Originally posted by: deefy89
I will probably get slated for saying this because I’ve noticed that some ppl get really full on if a person criticises a character that they like. I have mixed feelings on today’s episode. The first part of it where mini was setting up Hs clothes and stuff was just so sweet.
The second part of it with mini pushing to know about imarti and then going thru her stuff and the conversation after I weren’t impressed with.
The issue I have is that since mini found out about Hs feelings for her mum, she treated him like he had somehow wronged the pair of them. I get that she’s since realised she was wrong to do that but that does not mean that now just because she’s found out her mother likes Hs that everything must now move at the pace she wants it to. They have not even told each other of their feelings yet mini is insisting what about her babes, where’s the space in his heart for her?! I feel like the way they approached this was really wrong with mini being so pushy. As for babita, all this time she insisted she doesn’t want another relationship and what would ppl say etc, but then suddenly today she’s talking about how she’s been wanting a partner who will treat her daughter like he’s own. So just because babita is “ready” it’s automatically assumed that Hs is ready for his next step and he’s treated aggressively by mini when it appears as tho he’s not.
Where’s the expecTation come where mini said “why did u get my babes hopes up”?! When did he ever do that? As far as I’m aware, all this time he’s received no indication that babita feels the same about him so how is he at fault here? I just feel like they handled the whole thing really badly and it seems to be the way this mother and daughter do things, just wanting things to fall into place when and where they say no, and everyone else has just got to jump in line and do as they’re told.
Such a sensitive issue yet mini approached it by shouting in his face about how his wife is dead and her mum is alive? Is mini now in charge of her mothers love life also? Would it not have been better for Hs and babita to work this issue out together, alone.? I jus thought the whole thing was really insensitive to hs