We all are grey...

We all are grey... So does babes...

She had a bitter past where she was not important for her partner and in this relationship she wants her to be important for HS...thats why she did it... We can take that as her ego.. Or her selfish love...

I don't support her deed Bcoz The way she reacted to. It was wrong...

But it can't be changed now like the words said by HS can't be taken back... Though he said it to make babes and Minni them out of the mess but it was wrong...

Now they have to rectify it...

I am feeling bad for both... Both have to work this out as a team....

Husband wife relationship is very delicate u have to take care of that... U shouldn't come to a conclusion by one incident... Bco we can understand a person when we love them bcoz a person opens up to a person whom they love... Like babita.. She did this only with HS not with anybody else... And like wise HS also do somethings only when he is with babes but not with others...

Let them take their time and sort it out...

Agree. At times we dont accept our partners because of their flaws. And at the end of the day, it takes a toll on the relationship. And at times, even if we are selfless, we dont realise that our relationship becomes a relationship of compromise. There is no love but compromise. And when that happens, there is no point in loving. And Hanuman is extremely selfless, Babita is now taking due advantage. And he has to sacrifice. This should not be a relationship of sacrifice and compromise but of tolerance... Unfortunately, we people dont realise that....

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

Agree. At times we dont accept our partners because of their flaws. And at the end of the day, it takes a toll on the relationship. And at times, even if we are selfless, we dont realise that our relationship becomes a relationship of compromise. There is no love but compromise. And when that happens, there is no point in loving. And Hanuman is extremely selfless, Babita is now taking due advantage. And he has to sacrifice. This should not be a relationship of sacrifice and compromise but of tolerance... Unfortunately, we people dont realise that....

I think it's one day their relationship started... let's see what more to come... I know babes did a blunder by putting a condition... But it's too early to say that she is taking advantage of his love...

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

I think it's one day their relationship started... let's see what more to come... I know babes did a blunder by putting a condition... But it's too early to say that she is taking advantage of his love...

That's exactly what I said dear. Just see some pages before. And this is not the first time. This even happened when HS was declared a murderer. I have never experienced this romantic feeling, so I dont know what is first day, second day. According to me, mature decisions should be taken from day one of the relationship. Otherwise there is no use. And do refer to my previous replies, I have also said what you have said.

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

Agree. At times we dont accept our partners because of their flaws. And at the end of the day, it takes a toll on the relationship. And at times, even if we are selfless, we dont realise that our relationship becomes a relationship of compromise. There is no love but compromise. And when that happens, there is no point in loving. And Hanuman is extremely selfless, Babita is now taking due advantage. And he has to sacrifice. This should not be a relationship of sacrifice and compromise but of tolerance... Unfortunately, we people dont realise that....

My take in general on such things is that it's ok to compromise in a relationship but not when the relationship itself becomes a compromise.

HS is smart, and I know that in the long run he will not let it happen, not for himself and definitely not for Minnie. The last thing he'd want is for her to go through the same trauma again.

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

That's exactly what I said dear. Just see some pages before. And this is not the first time. This even happened when HS was declared a murderer. I have never experienced this romantic feeling, so I dont know what is first day, second day. According to me, mature decisions should be taken from day one of the relationship. Otherwise there is no use. And do refer to my previous replies, I have also said what you have said.

does HS don't know that Babita has ego issue... he clearly knows it... and he have experienced it as well...thats why he waiting for her to. come and tell him about them... Bcoz he wanted her to come out of shell. the so called self respect or ego... and one more thing that he was scared of getting rejected again bcoz of her ego and that why he said to naeem bi and minni that iss baar to pehel use hi karna hoga...

But even after seeing her berukha attitude during imarti case also he accepted her proposal bcoz he accepted her with her flaws... But what had hurt him was the way Babita dealt the situation... The condition... This is making him to think again...

Though it's not their first day together but it's the first day only after they accepted theirs feeling for each other and conveyed them....

CVS are just trying to show us that everybody is imperfect u have to accept an they are... If u love them and share ur views with them correct them if they are wrong...only thing in a relationship is u should not judge ur partner....

Originally posted by: inlieu

My take in general on such things is that it's ok to compromise in a relationship but not when the relationship itself becomes a compromise.

HS is smart, and I know that in the long run he will not let it happen, not for himself and definitely not for Minnie. The last thing he'd want is for her to go through the same trauma again.

I know relationship should not be a compromise... But do u think acting like u r not hurt with the words of ur partner is right... O don't think it's right in long run... Bcoz ek na ek Din to volcano phutega and at that time the words will do the major damage than this confrontation...

Why should he not show to her that he is hurt or the first question I had in my mind when he went after saying sorry... Why don't he question her that why she left him even when she knows that he have not murdered imarti... Why don't they share their hurt to each other...

Instead she kept a condition and he fulfilled. It but was hurt too...

It's important to speak out about ur feelings to ur partner u cannot suppress it hurt anger when it comes to ur partner bcoz it will. Do theore damage....

I hope CVS clear this soon...

Both of them are right as per their attitude and both of them are wrong as per the relationship aspect that too if to be husband wife....

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

I know relationship should not be a compromise... But do u think acting like u r not hurt with the words of ur partner is right... O don't think it's right in long run... Bcoz ek na ek Din to volcano phutega and at that time the words will do the major damage than this confrontation...

Why should he not show to her that he is hurt or the first question I had in my mind when he went after saying sorry... Why don't he question her that why she left him even when she knows that he have not murdered imarti... Why don't they share their hurt to each other...

Instead she kept a condition and he fulfilled. It but was hurt too...

It's important to speak out about ur feelings to ur partner u cannot suppress it hurt anger when it comes to ur partner bcoz it will. Do theore damage....

I hope CVS clear this soon...

Both of them are right as per their attitude and both of them are wrong as per the relationship aspect that too if to be husband wife....

I was just writing this elsewhere. He has to stop over-compensating. As per his conversation with Minnie a while ago, he was doing penance for being unable to help his mother. This leads him to being too accommodating which is fine once in a while but as a general pattern it will do him no good.

As I was saying yesterday, has to stand up for himself and his right to happiness too. It is also a second chance in life for him.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I was just writing this elsewhere. He has to stop over-compensating. As per his conversation with Minnie a while ago, he was doing penance for being unable to help his mother. This leads him to being too accommodating which is fine once in a while but as a general pattern it will do him no good.

As I was saying yesterday, has to stand up for himself and his right to happiness too. It is also a second chance in life for him.

exactly he has to take a stand for himself not for anyone not even Minni... after all. it's he who have to be I'm the relationship and he needs to voice out his feelings and insecurities too....

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

exactly he has to take a stand for himself not for anyone not even Minni... after all. it's he who have to be I'm the relationship and he needs to voice out his feelings and insecurities too....

I think he is so afraid of hurting Minnie or letting her experience any trauma, especially after the hospital incident and her outburst before that, that he will be trapped in this vicious cycle. I think only Minnie herself can release him from it when she realizes what is happening to him.