things as absolute. Despite being an only child at the Khuranas, she seems to have missed out on good parenting and guidance from her elders. It reminded me that even though she is now surrounded by loads of amazing people now: HS, NB, Lala, Poonam, etc. she still has a long way to go before she develops a better understanding of the intricacies of relationships. She will learn for sure, but for her own sake I wish it didn't always have to be the hard way. She deserves some respite.

As hard as I looked, I did not see any ominous warning and/or negativity.

It was a beautiful episode start to the end.

As always well executed and reiterated one of the life’s message that like everything else in our lives be it our education, our health, our job or business, our career; our personal relationships are hard yakka too. Falling in love is the easier part. Staying in love is the real lifelong hard bit. And it will be no different for Hanita. However with their strong love and trust in each other and the wonderful support of Minnie & others, they’ll be alright. They’ll work it through.

We all have few hidden buttons if pushed, brings out the worst in us.

Whilst Babita has known HS’s buttons, evident when she helped him with his love letter to his late wife and again when she interpreted her real letter, Babita needed to know if HS knew her buttons. In that phone call she got her answer.

late wife’s imagery is to show she has blessed hanita union. Babita letting go Minnie’s hand at that point in conversation shows she can now rely on HS and not on Minnie always like before. Great imagery again

What I see from here is onwards and upwards for their relationship. I see hope. For them. For others out there relating to their story. And I? Well I’ll sit back as always and enjoy 😊

Wishing you all a great relaxed sunny weekend! Have fun.

After HS said everything he said in the phone convo I feel he meant to say that 'don't you worry ... we are in this together'

Originally posted by: Cinnamon_Kisses

After HS said everything he said in the phone convo I feel he meant to say that 'don't you worry ... we are in this together'

Exactly. He didn't want them to get too bogged down by what-ifs so that they could enjoy these moments.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I saw it as Babita letting go her dependence on Minnie to an extent because now she could now unabashedly count on HS being there for her through thick and thin. I guess his words restored her confidence to a great extent and she didn't feel she needed the security of clinging to her daughter. Also, that this was an aspect of her life she was willing to explore herself, without hand-holding by Minnie.

Yup.

Minnie was leaving to give them their privacy but it was Babita who held onto her really tight. Can't remember it fully since I only saw the episode once but I believe she was clutching her to the point of Minnie being physically hurt. It was only when HS told her that they'll be in it together that she finally released her. It was a nice scene as Babes needs to learn how to navigate some issues on her own, without Minnie's help.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I saw it as Babita letting go her dependence on Minnie to an extent because now she could now unabashedly count on HS being there for her through thick and thin. I guess his words restored her confidence to a great extent and she didn't feel she needed the security of clinging to her daughter. Also, that this was an aspect of her life she was willing to explore herself, without hand-holding by Minnie.

Yes I was thinking on this line but couldn't grasp it properly. Thank you.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Minnie is learning that love stories are not fairy tales and that having fights doesn't mean people can't be in a loving relationship. She is going beyond the happily-ever-after image in terms of her thinking. I think it's telling that she is learning bits and pieces from NB.

Anyone else want to see more of this Dadi-poti bond? I think I do. For me it's an extension of HS and Minnie's bond. NB is such a wise woman with such a generous heart and so much to teach others due to her experiences in life, and I have a feeling that HS must have picked up a lot of things from her. She seems to be his mother in every sense. Minnie is getting such a wonderful role model - Beeji is nowhere close to this influential in her life. What a contrast! Just like Ashok did not do much for Minnie's growth, neither did his mother. HS and NB are filling that void.

It's also a great message to society in terms of the opportunity that kids get when their parents remarry, that they find a new extended family too, with whom they can develop and share precious bonds and learn a lot about life. This is the reason why I love the writers on the show - they are never preachy and the way they are showing Minnie's learning process feels really natural.