Butchered character... - Page 4

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

@bold.. This what is also bothering me... If he is not over imarti how did he fall for babes... Is that he sees. Imarti In babes... Which is totally wrong....

Only thing is they both have to talk yaar... Which they won't.. Bas ek dusre pe chillte hai air jhagadte hai....

Yes but this entire jhagadna is only HS ...he has hurt Babita badly...why are we not saying this ...she was so caring towards him

Originally posted by: Ranjali

Her major reason to leave Hanuman's house was his rejection to her. Even minni accused her for the same.

And I feel this time it's not her fault. She is upset because Hanuman was hidding things from them. And previous day he was very harsh on her and actually made her feel unwanted.

It hurts when someone very to you behaves badly with you and hides things from you.

The actual reason was the same his reaction and his harsh words about her character....

Ashok Khurana did this already once and KY so long for her to come out of it... Now this man whom she loves has also done the same whatever may be the reason is nobody deserves such words....

But my question is just that if he was hurt she would have left the house before only not after this case ka revelation... Though she was hurt but she was doing the Pooja and all with that diya which she says is of imarti... Y dint she got the very next morning... That would have been more realistic than after knowing about the case... Here they CVS have done wrong... Any woman can't take such a humiliation that from a person whom she trust the most....

Or else is she thought to maintain tenant and landlord relationship only then that she would have done by staying back even after knowing the case also bcoz if he is just a landlord it shouldn't effect her as even if he is a murderer and if she left house out of fear then she will never leave Minni there with a murderer

I dint like the excuse she gave....infact she should have given the actual reason then her leaving house would have mattered in a different way... But I support her as she stood for her self-respect.... She dint take his shit though she loves him... No man has rights to hurt a woman character....

This is just my view...

Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

Yes but this entire jhagadna is only HS ...he has hurt Babita badly...why are we not saying this ...she was so caring towards him

Yeah I know HS was harsh with words...whatever be the reason u can't say such words to a woman that too she who loves you... and I stand for Babita for that I respect her decision of leaving him... But she should say the reason of leaving him... She should not hide behind the case... And she should have done that first thing in the morning...

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

No dear I m not bashing her yaar... I m just confused that how is her mind set and character got changed just by seeing the case report... The man she was living since months and his character dint she able to understand him that he can't do such crime.. That too with imarti...

Please don't take that I m bashing her but I dint like her reaction to situation it was more kiddish...

They have stayed together only for few months. Sometimes it takes years to understand people and at times only few moments together are enough.

Idk why the forum is being so harsh on Babita. She is a human. She felt bad when Hanuman was rude to her and rejected her. Hanuman has discussed about imarti in the past but he never told her about court case and all. You tend to feel hurt when someone close to you hides things from you. Then you are in a dilemma whether to trust or not. Babita needs time to understand.

Originally posted by: Ranjali

They have stayed together only for few months. Sometimes it takes years to understand people and at times only few moments together are enough.

Idk why the forum is being so harsh on Babita. She is a human. She felt bad when Hanuman was rude to her and rejected her. Hanuman has discussed about imarti in the past but he never told her about court case and all. You tend to feel hurt when someone close to you hides things from you. Then you are in a dilemma whether to trust or not. Babita needs time to understand.

this post is not to bash Babita...

Her decision of leaving him at wrong time made this all. Issue... If she was standing for her self-respect she should have done it the first thing in the morning.... Not like hiding behind the case and leaving him...just like Minni said u r just hiding behind the case but your thoughts are about last night encounter... What I say is even at least when Minni asked she should have told her the reason at least it I say she was herself confused about her reaction... She herself can't figure out Why Was she reacting to the situation in that manner...

I would be happy if she clears this to both Minni and hanuman once everything is sorted...

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Yeah I know HS was harsh with words...whatever be the reason u can't say such words to a woman that too she who loves you... and I stand for Babita for that I respect her decision of leaving him... But she should say the reason of leaving him... She should not hide behind the case... And she should have done that first thing in the morning...

Don’t worry end me Sab theek hoga ...anyways don’t think that story is going to last for many days 😀

Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

Don’t worry end me Sab theek hoga ...anyways don’t think that story is going to last for many days 😀

I know mostly they will end Sasur damaad issue this week may be by next they will sort hanita issue....

I've always felt that there is an imbalance in the dynamics between HS and Babita because of all that HS has done for Babita; with HS always giving and Babita at the receiving end. And this point comes up when Babita tells HS not to do more favours or when HS feels bad when Babita says thanks or returns his money.

I think the crux of the problem is the huge favour HS has done for Babita and the fact that its because of him, she is able to be what she is currently in her life. So somewhere viewers expect that she needs to be obligated and return the favour by supporting HS at his time of need... and there is nothing wrong with this expectation. I guess Babita too would have done it if things hadn't soured between her and HS; if her hurt emotions hadn't gotten the better of her. She had the choice of either giving into her hurt emotions and leave or look beyond her hurt and stand by HS. She chose the former.... and I think while she started to have some feelings for HS, she isn't as emotionally invested in him. She hasn't reached that stage where she can emotionally invest in someone; and considering what she has gone through, it's somewhat understandable that she felt emotionally safe to cut her losses and escape. It's just unfortunate that this had to happen when HS is going through a tough time.

I don't think Babita's character is butchered... because if she is expected to support HS purely because of what he did for her, that would be like putting a price tag on HS's help. I guess the writers want to show that this love-story has a lot of working on; its not a simple matter of confession. Babita needs to learn to emotionally invest in HS and his life; and HS needs to learn to move on from his past.