My take from the precape and what he told Mini about the fine line in Love etc.
I think he is talking about his suppressed passion and love which she might not be able to handle as she needs to understand him first and want him for himself and to order him to give up drinks needs to understand him first.
He knows everything to know about Babita Life etc with Ashok, which HS has seen and understood there relationship and his willingness to help her to get strong etc. All the talks that they had at night and he knew how to tap into her emotions to get her to be strong and late night talks etc is there time together to talk and understand
But in all of this happening, Babita has not even asked or talked to him about his late Wife etc, I think to get some type of explanation of how his life was and the loss of his Wife and Child and him turning to Drink etc. We know how he hated his drunk Father and what he did to his Mother. In the same way Babita needs to understand his past to understand him and help him to move forward they way that he helped her to do so.
I think for Babita to help him in giving up his drinking needs to understand him first and to put his past behind him.
They seem to have the night time to talk etc. This we see everytime.
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